I just got kicked out....?

Question

My dad just kicked me out of my house because he says im a mean person (really....i just get p!ssed off because he has always played favorites with my older brother) so where do I go next? i cant go live with my mum because of location, and i certianly dont want to talk my way back into my dads house. My car is getting some work done on my car and i cant work because my spine got swollen in a wreck, what should my next move be? please be nice...

Answer 1

Not to be mean but do talk to your dad. Unfortunately, people play favorites - everywhere, work, school, family, at a store, on the street etc. So, that is something that you need to accept. I know, having someone else picked as the favorite can be aggravating, but don't ask what has someone else got, but what I have I got. Then try to be thankful for what you have, rather than upset because of what you don't have. That is the secret of happiness, without it you will never be happy, no matter what you have.

I think that is also why your father thinks you are mean. You focus on your unhappiness about not having what someone else has, and then express your unhappiness in words and deeds. I know this is not easy, but if you concentrate on being grateful for what you have, and being happy for other people's success even when it is better than what you have, you will find peace, happiness and more rewards (stuff) in your life.

Next what happened in the wreck? If you have a swollen spine that will last for a while, you should qualify for social security disability. Go to the nearest Social Security office and file Monday. Then you can apply at the local welfare office, which will provide support to people who are physically disabled.

Do you have a lawsuit filed? Maybe the attorney will advance you some money, but don't agree to any of the loans against your claim, or you will wind up with nothing but a receipt for thousands of dollars in interest, and then you will be really angry,unhappy and mean.

Do try to talk to your Dad, and do some reading on Buddhism. Ignore its religious parts but study its values and philosophy, it will help you. Promise

Good luck

Answer 2

What about your grandparents, aunt/uncle, cousins or if not, do you have a close girl friend that you trust and might be able to stay with her for a few days? A good thing to do with your dad is to give a couple of hours space. Let him get a chance to cool off as well as you need to cool off. Once everyone is cooled and calm down have a talk with your dad, one one one without your brother being around. Tell him how you felt and what you feel now. He should respect you since you are his blood daughter. Just be calm and good luck.

Answer 3

you should go down to the local "housing"place and declare yourself homless,they have a duty to find you somewhere to stay.

Or..look on the net and go and work in Guernsey for a few years..accomodation comes with Job,i lived there for 5 years and have two children..it is great when you are single,and you will meet lots of new freinds.Your Dad is "mean"..i have two daughters and could not even think of throwing them onto the street..he sounds a bit selfish to me..please think about doing something different..do not go back..when you are single there are lots of oppotunites open to you..work anywhere in the world..a change will do you good.**** luck my dear...and Go get it!!

Answer 4

umm a friends, aunt, uncle, oh! grandmas (she'll give you cookies!!) or your boyfriends if you have one, if not find a card board box and camp out like the hobos, or you should talk with your dad and tell him whats really going on and tell him the real reason why your so pis*ed off at him.

Answer 5

Find a pastor and talk to them about your issue, A good Christian church will help you. but you need to help you as well

Answer 6

a friend in need is a friend in deed.

hope u got the soln.

Answer 7

u can come and live with me