I'm afraid that I won't ever get to apologize to my ex for hurting him. I'm court-ordered not to talk to him, and we haven't spoken in a year. I'm still hung up on him. What can I do? I want to apologize, but I don't think he'll accept it...
2006-09-19 15:36:17 · 21 answers · asked by Seiko-sama 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I only want closure.... I think i can't get over him because he has a "hold" on me through this.....
2006-09-19 15:42:11 · update #1
His parents made the order, not him...... i think he still wants to be with me, because the last time we talked, he told me he missed me and wanteed to see me..... (after what I did)
2006-09-19 15:43:43 · update #2
Well if there's a court order you must have really screwed up...So rent a billboard and do it that way...Simple.
2006-09-19 15:43:52 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hurt goes deep and i think that you should let it alone and move on. If you feel the need to talk to him then send him a email or a letter. My guess is he will not read it because if the court ordered the 2 of you not to speak then there must be a good reason why. Mistakes happen and sometimes we have to pay big time for them but still all the same i think it is best to move on and give it some time and it will get better. I am sure he is moving on????
2006-09-19 22:41:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure while you are there thinking of ways to apologize and being still hung up on him....he has most likely moved on and not thinking anything in connection to you. He may be well pleased in his life, laughing and having a good ole time. My concern is why would you even waste your time dwelling on him when apparently there is nothing left in that relationship. There is a court order saying, "not to talk to him," then don't.
Leave the man alone to live his life other wise you maybe brought into court for stalking/harassment.
I would suggest you move on and find someone new.
This may sound mean and it is not intended to be. Take it in the text being sent as helpful, hopefully. Time to grow up and move on.
2006-09-19 22:52:37 · answer #3 · answered by Lore 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your still interested in him, than stay away from him. If your over him and just want to apologize without interest in anything more, than buy a blank Hallmark card, write "I'm sorry for hurting you", and send it to him. Forget about calling him or meeting with him. Use this as an experience that will improve your future relationship with someone else.
2006-09-19 22:44:14 · answer #4 · answered by Lila 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over it unless u want real jail time. hun he had a court order so u could not bother him. stalker status hun. u are obsessed n need 2 stop stressing urself n get over it. try going 2 couceling n see if u can get it out of ur system
n by all means leave him alone u may owe him an apology but if he wanted one there would be no court order.
good luck
2006-09-19 22:40:55 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Geo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are being silly , that's for sure.
But the two most possible ones are:
1. He doesn't have feeling for u anymore, he's bored with you, his love for you has fade away.
2. He likes someone else (highly possible)
Anyhow....find out the real reason why u two broke up and why he doesn't want to get together with you again. Goodluck, i hope things will work out and if things doesn't, i hope u can forget him and move on.
PS: by any chance u two will not get back together again. Try your best to move one as quick as possible. Crying and regetting over the break up will not do u anygood and will only bring u lots of pain.
2006-09-19 22:46:18 · answer #6 · answered by Shaktii J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The hell with court order ! I say you go over to his house right now ! Just kick the door down and apologize !!
2006-09-19 22:39:59 · answer #7 · answered by g_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are court order to not talk to him so what is the problem unless you want to go to jail you should have thought about that before you did what you did you don't need no answer you need a doctor to check your brain out cause something not working good luck
2006-09-19 22:46:03 · answer #8 · answered by poda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until the court order is lifted, and then write him a letter, (rather than calling him) telling him how sorry U are for whatever U did, it will get it off your chest, and maybe make him feel better 2!
2006-09-19 22:40:23 · answer #9 · answered by angeleyz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone. What happened that he has a restraining order on you? You must have did something bad. Just let him be. He may even make you feel worse if you tell him your sorry!
2006-09-19 22:47:16 · answer #10 · answered by Humming Bird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋