Guys how do you judge a girl by her looks?

Question

I think people tend to think I'm someone I'm not.
Guys have told I'm that I'm sexy and when they find out that I'm a virgin they don't believe me at first. I don't dress skanky but maybe its cuz I have long hair, big eyes and lips, and curves? Being sexy doesn't mean a person is sexual cuz I haven't even gone past kissing. I think I may be attracting the wrong guys, guys how do you judge a girl by her looks?

Answer 1

The hotter a girl is, the more readily most guys assume she's a slut. Also, the amount of confidence you show plays a role. You should not let that stop you though. You should be confident for yourself.

Good looking girls will attract all sorts of guys (I guess 'all guys' is a better expression :P ) But as long as you are also gentle and kind towards others, you will attract the right guys. Your task is then to say no to all the idiots and find the nice guy you like and ask him out.

Good luck. And don't let an a$$hole pressure you into anything. You are a confident girl and you should stay that way.

Answer 2

lol, i love giving advice to sad girls! dear oh dear missy! First of all dressing in short skirts too often makes boys think ur slutty, u should wear trousers or long skirt 9 out of ten times. Second putting fake tan on makes u look really cheap and slutty. Thirdly it may be ur personality. If u are very open about ur sexuality, always saying how nice brad pitt is etc, then thats also a real turn off and makes u seem slutty. Most girls dont have very strong sex drives and if they do they dont admit it.
In short if u want blokes to respect u then act like a lady not a tramp!

Answer 3

Well it is a funny thing, because everyone thinks they can make good judgements by looks, but first impressions are usually always wrong. It is difficult to know what kind of impression someone might get without being able to see you. Maybe they are just surprised because most attractive girls give in to sex and it is rare to find someone who hasn't. Maybe you are attracting guys who just want you for sex and are disappointed when they discover you may not be ready to give it to them. If you want to send me a pic I will give you an honest opinion of what my first impression might be (though it will be hard not to be biased based on the information you have given).

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Answer 4

I prefer to not judge at all. Looks get my attention,sure, but what's on the inside is what I find appealing. Nice personality, intelligence, good sense of humor, that sort of thing. If you possess those qualities, and these little horn-dogs don't recognize it, then figure you're well off for ignoring them. Their loss. Not to worry, some day you will meet the right guy. You'll know when it happens.

Answer 5

They don't believe you? Don't bother. Your right guy WILL come. I personally believe that virginity will be your best gift to that right one. In the meantime, hold on til the right one comes along.

Answer 6

well as a female I can tell you that yes alot of men do in fact judge a girl by her looks. Happens to me every stinking day of my life. Unfortunately for me I am one ugly woman. Hey atleast Im honest.

Answer 7

if she dresses like a freak.. we say FREAK!
if you dress with your clothes tight we will think you are sexy and that you want us to say that and youre looking for a sex buddy! if you dress like a lady we will treat you like one.

Answer 8

first of all, i don't judge by looks. personality is the entire thing, the relationship is more important than casaba melons.

Answer 9

hey.
i have somewhat the same problem. guys say im hot. and most of them want sex. and then they leave me when they dont get it. i think its the guy(some of them!). i dont know, and i dont want to say nething wrong. so i wont say much. but they look at you as what you look like(again, some of them) but others go for what you look like and what goes with your looks like your attitude. idk, . like they say, what you see isnt always what u get.

Answer 10

Big tit's, small a**