2006-09-17 08:58:33 · 15 answers · asked by heather g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let me put it to you this way ( I had the same problem when I was your age), girls mature physically more quickly than boys at this age. When you are at the mall, there are older boys who are now... well, more physically mature and are pervs. Boys your age are awkward and shy... and are probably less obvious in their "admiration" of your physical attractiveness.
2006-09-17 09:04:47 · answer #1 · answered by Lindsey T 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ummm..I actual have the comparable concern, the only end i've got come to is that individuals do no longer want to be rejected. to illustrate, those men at your college see you virtually usual, you communicate have lunch, comedian tale around, etc. They be responsive to you and fee your friendship. What grew to become into to ensue if considered one of them advised you that they have been involved in you extra desirable than in a delightful way????? you're able to or won't like them, yet it incredibly is the possibility they could take. they are putting themeselves in a subjective place the place no guy desires to pass. in case you assert no,it makes your friendship strange and uncomfortable and if u say sure you cant be friends anymore b/c you grow to be "a female buddy" and we could face it, all of us be responsive to how women are..... Now for the boys on the mall, they "look" at you b/c they have no longer something to lose; the two you respond or you do no longer. Its that easy! They dont be responsive to you and probability is they are going to on no account see you back. wish this facilitates!
2016-10-01 01:58:46 · answer #2 · answered by dunkelberger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question i get that too the only reason why is because thay think your are cute. And thay don't know how old you are ppl at school know how old you are and they know you. Ppl at the mall just see you and the first thing they see iz someone cute! Thats why
2006-09-17 09:02:59 · answer #3 · answered by Simone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's ok for the older guys to look at you it means your cute be happy! but stick with the guys your age they will treat you better if they aren't paying the kind of attention the older guys are it could be because they dont think like the older guys do. that's a good thing they'll respect you.try to be friends with the one's you want to pay attention to you. i'm only 14 and guys around this age can be like the older guys. your lucky they're not. hang out with the guys you like if you want them to pay attention to you.
2006-09-17 09:07:36 · answer #4 · answered by just someone 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah that happens to me too..in school its the way u act..out of school like in the god dang mall ppl dont know how u act. BECAUSE THEY DONT KNOW U..they just think ur hott.
2006-09-17 09:02:10 · answer #5 · answered by saweet_chick_lee 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Guys at malls are desperate. Simple fact. All their cool friends got dates and they need something!
2006-09-17 09:01:10 · answer #6 · answered by Sonnenrad 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok stop going to the mall alone bcoz those older guys are perverts, be careful let ur mom know about wat happens at the mall for ur own protection, i don't think u would wanna be one of those missing kids kidnapped by some dirty old man
2006-09-17 09:02:48 · answer #7 · answered by lilykiss8 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You must look older than your 12 and a half years...be safe.
2006-09-17 09:02:42 · answer #8 · answered by westgaliberty 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
because the guys at ur school r young they still think girls have cooties so they're not really woried about girls but when they get older they..im 17 all i do is think about girls girls girls girls...well u get the picture
2006-09-17 09:02:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe Boys at your School do not know how Great you really are. I bet one day they may be sorry! God Bless you!
2006-09-17 09:02:26 · answer #10 · answered by SecretUser 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋