Family & Relationships - 17 September 2006

I have always had lots of freinds and been popular with both girls and boys. Recently, i started getting very close to a girl ive known for a while. She was always telling me that i'm the funniest person she knows and that im so sweet and i felt the same about her and she is very good looking too. I was beginning to really fall for her. Then one day i told her how much i care about her and she said that she loved me but only as a freind. You have no idea how much this hurt and i know its got to have something to do with my looks. I'm not terribly ugly but i know im clearly not stunning. Most girls give me a sympathetic 6-7 out of 10 when i ask but i know they are just trying not to hurt me. This is mainly for the girls so would you ever choose an average looking guy you connect greatly with over a handsome guy you dont really have a lot in comon with? Please be honest.

2006-09-17 09:05:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-17 09:05:13 · 1 answers · asked by Joseph M 1 in Friends

My dad just kicked me out of my house because he says im a mean person (really....i just get p!ssed off because he has always played favorites with my older brother) so where do I go next? i cant go live with my mum because of location, and i certianly dont want to talk my way back into my dads house. My car is getting some work done on my car and i cant work because my spine got swollen in a wreck, what should my next move be? please be nice...

2006-09-17 09:04:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-09-17 09:04:34 · 4 answers · asked by bradbizzle15 1 in Singles & Dating

He is being really brief and quiet when talking to me since we slept together. I'm pretty sure he's not interested in me now that he's had me... how can I tell for sure without sounding desperate? And furthermore, how can I stop this feeling of being so cheap and used? cuz it sucks

2006-09-17 09:04:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

in she abused him i got so mad but other nurses said mabe she is having a hard time so what you dont beat your kid ok so am i the only one who gets this pissed sorry furious ?? let me know i swear the world has turned crazy

2006-09-17 09:03:26 · 14 answers · asked by shasha 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

What do women think of men that cry a little with their Girlfriends while watching Old black and white movies, or kiss and cuddle their Girlfriends if they start crying..

2006-09-17 09:02:56 · 6 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm in a long distance relationship, and we don't really have any way to talk on a regular basis other than on the phone. He doesn't like talking on the phone though, so I don't know what to do.

2006-09-17 09:02:30 · 6 answers · asked by Lauren 2 in Singles & Dating

ok.. so me and my boyfriend have been together for a very long time. but i broke up with him over the summer because of his coke addiction. it was really messing him up and i didnt like how it was affecting the relationship. but after a month i realized how much i really missed him and we got back together. as of now he's told me he quit and hasn't done it since we broke up the first time. but i've been hearing that he has been. should i just overlook it.. even if he's lying to me? are relationship is a million times better than it was the first time around. and im pretty happy. i just dont want him getting hurt. but advice please?!

2006-09-17 09:02:22 · 8 answers · asked by Beautiful_Brunette235 1 in Singles & Dating

I like to masterbate while my boyfriend watches it excites me more than ever how do I get him to attention and watch me do it? I also like to watch him doing it to himself. How do I ask?

2006-09-17 09:02:16 · 19 answers · asked by dijay 2 in Singles & Dating

Would you break up with me?

2006-09-17 09:02:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 14 and shes 14 lol
im in 8th grade
last year in 7th i asked her out but she said no
but this year she looks at me more often
and i still look the same since last year
what does this mean?

2006-09-17 09:01:11 · 7 answers · asked by billybobman1221 1 in Singles & Dating

my partner left me i am the male, about 6 mth ago but been offically over since sale of house 5 mth ago.
anyways my father was not there for me as a child i have 3 fchildren and swore i would never leave them. i have picked them up at least once a week ever since but the hard part is this -
the relationship needed to end and i accept that but i still am deeply in love with her and 100% belive now i could be a better husband. i have no interest in anyone else i now run my own place moving on but i cant see me ever moving on emotionally from her we get along better now as friends and something tells me we will get back together in the future but is impossible now.
but doubt plays and i think now my life is just hanging on the hope of this happening.
any tips on how at least for now a year or so i can just let go emotionally of her? i cant live like this its killing me.
we even go places now and have a laugh but if i push it to far she shuts down all over again. so confused

2006-09-17 09:00:50 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He and I are both Christians and go to the same church. He usually sits where he can see me and where I can see him. I will catch him alot staring at me. His family has a Bible study on Sunday nights at his house and he usually sits across from me. Last week, he has started talking to me. Today, he gave me a side hug and asked me how i was. He hasn't done that before. I am not sure or not. Cause he talks to other girls more than he does with me. But, he has been talking to me more than he used to. So, does he?

2006-09-17 08:59:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

One of my guyfriends that I liked moved to Washington.Does anyone know how I can stop thinking about him alot?
I've liked him for a year almost and he moved away. I got to tell him how i felt and he said he liked me too, but i can't stop thinking about him!!!
i still like him and hes never on instant messenger and he doesnt email me back as often... someone please help me! I also like this other guy at school but im afraid that if the guy that moved to washington finds out he will be angry with me....

2006-09-17 08:59:49 · 7 answers · asked by vball_chik 2 in Friends

I do it without thinking, and even sometimes I say that boo has a dah donka a donk butt in front of another boo ... is this right?

2006-09-17 08:59:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-09-17 08:58:33 · 15 answers · asked by heather g 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a phone number, but do I dial 1 first or 011 or what?

2006-09-17 08:57:55 · 7 answers · asked by teddybear 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

One day he just came up to me and told me that he wanted to have sex with me. I him let him know that i like him but i'm the type of girl that wants a relationship. He didn't ask again. We talked a lot as friends after and i've learned that his heart was broken once before, he says he doesn't want to give another girl the chance to do it again. He's a nice guy, except for him using girls just for sex. He also said that because he loved his ex and she hurted him, if he begins to fall in love with another girl he'll drop her if he doesn't trust her completely. I want to know, does anyone think its possible for me to win his heart by being mutual friends and getting to know each other better? This way we can talk about his ways (he talks openly to me) and i'll gain his trust and try to convince him to change. Then if he does, we get together. Is it possible? Guys out there, i want you especially to help me out. And girls what would be the best thing to do? Cause i really like him!!

2006-09-17 08:57:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what is the difference between what a 18 year old guy expects and a 21 or 22 year old guy expects. I am 18 and not sure what my boyfreind expects i only had sex with one other person 3 times and we have started having sex recently and i feel embarrassed .

2006-09-17 08:57:16 · 8 answers · asked by gabby l 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm just asking cause it has never happened to me?

2006-09-17 08:56:54 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 13 in like a few weekz...and im going out with a 17 yr old...but a 14 yr old likes me...and a 20 yr oldd...who shouldd i choooseee?

2006-09-17 08:56:46 · 9 answers · asked by Prep♥™ 5 in Singles & Dating

I am thinking of having some counselling but am concerned that raking over the past may not actually help me in the future. Any experiences, good or bad, welcome.

2006-09-17 08:55:48 · 9 answers · asked by AmandaSuffolk 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

his wifw is so so mad that she cald the police on me and said I cald her home to say that I was going to kill her and her huspad and her daughter of cours it was all a big lie she's mad that her huspand has a child from someone else and i had to go to jail for 2 days because tis lady lied to the police were are my rights in this my huspand had to pay 500.00 dollar for bail. I wish i can sue her for liying we have court tomorrow to aswer why she lied

2006-09-17 08:55:19 · 9 answers · asked by la cubanita 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Been in a relationship for 7 years, have doubts of regret if nothin said, and have worries of rejection. Fear of losing everything.

2006-09-17 08:55:07 · 14 answers · asked by mags 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm happily married and not trying to pick up anyone.

2006-09-17 08:54:57 · 13 answers · asked by jivemee 3 in Friends

annoying, attitude, younger, stubbern, hated, troublemaker.

2006-09-17 08:54:22 · 10 answers · asked by rene 1 in Family

i'm so insecure with myself, the way i look, who i am, and everything. it even affects my relationships with everyone. i can't get into a relationship because i'm afraid of being so close to people. most people don't know that about me. it's because i'm not obese and i dress pretty decent. how do i get over this? i always feel like no one will ever love me or that i won't let them. why do i feel this way? am i ever going to get over it? i even feel stupid for saying all of this.

2006-09-17 08:52:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I don't know what to do anymore about my situation. I started dating this man the end of May 2006. We both fell in love quickly and passionately. We ended up getting married the beginning of July in Las Vegas. Now, I would have never thought that one could love another so much, but his neediness is overwhelming. He always needs reassurance about me loving him, asking me a million times over and over "we never would get a divorece, right honey? I don't know! In life you never really know! I try to be honest and he gets upset and out of shape about it. He is so sensitive and a lot to handle. The sex never was that exciting, but all the things I loved about him in the beginning are now irritating to me. He is a medical resident and his boards are coming up. Because he is so crazy about me, he had to change the test date 3 times already because he can't focus on anything but me. The other day I lost it and told him I needed a break, he went completely nuts over this. Is he psycho?

2006-09-17 08:52:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If a woman does not shave her legs does the hair grow to the same amount guys have on their legs or not? Also do women ever have to shave any part of their face? I've seen a few girls whose face looked like a guy who had just shaved the mustache area. You know how that part looks just a little bit darker.

2006-09-17 08:52:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating