Family & Relationships - 19 September 2006

I've been dating a guy for a few months and we were hanging out everyday and calling eachother non stop for the first 2 months. A few days ago, he uses the "I need space" excuse. I've also noticed he hasn't been returning my calls and he barely wants to spend any time with me. I asked him why and he said that he wants to take things slower because he wants us to last. But how do you go from moving 100 mph to 10 mph in a relationship?

I've been thinking the worst and trying to not let him hurt my heart but its too late. I'm crushed inside. I don't know if I should believe him or just move on because he is sending me mixed signals. He keeps calling me like he wants to be friends. When I ignore his calls and give him his "space", he calls and calls. I'm really confused and hurt at this point because as soon as I think I'm getting over his "I need space" excuse, here he comes calling me and I talk to him because I really like him. I'm tired of the games. What should I make of this?

2006-09-19 15:49:03 · 9 answers · asked by chocolatebabycakes 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-19 15:49:00 · 11 answers · asked by just me 1 in Singles & Dating

not sure there is an answer, there is this girl at work she is a part time worker has been an outstanding employee from day one and I am her supervisor... She is a lot younger than me mid 20s is married a mom and seems happy, last semster of her chem degree honor role student and is super smart and the sexiest hottest woman I have ever known and her and I are very good friends. as a matter of fact when she isn't working she drops by to vist between classes or go for lunch or on the phone, we get along so good and her husband doesn't seem to care... we sometimes flirt, I know she has feelings for me and she knows I have them for her but also have a great amount of respect for each other!!! can't stop thinking of her dream of her, she told me she has dreams of me.. What do I do????

2006-09-19 15:48:17 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i couldnt find something the other day and my husband said it was where i had already looked but i refused to believe it was there. he said to me if i find it there i get to twist your nipple i agreed he found it but i didnt let him twist my nipple he has been trying to for 2 days now im affraid he is gonna get me in my sleep, should i just go ahead and hold me end of the bet.

2006-09-19 15:48:12 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What are some signs to tell the difference between friendship, and really liking the person as more than just a friend?

2006-09-19 15:47:36 · 5 answers · asked by sweetchick 1 in Friends

how do i ask out a guy? how do i tell him that i want 2 go out with him ? HELP ME PLZ ?

2006-09-19 15:47:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-19 15:47:01 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-19 15:46:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I dated this guy for a year and 6 months and i had a miscarriage by him and we broke up and now he is gettin married and i guess i thought that we would always be together and now it is driving me crazy. What should i do?

2006-09-19 15:44:59 · 57 answers · asked by Samantha M 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 19 (I'll be 20 in Dec) and my bf is 18 (19 in march) we wanted to move-in together and since we don't believe in living in sin we want to get married. Even though we are capable of doing on our on his mother offered to let us stay with her (paying $300 rent) as long as we got married, stayed in school, and remained spiritual (attend church regularly). My parents however aren't so cool with the idea and want my boyfriend gone, my head in the books, and for me to see the world. Getting married will seriously damage my relationship with my family but it's what i want to do. My heart is battling my head what would you do??

2006-09-19 15:44:51 · 31 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

let's face it, the last thing you need is gas or something!!!

2006-09-19 15:44:50 · 17 answers · asked by ang268 1 in Singles & Dating

see the thing is i hurt my ex boyfriend like four years ago.and after i did it i really missed him and i realized that i loved him. well like a year and a couple months after that i emailed him and he ruturned my email and he came over and we hung out.and then we stoped talking again and thats why ive been emailing since july. and he just return my email, and what he wrote was hey whats up it said you had somethign important to tell me. i wanted to tell him that i love him. but i didnt i couldent think of anything to tell him

2006-09-19 15:44:16 · 5 answers · asked by annamariecreed 1 in Singles & Dating

my parents want me to break up with my boyfriend, "just because we've been dating too long" i love him but we are getting tired of my parents ragging on us. what should i do?

2006-09-19 15:43:16 · 15 answers · asked by Katie D 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 33 and no kids. People pressure me. Why? Is it wierd not to have the desire to have children with my husband? Why do some feel we should not be married if we aren't going to have a family? Is there anybody else out there in my shoes? I feel like the only one on the planet!

2006-09-19 15:43:12 · 11 answers · asked by Mrs. T 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I havent seen my childhood friend in forever (like 7 years). He is totallly cute now. He said for me to call him, but I dont know when to! I last saw him on a friday... Help! what should I say when talking on the phone?

2006-09-19 15:43:12 · 8 answers · asked by Keira 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Can anyone please tell me if you have ever heard of Kasoa Nursing Training College in Achimota - Accra and have you ever heard of the Sly Internet Cafe in Legon - Accra. I want to make sure this girl I am writing to is for real. She said she graduated fom this school and that she uses this Internet Cafe to write me. Thank you

2006-09-19 15:42:01 · 5 answers · asked by Jonathan E 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-19 15:41:37 · 19 answers · asked by Randy W 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i have been together for a little more than a year and we seem so perfect for each other but heres the issue one of my best friends asked him out last year well i was still dating him well today i had 5 or so people ask if him and i broke up and they we going to start dating well after this issue i had with this girl last year we arent friends anymore but a few of my close friends and my brother caught them flirting and they were all over each other they didnt kiss or hold hands but this isnt the first time she has done this to me and i am afraid that the next time it happens it might be worse how do i confont him about it and what do i do?

2006-09-19 15:41:35 · 8 answers · asked by dumb_blonde1209 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-19 15:41:32 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

how do you deal with life when it seems like to much

2006-09-19 15:41:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-09-19 15:40:49 · 5 answers · asked by deanna g 1 in Friends

"GUNT"?its used to describe a women,ex."she has a gunt",anybody know?

2006-09-19 15:39:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you do break that contact barrier, does that mean you like that person?

2006-09-19 15:39:08 · 6 answers · asked by sweetchick 1 in Friends

2006-09-19 15:38:12 · 20 answers · asked by curiosity 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-19 15:38:03 · 17 answers · asked by FTM and proud 1 in Friends

He is not a trouble maker or anything he just has this terrible temper to those closest to him. He will go from being the happiest kid to hitting the car, the wall, or me or my sister as hard as he possibly can. I've caught him cursing at his GF too. The look in his eyes when he does this stuff is scary, he turns into someone else! He feels horrible afterwards but isnt that what most abusers do...hit their loved one and then feel bad so they try as hard as they can to make it up to them. This is very scary for me and i am afraid that it will only get worst as he gets older. Are these signs of what is yet to come when he gets older?

2006-09-19 15:37:52 · 17 answers · asked by pingme03 2 in Family

i'm a freshman (9thgrade) @ MSHS in va..
anyway, there's a boy in my gym class that I
like a lot...I'm too shy to talk to him even when I see him by himself. he hasn't talked to me either.. we don't have any same classes except gym. one of my good friend's is going to talk to him for me 2morrow..Is this okay? she thinks he's okay but she likes some1 else..I don't see him walking w/ any girls in the hallways or anything, so I'm pretty sure he doesn't have a gf.
What sould I do to get his attention and notice me?

2day the gym class had to do sit-ups on a balcony of the gym.. my friend, Victoria, and I were sitting against the railing just chatting..it seemed like the boy I like was pacing around and it seemed like he kept getting closer and closer to me. but when I thought he was going 2 talk to me, he would go the other way.. I also catch him looking at me sometimes while we're doing exercises, standing in line, ect.
does this mean he likes me?
no immature or stupid answer

2006-09-19 15:36:48 · 12 answers · asked by .::country gurl in a 4X4::. 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm afraid that I won't ever get to apologize to my ex for hurting him. I'm court-ordered not to talk to him, and we haven't spoken in a year. I'm still hung up on him. What can I do? I want to apologize, but I don't think he'll accept it...

2006-09-19 15:36:17 · 21 answers · asked by Seiko-sama 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend that I suspect is taking a lot of Dayquil tablets everyday. I found a package of them in her car....and they were almost gone. She has had a problem with pills previously, and my question was what are some signs that she is on them, like physical signs or whatever. How do they make her feel? Because I have no clue why anyone would want to take a lot of these??

2006-09-19 15:36:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-09-19 15:35:53 · 15 answers · asked by soccergirl4332 2 in Singles & Dating