My guy broke up with me not because another girl but because at certain points in the past I was being too clingy. He's kind of shy, isn't really popular with girls, not really a ladies' type(I was his 1st girlfriend in his 21 years and we've been together for 9 months). But he does have a lot of brothers in his fraternity and they have a lot of activities together. So even without a girlfriend, he has a life. Since he thinks I called too much, now I stopped calling him b/c he wouldn't pick up the phone anyway. Our communal friend Mike asked him about 5 days ago: "Are you gonna get back together?" He said, not sure, but he's thinking about it. So I just don't understand whether he meant he's thinking about getting back together or about whether to get back together. What do you think? Would a guy like that want me back?
Thanks a lot!
2006-09-19 15:32:36 · 11 answers · asked by little asian gal in cresent city 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes... i broke up with a girl almost a yr ago and i would do anything to get her back
2006-09-19 15:34:21 · answer #1 · answered by cooky_usnr50 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl please don't let ur pride down!!! u no he is thinking about it...do u truly know what it means? he is choosing between life with u and life without u..the fact that he is in doubt is already saying that he is not sure which life will be better for HIM..and it also means that U r not that great of a person TO HIM...if he really wanted u back, he would have done anything to get u back by this time...he would not think....when u think u can't live without someone, u just try to get them back and u dont sit there and count all advantages and disadvantages...the fact that he is thinking actually says he has a cool heart towards u because when ur heart is speaking u just go for it....he is thinking with his MIND...he probably wants to get laid or is choosing bw u and someone else...
the main point is dont sit around and wait for this guy...he is not worth it...dont let urself down girl..all the best
2006-09-19 22:45:59 · answer #2 · answered by jjj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first suggestion is to stop being so clingy. If the guy wants you back, he'll take you...if not, better start looking for a new boyfriend.
2006-09-19 22:36:50 · answer #3 · answered by eyeque195 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get Mike to ask more questions, say your still interested (not right away) just give it a little time maybe or hopefully he'll come back around
2006-09-19 22:36:38 · answer #4 · answered by touringtaylor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to get someone back that has broken up with you is to move on. Don't keep in contact with them. You have to give them time to miss you and think about you, which they will not do if your always around. Giving them lots of space is the only way to win them back (oh, and don't tell them your giving them space, just give them space)
2006-09-19 22:44:43 · answer #5 · answered by bigbadwolf 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ive never gone back .
if i needed to break up it was for a good reason .
I will not lower my expectations just to have someone .
That is just plain foolish .
I want love ,respect and many things in common .
You do know as we age our bodies change and all we have left is good conversation ,memories and each other .
2006-09-19 22:37:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the real question is why would you want a guy like that? hey dont waste your time on this guy! if he does not value who you are then there is someone else who would love you being clingy!
2006-09-19 22:36:11 · answer #7 · answered by DUSTY 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just leave him alone girl if he want`s you he will call if not move on
2006-09-19 22:36:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never, ever want an ex back. NEVER!
2006-09-19 22:38:30 · answer #9 · answered by Dusty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i definitly hopw so for my sake anyays
2006-09-19 22:35:00 · answer #10 · answered by ash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋