Family & Relationships - 14 September 2006

I mean like an on again off again friendship/relationship. Let's say certain things kept ticking you off and that's why ya'll stopped talking so many times, but what is the one thing that you absolutely couldn't take and you stopped talking to them for good.

2006-09-14 02:34:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had to use my boyfriend's cell phone to call home and I noticed my name was listed under an alias (a guys name). I know he had cheated on me with his ex before after I had told him to leave (after a big argument). The ex knows about me, but what I don't understand is why did he make up a name for me in his cell phone. Even if she is still in the picture, shouldn't he be more concerned with my feelings, what's up here?

2006-09-14 02:34:32 · 6 answers · asked by stella 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-14 02:33:16 · 6 answers · asked by R J 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend of 7 1/2 yrs and I got into this huge stupid argument last nite and I was so angry but he turned everything around and said that it was all my fault. He went out to the local watering hole with his buddies--He asked me to pick him up at 9 so I said okay--I fell asleep and my sister wakes me at 9 asking if I was still supposed to pick him up. I said I was and since I was so groggy she offered to go get him for me. I said okay. Well obviously it was a problem--he wouldn't come home with her and wouldn't answer his cell. I went to pick him up and we started in on the way home. He brought up all sorts of things that didn't even pertain to the reason why we were mad at each other. I said some ugly stuff because he always does this to me when he mixed his liquor. He threatened to throw me out which my reply to that was go ahead he would never make it without my money. Was it okay for me to be mad that he didn't come home with my sister? Or is he right in being mad at me

2006-09-14 02:33:12 · 33 answers · asked by WonderTwit 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-14 02:32:59 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We are good friends, he calls me from time to time and we are very comfortable around eachother. But I am in love with him and have been for awhile now. It's killing me inside and it's to the point where I just want to get it out and if he doesn't feel the same, then I can just stop being friends with him and I can move on. I can't forget about him when he's in my life. I drive myself crazy over when and if he's going to call and so forth. What do I do? Get it out and tell him why I can't be friends with him anymore, or just stop answering his calls and "disappear"? I don't think he looks at me as a gf, it's hard to tell with him.

2006-09-14 02:32:19 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi, I really hope some of you guys can give me pointers on this. I met a great guy a couple of months ago, we spent loads of time together and became very close very quickly. We still kept our independence, however, but really enjoyed the time we spent together (including the fantastic sex!)

Everything was going great until a couple of weeks ago, when he suddenly announced that he was worried about getting into a 'really serious' relationship so soon after breaking up with his ex (about eight months ago). I suggested we take a break but he didn't want to do that - in fact he told me that he had fallen for me very quickly and was scared.

We spent that night together, but now he's distant again. He has contacted me but I feel a bad feeling in my gut. I sent him some sexy messages the other day and I got pretty average responses. I am concerned that he has lost interest...and I'm the last woman to want to be needy or dependent on someone. So...should I cut my losses now?

2006-09-14 02:31:32 · 6 answers · asked by Abigail G 1 in Singles & Dating

last evening i was watching this news cast it stated that children of seperated parents are less happy than parents of an unhappy marriage as long as there is no abuse i for one always thought it would be better to seperate cuz i figure your kids could be happier if the parents are happier so what do u think is the happier child. this news cast also mention the reason for the child of seperated parents being less happy is they always have to be shipped off to the opposite parents house they have to adapt to sets of rules

2006-09-14 02:31:09 · 14 answers · asked by OFFICER CAMPBELL 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I met a great guy who is not at all like other guys I dated. He is younger, very respectable. single dad of a 3yr old , nice , and we talk for hours on the phone we have alot on comon. Im also a single mom hes not the thuggish type Im use too and I dont know how to deal with him . I feel hes a real man and im afraid to open up and let him in. This is scary!Help what shouid I do?? Am I passin up a good thing?

2006-09-14 02:31:08 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you've been burned twice why would you wanna get burned again?

2006-09-14 02:30:08 · 26 answers · asked by *new new mackiin'* 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-14 02:30:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-09-14 02:29:50 · 11 answers · asked by covergirl1303 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

just to have some excitement once a while but purely for fun only

2006-09-14 02:29:45 · 15 answers · asked by Phantom of the Opera 4 in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend broke up with me yesterday and we go to the same school and i dont want to see him. But i have to give him his key back.

2006-09-14 02:28:33 · 22 answers · asked by nonya 2 in Singles & Dating

We just got a new couch, and we got into an arguement on what you call having sex on a new couch. my boyfriend says its called 'initiating' the new couch, but i dont think thats right. I know its something that means the same as 'breaking in' but i just cant rack my my mind for the right word. any help??

2006-09-14 02:28:12 · 13 answers · asked by cassee85 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I called the paralegal 3 times to tell her to be sure and cxl the divorce. She even created a postnuptial so we could move on to happier topics. 1 1/2 yr later it was brought to my attention from a friend that I showed divorced on the online Gov. page.. After checking, to my devastation I found out we were divorced as the paralegal never cxld it.....I still feel married to him but we keep spliting up & getting back together but he won't marry me again....Help? I didn't want to get divorced after getting back together and now I can't seem to keep him? Why doesn't he understand why I still feel married to him?

2006-09-14 02:26:24 · 6 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I know of a mopther who is providing pot to her 14 yr old son and smoking with him his older breother is a user as well.Not to mention they are all alcoholics What should I do.She just got her son back from state custody

2006-09-14 02:26:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

A man that I loved called me yesterday after not talking to him in 2 years. At the time when I wanted to be with him and I told him I loved him he was married and I was in a relationship and had a daughter with the person I was in the relationship with. As time went on we realized we couldn't be together because he was married. I continued my relationship with my daughter's father. Yesterday the married man called and told me that he has been divorced for a year now and wants to be with me. In all this time my feelings have never changed for him and I don't know what to do.

2006-09-14 02:25:48 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know my husband lied to me about looking at some pornos. I found some of them in an attachment, and I did a little work and discovered other places he had been online, and where this stuff came from.

When I confronted him yesterday, he said, "Huh? I don't even know where those came from." In this pitch and tone that he would NEVER use if he was being truthful. Anyway, I KNOW him, and I KNOW he's lying. Who put the pictures up there? A ghost? No one uses this machine but him or myself. I hate this fool right now, because if he'd lie about this, what else is he lying about?

Being that he won't come clean (poor choice of words given the offense) I don't know what I should do now. I am thinking about calling a UHAUL and packing my crap and my kids and moving on. I can do bad by myself.

2006-09-14 02:25:29 · 12 answers · asked by Goddess of Nuts PBUH 4 in Marriage & Divorce

im thankful to the last answer. im 34 my wife has two children aged 6 year old son and 15 month old baby girl. i love these kids as my own and feel as i ve complete family. my wife is still young at 31. she loves me so much so she wanna give me one child. but im not prepared to have any more kids. but i cant refuse her cos i love her. now a days she's not taking birth control pills. i fear if i have more kids it may cause discrimination aganist her kids and it may also make a point to her ex husbant who wanna claim kids. is there anyway i can prevent my wife getting pregnant without using condoms pls advice.

2006-09-14 02:24:29 · 9 answers · asked by Danny Y 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-14 02:23:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-14 02:23:08 · 20 answers · asked by l0vegun68 1 in Singles & Dating

lol, i have. I got sick of the way my ex husband kept hurting me so i actually flipped him a quarter and walked out never to return. Freedom at last. I am finally legally DIVORCED!

2006-09-14 02:22:40 · 12 answers · asked by ? 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-14 02:22:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am in love with an angry man & he throws fits over just about anything which is very immature for a 25 year old. I realize this & I have accepted this & yes I do know he most likely will not change or grow out of this childish pattern.

Something scared me yesterday. I haven't noticed this before, when we came home and settled in the cat was meowing. Although she already ate a few hours earlier, I told him to give her a treat or two. She came kind of close to him and when he moved she ran toward me. I grabbed her and told him "shes scared of you". He got very offended by it.

I wake up right when my bf leaves for work. This morning I decided to pretend I was asleep just cuz I guess.The cat didn't know I was awake either. He called her in to feed her, which I do not him & she didn't move. He came to hug me goodbye while I was sleeping, then started calling the cat. She ran away from him.

When he left the door she made noises then proceeded to wake me up. She ran to her food.

2006-09-14 02:21:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am doing a list of things to be grateful for x

And would like as many as possible ...

2006-09-14 02:20:57 · 16 answers · asked by Palmsbird 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

we kissed two weeks ago and I stood him up (accidentally - I cudnt get out of work or contact him) on Monday. Should I txt him and see if he wants to go for a drink tomorrow?

2006-09-14 02:20:46 · 40 answers · asked by Sarah M 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-14 02:20:13 · 4 answers · asked by 3d.gal.tammy! 1 in Singles & Dating

I dont understand if it hurts so much then why keep doing it???

2006-09-14 02:19:53 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-14 02:18:17 · 55 answers · asked by kitty98712 1 in Singles & Dating