hey
i like a girl and she has a boy friend
but she seems like she is coming to me, she thinks that i am cool, she talks about me infront of her friends and she is pretty.
she has a bf and that is the problem, she doesn't feel very happy with him because they dont have trust in their relationship. she comes to me but not in a direct way so her bf would not realize anything, but she does not like him that much because he smokes.
what should i do to get this girl? (likes me but has a bf)
points for the best answer
2006-09-19 15:35:07 · 15 answers · asked by the dangerous guy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
JUST BE HER FRIEND TILL SHE IS SINGLE THEN ASK HER OUT...THINK ABOUT IT IF YOU WERE THE OTHER GUY HOW WOULD YOU FEEL...BEFORE YOU START ANYTHING MAKE SURE SHE BREAKS UP WITH HER BF BECAUSE NEXT TIME IT COULD BE YOU...FOR SOME OTHER REASON....IF SHE IS A GIRL WORTH DATING SHE HAS TO HAVE SOME MORALS AND CHEATING ISN'T GOING TO BE ONE OF THEM...GOOD LUCK...
2006-09-19 15:44:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As much as you like this girl the best thing to do is not to try and break up her and her bf because she or he is bound to realize it and then be angry at you.I suggest you need to wait till she gets up the courage to breakup with him and then after a good time for every 4 months they dated 1 month for her to get over him so you don't catch her on the rebound since rebounds never work.I say next time she talks to you about the faults in her boyfriend or problems try asking a question like not to be mean about your boyfriend but why are you dating him if he is so mean and has all the problems you described.Don't start the conversation on what a bad guy he is let her start it that way she doesn't realize what is going on.Do you not engage in any activity holding hands,kissing,etc. to make her boyfriend jealous because then he will not want her hanging around you and will make it awkward.
2006-09-19 22:42:15 · answer #2 · answered by movin12006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she will break up with her boyfriend to be with you, then down the road it is VERY likely that she will break up with you for another guy and when that happens she will think of reasons to make you look bad. Not that she is a bad person, but precedent is a good way to know about the future.
But if she and this guy break up or something, then totally go out with her if that is what you want.
2006-09-19 22:39:21 · answer #3 · answered by im_just_me_612 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first does she like u or does she want 2 be with u. if she is not that interested in her bf then simple she has 2 end it. if she has not already ended it then she probably isnt/
u my man I think r the shoulder 2 cry on. tell her straight out that she should leave this jerk n that u would like 2 eventually start dating her. see what happens. if she gives u reasons why she cannot leave him then guess what u r friend status
good luck
2006-09-19 22:38:38 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Geo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey there dangerous guy.
Well what I would want you to do if I was that girl, especially if you think that she might like you and find you attractive, is keep talking to her and being around her, don't be annoying or anything but definitely show her that you are interested in her and find her attractive. Like say, "Mmm...something smells really nice, are you wearing perfume?" Ask her what it is and tell her that you think that it smells nice! Compliments and things like that will win her over! Good luck!
2006-09-19 22:38:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably won't like my answer, but this is my heartfelt feelings on the subject: leave her alone until she is single again. Take it from one who knows. I stole a woman's husband, and it has caused me nothing but grief ever since. You'll always think to yourself: if I could steal her away from another guy, couldn't another guy steal her from me? Find a good girl who isn't spoken for and you'll have a lot more peace in your life. Good luck to you, hon.
2006-09-19 22:39:33 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple, just be nice to her, invite her to come over to your house after school, then tell her you are not out to try anything, just hang out with her. When she comes over, just hang out, laugh and have fun. Show her what a fun guy you are & what she's missing. After being around her for a while, she will dump him.
2006-09-19 22:39:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself, don't put on airs( like something you are not)
Be truthful...remember girls can't read your mind...you must say what you need to say for her to understand.
Be respectful and in tune to her likes and dislikes. Call her and talk to her via phone. You must make the first step....Good Luck.
2006-09-19 22:41:18 · answer #8 · answered by Lore 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since she has a boyfriend let her alone. Find yourself a single girl.
2006-09-19 22:37:42 · answer #9 · answered by Dusty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ya'll are close enough where you can tell her to break up with him, do it. Obviously, if she doesn't like him why the hell is she with him. If she likes you then hey more poonanny for you!!
2006-09-19 22:40:08 · answer #10 · answered by yourqueenofall 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋