What I mean is do you ever wonder how different your life would have turned out if you had married someone else or chosen a different career path.
2006-09-19 15:27:06 · 20 answers · asked by Cardinal64 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
speculation is fun sometimes, but things are the way they are for a reason. go forward, and never look back!
2006-09-19 15:30:17 · answer #1 · answered by jeanne g 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm lucky in love, that's for sure so I never wonder about that. But my career is a joke, my boss replaced me because he believed I couldn't get the job done. It's because I'm so pathetic that I consider other people over myself. I really wished I didn't, then I would be sitting behind a desk instead of shoveling feed all day long. Why in the World was I so nice anyhow?
2006-09-19 15:36:27 · answer #2 · answered by inluvwshana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been wondering that alot this week.
The guy I was supposed to marry 15 years ago called me. I was shocked! He never did get married. I did marry the worst guy on earth. Then I divorced. My life would have been so much different if I would have married the first guy. But would it have been better? Probably. But maybe not.
2006-09-19 15:39:14 · answer #3 · answered by danadeville 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A better question would have been "Does anyone NOT wonder?" We all realize that our fate could have changed so much if we had turned left instead of right, said no instead of yes, or simply stayed home that night. Our lives seem to be one long list of accidents, but I believe in fate. I think we were destined to meet the people we did and have the experiences we did to get us ready to meet more people and have a positive effect on them.
2006-09-19 15:31:00 · answer #4 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do at times. But I usually try not to look at it regretfully. I believe everything happens for a reason. I try to see the positive in every experience --- like lessons learned and insights gained. Besides, whatever circumstances and situation I am presently in, it is the result of a decision / choice that I made for myself. And so I have learned to be contented no matter what.
2006-09-19 16:17:19 · answer #5 · answered by OnThe36th 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's variety of like that affirming, "the grass is greener over the different area". that's classic human nature. we are under no circumstances satisfied. We take issues with none interest & ignore to count number our reward. I advise I do have those recommendations too of what it may well be like, LoL=P Why else are there tabloid magazines, gossip leisure programmes? we stay in a voyeuristic obsessed society the position we are curious to be certain what that's opt to be interior the life of our common superstar. finally, I are attentive to that's inconceivable & unrealistic to have such recommendations 'reason that's merely unnecessary.
2016-10-16 01:26:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course.. we all do that.. but one should learn that the paths we chose were the paths already designed for us to choose. God had the will to create a fate for each one of us and i believe he'd guided us to the best paths even if we think they weren't very great. The truth is that we don't know the reasons behind why god chose those paths for us, but we should surrender and believe that whatever happens, happens for the best.
2006-09-19 15:31:39 · answer #7 · answered by sara_s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I wonder some good things have been laid on my table career wise I blew .. I was young when I got married. If I knew then what I know now..but Im sure its working how it should..got lovely children out of it.
2006-09-19 15:34:31 · answer #8 · answered by musicluvr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but never dwell on it too long, or it makes your present life miserable. We all make choices, good or bad. The trick is realizing that the past only matters as a reference - the future is wide open for new, better, different choices.
2006-09-19 15:32:06 · answer #9 · answered by milomax 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is normal to wonder what might have been as long as you don't let it consume your life to the point to where it is affecting you and those around you. GOd has a plan and purpose for everything. Don't dwell to long on the what if's. Embrace what you have, live, love, and learn. God is so amazing, isn't He? I always say you are never too young to teach and never to old to learn.
God bless you.
Hoping to see you one day in Heaven
2006-09-19 15:32:01 · answer #10 · answered by Selah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh yessssssssss! i married at 20 and always wonder what would it be like if i waited. but then i would have my husband and my two kids or would i? well i guess this was meant to be,
if there is such as a parralel universe i pray the other me is living an independant life
2006-09-19 15:30:59 · answer #11 · answered by in ur face 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋