Family & Relationships - 17 September 2006

He's a really good person and he gets on the computer a lot.

2006-09-17 08:27:25 · 2 answers · asked by James 3 in Friends

see...i wudnt say i was overly attractive but im not ugly either and my frends say im a good catch...so y is it always them that the lads go 4!! im always the one the lads come up 2first...but onli 2ask me questions bout my best frend! i think shes gorgeous and i wud never b angry at her but sumtimes i jus feel invisible? is this realy sad and selfish of me?

2006-09-17 08:26:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just happened to notice alot of them lately. Are people in bad moods or something?

2006-09-17 08:26:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i know what liking someone feels like, but this time it's different. this time, i don't know for sure. :/

there's this guy. he's not "hot" according to my standards, but who cares? i always fall for a guy according to his hair. i never know why. well anyway, i never talk to him. we just say hi everytime we pass by each other. why do i suddenly find myself looking his way all the time? i tell myself i'm just being vulnerable, but what's the deal? i don't crush that easily... so do i like him or am i just telling myself that i do? i'm confused. HELP!

2006-09-17 08:26:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm in high school, and I needed to copy an assignment one day. So I asked her and she said no. But she did tell me some stuff she put. I think she likes me, but I might have ignored her too long. I like her now, b/c I see her differently now.

2006-09-17 08:24:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been dating a man for three months now. Things between us have been great. We seem to "click" very well together, he also thinks the same. I am 27, have been divorced once, with 2 small children and he is 35, divorced twice with no kids. The problem is he tells me he cannot commit right now and is "still looking" even though he admits we are a good fit. I know he is dating around and in some way feels guilty about it. He wants his cake and eat it too! He told me that this time is has to be for good, he doesn't want to get divorced again and wants to make sure he is with the right person. I realize the kids are an issue with us, not that he doesn't like them, they are too young only 14 months and 2/1/2. He says he would like to start a family but wonders if we could handle three young children all at once. In his eyes, we would be headed down the divorce road once again, which we both don't want. He doesn't want this to end but still wants to date around, what do I do?

2006-09-17 08:23:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been dating this girl for about 1.5 years now. I am thinking about getting engaged to her. However I dont know if I can afford to purchase an engagement ring yet. I have yet to find a job in the field I went to school for. Is there a formula I can use to find out if I can actually afford to buy an engagement ring at this stage in my life?

2006-09-17 08:22:54 · 19 answers · asked by bluenote12482 1 in Singles & Dating

when you are clothed you can't take your clothes off and when you are naked(your clothes are nowwhere to be found)and the guys can't take there clothes off.

Personally i would want to be naked becasue my body is so sexy i like to show it off and the guys can just open their fly

2006-09-17 08:22:24 · 12 answers · asked by supermodel 1 in Singles & Dating

help

2006-09-17 08:21:28 · 8 answers · asked by lova 1 in Friends

Like as a couple? OR Twins??? I know thast kinda tha opposite but still.

2006-09-17 08:21:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

how do you feel when you do step on bugs?

2006-09-17 08:21:12 · 18 answers · asked by Eddie C 1 in Singles & Dating

i have found them to be unhospitable after i shifted here from punjab. is it true?

2006-09-17 08:20:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have noticed a lot of guys that go to gyms or play sports (basketball, baseball, football, soccer, etc.) tend to be bisexual or gay. Is it that they like how their body looks (ripped abdominals, muscled bicceps or triceps, etc.) and want to look at other guys. It seems like a lot of straight looking guys are turning bi or gay. What is happening to the "straight" world? Also, it seems like a lot of today's teenagers and college age adults are experimenting with the opposite sex. Is it the opposite sex's body? Are today's styles (like Abercrombie and Fitch, American Eagle, Adidas, Puma, Nike, etc.) making the opposite sex look so good that you want to get to know them better and check out their body? What is the reason for all of this.

2006-09-17 08:19:57 · 4 answers · asked by josh_wagner12 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have noticed a lot of guys that go to gyms or play sports (basketball, baseball, football, soccer, etc.) tend to be bisexual or gay. Is it that they like how their body looks (ripped abdominals, muscled bicceps or triceps, etc.) and want to look at other guys. It seems like a lot of straight looking guys are turning bi or gay. What is happening to the "straight" world? Also, it seems like a lot of today's teenagers and college age adults are experimenting with the opposite sex. Is it the opposite sex's body? Are today's styles (like Abercrombie and Fitch, American Eagle, Adidas, Puma, Nike, etc.) making the opposite sex look so good that you want to get to know them better and check out their body? What is the reason for all of this.

2006-09-17 08:19:35 · 4 answers · asked by josh_wagner12 1 in Singles & Dating

See one of my friends has been single for a long time the problem is that she's a year older than me and most of my friends are younger than her she's also annoyed easily and can't stand guys who are stupid or wimpy or perverted or anything like that. Her standards are quite high and its going to be hard for me to find someone for her I can tell she really wants to get back into the dating game. I have a few ideas on how she could get a boyfriend but Im personally never used them and am not sure if she would even be willing to try them.

Like if we go to the mall, and see a cute guy, we could write him a note and try to get him to come over.

Or something like that. The problem is, she just expects a guy to come right on over and start a conversation and flirt, but I know that thinking like that is delusional. How can I get her to let her guard down and just talk to a guy, or is there a way we can get one to talk to her? Any ideas?

2006-09-17 08:19:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife is very curious about interracial relations - wanted to know the + and - of "being with" black men

2006-09-17 08:19:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well I think both of them are equally hot.

2006-09-17 08:19:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hi i have a bf from the uk i am in toronto he hasnt been to c me for nearly too yrs he says he loves me and is working hard as a broker to make enough to move to me but he used to come to see me every 2 months he gives me money for the last 3 yrs we been dating for rent and bills but its dried up recently and i lost my flat and car cos of it i dont have a job and rely on him totally, should i dump him or asking too much he must have given me 100k over the last few yrs and we havnt slept together yet cos i want him over here peremently before we go that far, i am living on the breadline he still says he want me and us to work and is trying his hardest am i asking too much, i have not been in position to go to see him or give him any money back all i want is for us to buy a house and live together and be happy and he is trying to fund the deposit am i asking again too much of him because he is saying i am pressurising him

2006-09-17 08:18:51 · 11 answers · asked by pete 1 in Singles & Dating

Why is it that when a guy has cheated on you and does not do a thing to make you feel like a special woman, that he feels like that he can get pissed off at you because you are not over it yet?

2006-09-17 08:18:17 · 18 answers · asked by jasmine b 2 in Singles & Dating

like going out , playing cards, or even answering ? on the computer

2006-09-17 08:18:11 · 10 answers · asked by spades c 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ive been with my guy for a little over 6 yrs. we recently got engaged and i love him to death but we dont have sex too often. im just wondering what is normal. and im 21 by the way.

2006-09-17 08:17:55 · 9 answers · asked by heretohelp 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating this girl for about 1 year and 6 months now. We do not live toghether yet but we do plan to get engaged (and eventually get married) when I can afford to buy her a ring.

Anyway, my question is who should pay for "things" in our relationship? Should it be a 50/50 thing or should I (the man) be forced to pay for "everything". Examples would be groceries, dining out, movies, etc.

2006-09-17 08:17:32 · 9 answers · asked by bluenote12482 1 in Singles & Dating

I have cutody of my two grandsons, ages 3 & 7, I need to know if they are going to be influenced by my parenting, how much, and can they forget what they have learned already. Any advice?

2006-09-17 08:17:01 · 6 answers · asked by twelfntwelf3 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok soo i have a bf and some people think we r too young and some say we arent but we r keeping it pg soo i dont get what is the point of us not being able to go out with eachother..but one thing is i need to know when u got ur first kiss and also i have had a lot of bfs but this one is the best but i am scared people wont ever go out with me again if we ever do brake up...but he said he never will and i promised him i never will too...becausei have had a lot of bfs.........plz help

2006-09-17 08:16:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have been kicked out of the house and have nowhere to go...is there anything i can do besides live on the streets??

2006-09-17 08:15:53 · 8 answers · asked by alif 1 in Family

i met this guy that treats me bad but i can't stop talking to him it's like he has me under some sort of control or something i don't know what to do

2006-09-17 08:15:37 · 15 answers · asked by MARY M 1 in Singles & Dating

am i a bad person if i say i dont like my mother, but since i am obligated to being that im her daughter, i love her? Everyting she does bothers me, shes controlling, shes nuts, shes mean, she likes my sister better. And im not saying these things to sound immature and unloved, but i have been through so much throughout my life, and everyting was always a problem, going to see friends in the city, all of a sudden, questions and questions. Now that my sister is my age that i was when i started becominig independant, she could do whatever she wants, she could go anywhere, see anyone, do anyting. Im miserable, i want to move out and get married and have a life of my own, i cant stand my mother and i dont know what to do anymore.

2006-09-17 08:15:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

everyone always says younger people like 15 16 cant fid love at htat age but what if they do can they? i kno i am in love i am planning on marring this man and i cant wait but my pernts think that i am stup[id for even thinking baout it cause i am too young cant u fall in love young?

2006-09-17 08:14:47 · 12 answers · asked by Amanda M 2 in Singles & Dating

Do you drink milk or juice out of the jug and not use a glass?

2006-09-17 08:14:36 · 31 answers · asked by roskez13 5 in Friends

I filed for divorce about a month ago. I had hoped it would nudge him into saving the marriage and I filed because I am drained and tired, and ready to really enjoy life. The thing is, we are still living in the same household. Which, at first I didn't mind so much, but I have recently told him if we are living as housemates then he needs to start doing his share of 50/50 for household stuff or give me the money. Also, I told him I am ready to get to the conclusion of our relationship. Since Itelling him about the divorce...he has more less been acting better but not enough for me to reconsider anything. So here's my questions:

1. What do you think is going on here?
2. Do you think I should show him the door? Or should I leave it alone until he gets served and see what he does then?
3. Am I sending mixed vibes?
4. I am not sure if he buying time, shocked, or simply unsure what to do?

Thanks,

K

2006-09-17 08:14:31 · 12 answers · asked by kaiynasha 3 in Marriage & Divorce