ok.. so me and my boyfriend have been together for a very long time. but i broke up with him over the summer because of his coke addiction. it was really messing him up and i didnt like how it was affecting the relationship. but after a month i realized how much i really missed him and we got back together. as of now he's told me he quit and hasn't done it since we broke up the first time. but i've been hearing that he has been. should i just overlook it.. even if he's lying to me? are relationship is a million times better than it was the first time around. and im pretty happy. i just dont want him getting hurt. but advice please?!
2006-09-17 09:02:22 · 8 answers · asked by Beautiful_Brunette235 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the relationship is good now but for how long. If you love him stick with him but help him kick the habit. Dont support it. Coke kills, don't let it overcome him. Help Him and love him enough to get him to stop lying if he's still using, and to get him to quit all together. He will love you more and more for it in the end. Just don't give up. It will be hard.
2006-09-17 09:06:57 · answer #1 · answered by sweetpea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is lying to you , That is not cool . he will lie about other things given time. if you like being with a coke head then stay. If you would rather have a life of fun and be happy then go..
2006-09-17 16:07:23 · answer #2 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most likely he's lying to you about quitting, but since things are going good for you two, then just stay with him unless you notice that he really is still using then its up to you whether you want to stick around or not. he'd only be hurting himself.
2006-09-17 16:10:00 · answer #3 · answered by ugotthatright 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to him and work things out. A good relationships are about haveing commutiation. With each other. I hope everything works out.
2006-09-17 16:06:28 · answer #4 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh dear. you have to realize that its just him in the drug. he has to choose to stop for himself, not you. Drug addicts lie. All of them do. If you care for him theres nothing wrong with you standing by his side. But you can only stand alone for so long. Youre going to need his sobriety. good luck
2006-09-17 16:08:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, I am with this murderer. But she only kills people I don't like. She tells me she is not doing it, but my friends tell me she is. And I am happier than ever.
Okay, not a good analogy, but wrong is wrong.
Make a grown up decision.
Choice = result.
2006-09-17 16:10:07 · answer #6 · answered by who R U 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it, and express how you really feel. If he continues to disappoint you, then maybe you should consider if you really want to be with this guy.
2006-09-17 16:04:53 · answer #7 · answered by xoxarielle14xox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is it true that if you show a crackhead crack, the fart?
2006-09-17 16:04:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋