He is being really brief and quiet when talking to me since we slept together. I'm pretty sure he's not interested in me now that he's had me... how can I tell for sure without sounding desperate? And furthermore, how can I stop this feeling of being so cheap and used? cuz it sucks
2006-09-17 09:04:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he seems disinterested after he has been satisfied, than thats a bad sign, could be because there is someone else in his life or he is just not that into you, what ever the case may be he will come back for sex as many times as you allow him to. you have to decide if you let him or not.
if he was really into you, sleeping with you would make him want you more. im sorry about how you feel, good luck.
2006-09-17 09:12:10 · answer #1 · answered by puertoricout 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, if you are asking this question you probably were used. However, you should NEVER let another person make you feel bad about yourself. Stop feeling bad, you obviously did what you did because you liked this guy, and he was just a jerk not to see that. So, pick your head up and move on!
2006-09-17 16:07:53 · answer #2 · answered by deepadot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep. It sounds like you've been used. Move on and chalk it up as a lesson learned. You can only feel cheap and used if you let yourself feel that way. Shake it off. You made a mistake. Hopefully you come out of it disease and pregnancy free.
2006-09-17 16:07:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry this happened to you. i agree with alot of what everyone else is saying. please do not dwell on it. it mighta been a mistake but use it as self teaching tool. next time make sure you both know what ur realtionship consists of, so after the sex ur not left in wonderment. lastly you could be bold and tell him you dont appreciate how he is treatign you and you want answers. youre not some bimbo!
2006-09-17 16:19:39 · answer #4 · answered by Romina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call him and see how long it takes for him to call when he does be very short with him and see what his reaction is if he starts to question you then you being used is probably not the case but if is like whatever or even if he don't call you bingo you have been used
2006-09-17 16:07:52 · answer #5 · answered by tpchick22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dunno how you can find out, but it sound pretty obvious. If you don't want to be like that anymore, before you start a relationship, tell them that you practice chastity. let that be the first thing you tell him, and tell him that you only plan on having sex on marraige. you don't have to actually practice chastity, but for a few months, see how he acts. then you'll know whether or not he's someone you can give yourself to. hope i helped, if he's no good, you got a friend in me, lol.
2006-09-17 16:11:38 · answer #6 · answered by dudekunle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aw sweety...sounds like he could have lost interest but I think you should talk to him and ask what has changed...be straight..why prolong the torture..listen...the feeling will go..learn from it and in future only do what feels absolutely right for you.
2006-09-17 16:07:31 · answer #7 · answered by Saskia M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some lessons are tough to learn. Try being more careful in the future.
2006-09-17 16:06:48 · answer #8 · answered by El Gringo 237 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn the tables avoid him and go out of your way not to let him see you. trust me ! Out of sight drives the mind to wonder
2006-09-17 17:45:39 · answer #9 · answered by renee d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch him. Kick him to the curb. You've been used. Find someone better!! =)
2006-09-17 16:08:05 · answer #10 · answered by Jenna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋