Family & Relationships - 19 September 2006

I think people tend to think I'm someone I'm not.
Guys have told I'm that I'm sexy and when they find out that I'm a virgin they don't believe me at first. I don't dress skanky but maybe its cuz I have long hair, big eyes and lips, and curves? Being sexy doesn't mean a person is sexual cuz I haven't even gone past kissing. I think I may be attracting the wrong guys, guys how do you judge a girl by her looks?

2006-09-19 15:35:10 · 11 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1 in Singles & Dating

hey
i like a girl and she has a boy friend
but she seems like she is coming to me, she thinks that i am cool, she talks about me infront of her friends and she is pretty.
she has a bf and that is the problem, she doesn't feel very happy with him because they dont have trust in their relationship. she comes to me but not in a direct way so her bf would not realize anything, but she does not like him that much because he smokes.
what should i do to get this girl? (likes me but has a bf)
points for the best answer

2006-09-19 15:35:07 · 15 answers · asked by the dangerous guy 2 in Singles & Dating

Hye, i'm 25 and i'm still single .I never had any intimate relationships b4 as i believe that it shud only be done with someone I truly love and I havent' found such a person in my life yet.MY problem is that, every night, I can't sleep in a normal way, meaning, i can't just lie on the bed, close my eyes and just sleep or read a book and thn knock off.I have this problem wherby i hav to Masterbate every time b4 i go to sleep.Sumtimes i feel drained out of energy each night when I do this repeatedly but I can only sleep after I do this act.Once i tried to avoid M'bating but it only resulted in me not sleeping for 2 nights.Is there sumthing wrong with me?I did go thru major depression 1 year back and now i'm doing meditation and mind calming but the night sleep activity has stil not left me yet.I feel like I'm not capable of sleeping in a normal way.Please help me and i hope i did not ask sumthing tht's too "obscene".I m having this problem and i'd like a solution as i feel shy.

2006-09-19 15:34:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anisha81 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have be stepping for the past two years, every other weekend, and the older my 10 years old step child gets the more withdrawn she is to her father and myself. I have no children of my owe so I do not know if this is the way 10 year old children acts. We are not talking to the mother who is my husbands ex girl friend, in fact next Monday we are taking the mother to court for Welfare fraud which is over $40 K. While they were living together for six years the mother had welfare sent to another address in another city and county. All my husband and I want to do is to love this ten year old child, and teach her honesty, respect, and be a good person in society. Last week the child told us her mother said if she does not want to visit her dad and me any more, all she needs to do is say she is being abuse and she will never need to come over to her dad's home again. In the first year, the child was loving and close to us but as closer the court dat

2006-09-19 15:34:03 · 14 answers · asked by Errolyn27 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-19 15:33:42 · 17 answers · asked by unknown 1 in Friends

im cheating on my husband with this guy and he does any pay me enough attenion what should i do should i leave him only? (keep in mind my husband is lock up for 4 years)

2006-09-19 15:33:17 · 9 answers · asked by SHASON 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Which is more important to you ladies, Physical appearance or emotional behavior (nice guys, not nice guys, etc.)

2006-09-19 15:33:05 · 21 answers · asked by Devin 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-19 15:32:37 · 13 answers · asked by curiosity 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My guy broke up with me not because another girl but because at certain points in the past I was being too clingy. He's kind of shy, isn't really popular with girls, not really a ladies' type(I was his 1st girlfriend in his 21 years and we've been together for 9 months). But he does have a lot of brothers in his fraternity and they have a lot of activities together. So even without a girlfriend, he has a life. Since he thinks I called too much, now I stopped calling him b/c he wouldn't pick up the phone anyway. Our communal friend Mike asked him about 5 days ago: "Are you gonna get back together?" He said, not sure, but he's thinking about it. So I just don't understand whether he meant he's thinking about getting back together or about whether to get back together. What do you think? Would a guy like that want me back?

Thanks a lot!

2006-09-19 15:32:36 · 11 answers · asked by little asian gal in cresent city 2 in Singles & Dating

i'm just wanting a truthful answer to this Question, when you are looking for a man,i mean really looking for a good man,please be honest and tell me, when you (look) at a guy, befor ever talking to him,or introdusing yourself. what is it you look at the most from the outside?

2006-09-19 15:32:35 · 24 answers · asked by rpoker 6 in Singles & Dating

My guy broke up with me not because another girl but because at certain points in the past I was being too clingy. He's kind of shy, isn't really popular with girls, not really a ladies' type(I was his 1st girlfriend in his 21 years and we've been together for 9 months). But he does have a lot of brothers in his fraternity and they have a lot of activities together. So even without a girlfriend, he has a life. Since he thinks I called too much, now I stopped calling him b/c he wouldn't pick up the phone anyway. Our communal Mike asked him about 5 days ago: "Are you gonna get back together?" He said, not sure, but he's thinking about it. So I just don't understand whether he meant he's thinking about getting back together or about whether to get back together. What do you think? Would a guy like that want me back?

Thanks a lot!

2006-09-19 15:31:56 · 8 answers · asked by little asian gal in cresent city 2 in Singles & Dating

What do you do when you go out with a man? I have always wondered what it would be like to take a girl from a big city with me on Sat. night we would turn 10 or 12 foxhounds loose and then set back and listen to them run their game all night under the stars .

2006-09-19 15:31:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Just want to see how she is doing a lost love. Last I know she was living in E. Hartford CT in 1989

2006-09-19 15:31:06 · 3 answers · asked by wow one 3 in Friends

have u ever hurt anyone by addiction? If so how do u gain that persons respect, or trust? How did u overcome the addiction? I am talkin about any addiction! Just lookin for some advice on addiction! I really lost hubbys trust on my addiction he helped me once, but I started it again! Will he ever trust me again? I honestly think he's goin to leave me, I dont blame him. Any way to make it better? I feel it's already to late, things cant go back to the way they were, will it ever be normal again?
Please dont be rude in ur answers, I made a HUGE mistake and I am truely sorry for it. How could I have let this happen?
No I didnt nor have I ever cheated on my spouse, just so u all know!

2006-09-19 15:30:49 · 17 answers · asked by boobear 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

If a gay guy starts talking a lot with another guy (let's say str8), does he notice the other guy is gay or couldn't he notice it and think he only wants 2 be friends???

2006-09-19 15:30:37 · 10 answers · asked by kleineprinzessin_7 1 in Friends

2006-09-19 15:30:35 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm not asking if he's cheating, cuz I know he's not and I'm not trying to leave him, so don't tell me that crap. We don't need counseling, we're doing good...he just couldn't remember and apologized for it. Now I feel very hurt. Has anybody else's spouse done anything like this?

2006-09-19 15:30:33 · 24 answers · asked by breaker_1020 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm starting to think elope, because people act a damn fool while planning weddings. Everyone wants to have a say in how YOUR wedding should go, and focus on the wrong things. I'm starting to think that we (my fiance and I) would be better off just eloping, than putting up with this bullshit.

2006-09-19 15:30:26 · 16 answers · asked by Righteous1 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend ask me to married him, and I been waiting for it for so long but now that its really here I'm thoughting it.What should I do?

2006-09-19 15:30:06 · 14 answers · asked by Isabel J 1 in Weddings

meeting on hi5, then chatting, then talking on phone. He doesnt have a girlfriend...but hes all the time leaving messages for girls on a site like my space...like hey babe just stoppin by then if they respond hell ask them if they have msn...meanwhile...we talk all the freakin time, watch movies together online, watch eachother sleep, its ridiculous, we went on a date a few weeks ago, it was like something out of a movie...we live far away but hes makin future plans to see me in nov. when we are both in chicago again and to bring me stuff back from his vacation in dec. Is he just playin me? If he was playin me...why would he want to spend all this time wit me and tell me he misses me when im not around and is always tryin to get ahold of me? but i sense sometimes hes talking to other people online and ive asked if he wants a relationship...he said not now bc he was hurt so bad before but hes willing to see what happens...should i be jealous of these other people he talks to?

2006-09-19 15:29:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-19 15:28:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I met this guy in a bar he was very into me, he followed me everywhere in that bar and we spent most of time together. Before I left, he asked my number and he called me 2 days later asked me out, i said ok, but he just messaged me said he is busy tonight and won't make it, and ask me if i can meet him next week.Btw he is very cute and nice I like him. But i don't want to look needy or desperate, which I'm definitely not. Q1, Is he really busy or he just changed his mind? Or is he just playing?? Q2,should I say yes when he asks me out again?

2006-09-19 15:28:24 · 21 answers · asked by MIssalli 1 in Singles & Dating

theres this girl i like but she alredy has a boyfriend. it seems like there about to break up. should i tell her how i feel about her now or after they break up?

2006-09-19 15:27:37 · 21 answers · asked by perrydog 1 in Singles & Dating

sorry typo those who answered my last qustion i am 50lbs overweight and i ment t say i weigh 155lb is that fat?? i have tryed every thing my mom told me that it was mostly muscle but i dont think so?? i am scared to ask him out!! 4 those who dont know what i am talking about i want to ask a guy to the dance on friday but i am scared i am to fat , am i???

2006-09-19 15:27:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what would u do?

2006-09-19 15:27:21 · 28 answers · asked by Daddy's Good Girl 2 in Singles & Dating

What I mean is do you ever wonder how different your life would have turned out if you had married someone else or chosen a different career path.

2006-09-19 15:27:06 · 20 answers · asked by Cardinal64 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-19 15:26:47 · 4 answers · asked by just ? 1 in Singles & Dating

does it turn u on at all? If i was a girl i would get really turned on by it. It would just be nice to be that sexy, i sometimes dress up in womens clothes and get really turned on by it, do u??

2006-09-19 15:26:33 · 7 answers · asked by mikey 1 in Singles & Dating

wat are the following?
sump pit room
strong room
colirifier room
chiller plant room
marketing
marketing director
director staff
capital room
steam boiler room
filtration plant room
provident fund room
human resources room
maids breifing room

all of these can be found in a hotel wat are the activities inside

i'll appreciate ur help.

2006-09-19 15:25:55 · 6 answers · asked by ♥switie♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

would you enjoy it? what would you look at specifically?

2006-09-19 15:25:16 · 18 answers · asked by Randy W 1 in Singles & Dating