Family & Relationships - 14 September 2006

firstly, i've been dating my boyfriend for four and a half months and my family doesn't know. i am 15 and he is 17. i havn't told my family bcuz b4 we started goin out, my mum sed to me that she doesn't want me to go out with my boyfriend bcuz she thinks he is mentally unstable. should i tell my parents?

secondly, at the end of the yr (as my bf is in grade 12) he is moving to Melbourne. atm we live about 15 mins away from each other in queensland. we hav made it clear to each other that we are in love and we don't want to seperate. as i am basically the only person who doesn't bully him out at school....he loves me to death and has made it clear, that if we break up wen he moves, he will not b the one breaking it. therefore, it is my decision if we break up at the end of the yr.

wat should i do? i don't want to leave him but i don't know if i'll b able to cope not seeing him for ages (as he plans to come see his family every so often). can LDR's work? i don't want to lose him :(

2006-09-14 01:46:02 · 3 answers · asked by i_rule_the_world!! 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-14 01:45:49 · 26 answers · asked by SUSAN W 1 in Weddings

Parents are often accused of doing or saying embarrasing things to, or about, their children, usually IN FRONT of others....any funny stories?

2006-09-14 01:45:27 · 11 answers · asked by analyst 3 in Family

I am 56 his mother is 40. We have both been single parents for a very long time. Her 15 and 17yr olds have accepted me but her "baby" has not. He has been spoiled by his mother and she doesn't see that she is working her for attention. Because of this she feels that she has to chose between her "baby" and me. A choice I would not want to have her make. She is building a wall to sacrifice her happness for that of her child. When she and her children could have both. In order to be able to break through this wall I feel that I have to gain common ground with him.

2006-09-14 01:44:21 · 7 answers · asked by snakemantom 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Girls will do what their father say a lot faster then what mother say,

2006-09-14 01:43:31 · 2 answers · asked by christopher_johnson25 2 in Family

2006-09-14 01:42:34 · 31 answers · asked by wish b 1 in Singles & Dating

please correct the mistakes in my translation - thanks?
He participated in the trainings and conferences organised by the Ministry of Health, the Office for Registration of Medical Products, Medical Devices and Biocides, by the Main Pharmaceutical Inspectorate and the Health Care Policy Institute (attached to the Medical University in Łódź).
He is a member of the Polish Pharmaceutical Society (since 1986), of the Society for Good Clinical Practice in Poland and a co-organiser of some all-Poland scientific conferences.
He is also a member of the International Health Economics Association (iHEA) and took an active part in the jobs of the 5th International Congress in 2005.
He is the author of two publications about pharmaeconomics, published in the magazines which are a force to be reckoned with scientific environment.

2006-09-14 01:42:16 · 9 answers · asked by AsMa 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-14 01:42:14 · 11 answers · asked by frrobinsonfrr 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

This guy my highschool sweetheart for almost 7 years we took a break for 6 months because he changed schools he came back because he did not like it and we got back together for three months. A girl from the other school that called him too say she was pregnant and he broke up with me to go marry her. Two weeks later i find out i am 2 1/2 months pregnant i told him so he knows i am. Unfortunatley his wife baby has some birth defect something to do with a serious heart problem. He took off and she keeps calling me to ask where he is?Recently though his friend and my new roomate has been giving me money from him. Yesterday he called me too tell me where he was.

2006-09-14 01:41:24 · 25 answers · asked by amanda h 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-14 01:40:01 · 60 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-14 01:37:53 · 5 answers · asked by R I Y A 1 in Singles & Dating

In the vows in marriage,it states to love,honor and cherish.What would you do if those 3 vows do not exist in your relationship.
Please exclude things like counseling and working on it,those have been tried and have been unsuccessful

2006-09-14 01:36:27 · 31 answers · asked by TAMMY M 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My work colleague and, I suppose, a partial friend, just had a baby boy and I bought her a beautiful two-piece (trousers and top) for him and spent a fair amount of money. I wrapped it up 'poshly' - LOL - and posted it off not so long ago. She left a message on my ansaphone saying that 'you should have brouhgt it to me in person and not posted it'. I bought it out of the goodness of my heart, but that's what she said.

Also, we sometimes leave home from work together (this was before she had her baby), to get the train and as the doors opened, I got on first and made my way to 2 seats for us both and she just went off in the opposite direction. I thought I'd get us both some seats, but she went the down the other side of the carriage. I stupidly went over to sit with her.

What should I do about her?

Please suggest - and thanks!

2006-09-14 01:34:41 · 9 answers · asked by The way I are 1 in Friends

2006-09-14 01:34:32 · 20 answers · asked by indian beauty 4 in Friends

I had been married to my husband for last 8 yrs.I t was an love marriage.He is 11 yrs older to me.He also happens to be 2 time divorcee.2 yrs back we had fightes and he broke my hand and took me to police station and just behaved like a creep.He threw me out and kept my son with him.I stayed with my parents.He never bothered about me and also started legal case against me.I didnt react to it as i never wanted to take up any legal case and bring my son to court.After 6 months on my Brother in laws insistence i statrted sending him mails and he then asked me to join him bak.I did that and reasoned out that i will get bak my son.Also sincee he was moving out from his parents house ,my in laws problems was also waived off.Two yrs later he has again come bak to my in laws city and i started working.He was without ajob.H estarted fighting with me and to larger extent it was my MIL's hand in that.He again started becoming physical.He one day called up my boss on pretext of meeting him.

2006-09-14 01:34:18 · 10 answers · asked by 2467 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There is this guy that states that he really likes me. We are currently friends and would like to eventually take our relationship to the next step. Right now he says that we are in "transition". What does this mean? We have been talking over the phone and in person for over 2 months now. He states that he is not a waste of my time. Currently, he has not been calling or answering his text messages. Yesterday I sent him an email to let him know that right now I am not happy because he dosen't call for a week and it seems to be too much for him. I think that if you want to be with someone you should at least show it. I had plans of flying down to see him on my birthday. Do you think this is a waste of time? Last night I was on the phone with a friend, and I received a text from him stating that he can't call me. I asked why and he said right now he is so unhappy. I once asked again and he said nothing is going right. What does this mean? Should I leave him alone? Or wait on him to call?

2006-09-14 01:31:37 · 15 answers · asked by bre 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-14 01:30:46 · 40 answers · asked by Nieshia 1 in Singles & Dating

Yes there are children involved-You have tried for years to work things out,he slams doors,calls you names in front of the children,you have tried your best to get him to quit and act like a father and a husband,but he just wont change,he is unsupportive not only financially but personally,and inside you feel so alone,first would you stay and second what would you do if someone else came into your world that made you feel like a princess-and remember when you answer that you have done your best to make this marriage work

2006-09-14 01:30:45 · 48 answers · asked by TAMMY M 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-14 01:30:44 · 9 answers · asked by 3d.gal.tammy! 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-14 01:30:38 · 10 answers · asked by Flimflam 1 in Singles & Dating

I was working in a hospital for a while and I fell for a doctor there. He´s over 10 years older. But I felt we had a connection and now I learnt that he has a girlfriend. What shall I do ? ( I know all will say forget it) Please give me some advice !!!!!!!!!

2006-09-14 01:29:11 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A very good friend of mine and her husband are leading seperate lives for the past 10 years. He threatened to rather kill her than divorce her. Her kids are grown and independent. Can she start divorce procedings without his knowlege and hide until the divorce is legal? Does she have to appear everytime there is a case? She refuses any entitlement of the divorce settlement. She just wants to leave and look for love somewhere else.

2006-09-14 01:28:20 · 9 answers · asked by ariel 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Even if you know you shouldn't be together...?

2006-09-14 01:27:55 · 24 answers · asked by LADY__LUCK 2 in Singles & Dating

the other grow yesterday harmless you seems to be never have, and I told her so. Would you have added anything to that?

2006-09-14 01:26:17 · 10 answers · asked by steve b 5 in Friends

Wouldn't it be nice to have a man that loved you liked this:

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.
1 Corinthians 13: 4-8

Well there is a man that loves you like this...Are you ready to know who He is.

God is Love
1John 4: 16

If God is love, then that means God fits the description above. He is patient, kind, etc. God is who you really need. He is the perfect man who came to die for an impefect you.

Now you can keep on trying to find that man you have always been looking for, but you will only find him in God's arms.

Accept what your Lord Jesus has done for you. Let Him be your man. He will never leave you, nor forsake you (Hebrews 13: 5) nor will He ever stop loving you.

2006-09-14 01:25:01 · 7 answers · asked by Dead 2 Self 4 in Singles & Dating

of a better way to say goodye??
I usually just say c u later.

2006-09-14 01:22:26 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

just curious.

2006-09-14 01:21:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

The IT manager of the company we a re affiliated to asked me out. We had an amazing time. He was funny and chilled out and kept making me laugh. He went on all romantic it was lovely. He then was a bit distant and he said it was due to him recently splitting up with ex. Cool i wasnt bothered, as i am very busy anyway. We had a few more dates and you can guess what we ended up getting up to. It was just what I needed. He popped into my office to see me a few times after that, we chatted a bit on the phone but then he just stops calling and emailing. Im a bit surprised but didnt ask him why, i just left it. Now he texts me saying he has met someone and he has started seeing her and that he thought he should let me know. I am like omg are you having a laugh? Was I not seeing him? I am obviously hurt and angry, but I need to work with this guy on occasion and he knows this. Do i give him grief or rise above and make out like I dont care. I am very confused. Apologies for the essay. thanks.

2006-09-14 01:20:04 · 16 answers · asked by Ms.Trouble 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-14 01:19:49 · 7 answers · asked by dustin b 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-14 01:19:25 · 30 answers · asked by kathy froggylady40 2 in Singles & Dating