my boyfriend and i have been together for a little more than a year and we seem so perfect for each other but heres the issue one of my best friends asked him out last year well i was still dating him well today i had 5 or so people ask if him and i broke up and they we going to start dating well after this issue i had with this girl last year we arent friends anymore but a few of my close friends and my brother caught them flirting and they were all over each other they didnt kiss or hold hands but this isnt the first time she has done this to me and i am afraid that the next time it happens it might be worse how do i confont him about it and what do i do?
2006-09-19 15:41:35 · 8 answers · asked by dumb_blonde1209 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well you have been with him for a while now so obviously you trust him. If i were you dont just come out and accuse him of cheating or wanting to cheat. Just simply sit down and tell him that you love him and ask him if he is completely sure that he shares the same feelings. If he says yeh of course, then just say "Its just that i trust you but people have told me that you have been flirting with ...... and i know that that wouldn't be true but i just wanted to hear your side of the story so that i can set them straight" (That way he feels that you are still on the same team and not just accusing him) if he gets really defensive it could be that there was flirting there or perhaps he is still hurt that you have questioned him. if so reassure him that you trust him but you just dont want to get hurt by someone you care for so much. Good Luck!
2006-09-19 15:48:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LISTEN CAREFULLY: He'll probably leave you, because she's being slutty, and well he's a guy. Take your heart out of your relationship, and play along....you'll have so much fun. If not you'll end up hurting so bad, and you'll see them all the time. So, my suggestion would be....Let him sleep with the dogs, because he'll wake up with fleas...lol. What you can do is find another guy to crush on OR even better several guys to crush on. When he asks if you're flirting with another guy, say "no, I only care about you" (yeah right) and when he breaks up with you, you'll have another fling waiting to happen....and he'll probably keep calling you and so on....Good Luck!
2006-09-19 22:52:27 · answer #2 · answered by josiedickelman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all u can only blame the cheap tramp but so much hun. u should be slappin big boy upside his head n saying bye loser.
he apparently is not worth ur time how long r u gonna let it go before u leave him n find someone who u do not have 2 hear is flirting with so and so.
good luck
2006-09-19 22:47:33 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Geo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that the 5 or so people know something about him that you don't or are at least suspicious of something. Sorry... that is what it sounds like to me.
2006-09-19 22:45:49 · answer #4 · answered by honiebyrd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick him outta urlif...dont look back to the past...
whatever happened remind as history for us...
life must goes on...and forget him...
u deserve someone who really love and care bout u...
good luck sweetie...
2006-09-20 00:11:14 · answer #5 · answered by fishcake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE shouldn't be doing that....period. He is a dog and should be booted to the curb.
2006-09-19 22:44:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
slap him..don't give a chance to him!!man is man..u know..
2006-09-19 22:45:07 · answer #7 · answered by ReeZ C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let go baby! find another!
2006-09-19 22:47:12 · answer #8 · answered by lisette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋