If you've been burned twice why would you wanna get burned again?
2006-09-14 02:30:08 · 26 answers · asked by *new new mackiin'* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wonder the same thing. My father in law has been married 4 times and none have worked out. Yet, he still looks for love.
I guess people just don't want to be alone.
2006-09-14 02:33:44 · answer #1 · answered by Jen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here are a few things to keep in mind. Could you really appreciate a great love if you have never experienced loss in the past? and how could you recognize the right person if you have never tried and failed before. Life is about trial and error. We can't have the love without the heart ache. Everytime we fall we will get back up that much better. Everytime a love ends keep this in mind, if what you thought was so great didn't last, then there is something ten times better out there and you know that you have something to look forward to. The world works the way it is supposed to whether people like it or not. the person you are meant to be with is out there, and if you were with the wrong person you should be thanking God for giving you a chance to keep looking. You have heard that is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. This is so true. I have always lived by this rule of thumb... it is better to try and get burned than it is to give up and never learn. I think it is easier to live with I tried and it didn't work, than to live with I wonder if. A relationship is either going to work or it won't, but you will never know if you don't give it a shot. And you will never find your true love if you don't take chances. You can't wait for destine to hit you over the head, you have got to seek it out. Broken hearts along the way are a part of life, they suck, but they are apsoultely necessary in order for us to really discover true happiness in the end.
2006-09-14 02:37:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm at that exact point. I don't want to try again. I've always been a passionate person, and always needed somebody to love. I fell in love twice, and the last girl was everything I could have ever hoped for. I would have then and would still spend the rest of my life with her or even give my life for her. But, for the first time in my life, I feel hesitant to have a girlfriend, I feel lazy about love. I don't feel like asking the girl I'm seeing to commit to me, nor do I feel like committing to her. I've never felt that before and it scares me. I don't even think about whether or not I'd get burned. I just feel tired. I feel like a part of me is still in someone else's possession, even though I'm over the relationship. It's been a year now, and I've dated 3 times, been on dates with several other girls, and I rarely think about the relationship I had. But for some reason, I don't feel like dating. It's very different for me.
2006-09-14 02:37:10 · answer #3 · answered by Rockstar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not everyone is the same. there are nice guys out there. just keep trying until you get the right one. i have been divorced twice and i have finely found the right man. i feel that when you are not looking for him he shows up. love hurts and that is true. i thought that both times that it was the real thing but i ws fooled and hurt real bad by both. i went looking for friends and their he was a man that was nice and kind and easy to talk to . after about 4 weeks of talking to each other everyday about. we said at the same time that we felt like there was something else there. and so we are trying it. and we both have the understanding that if it doesn't work then we were going to still be friends. because we like to talk to each other and have good advice for each other. so don't give up your prince will come when you least expect it.
2006-09-14 02:38:45 · answer #4 · answered by kathy froggylady40 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All good things must come to an end. Right? It does feel wonderful to be in love. Even if short lived. It also hurts. But that's the price we pay sometimes. Anyway, I love being in love. I just wish I had a deep love. I don't think I have ever felt a deep love before. But I have time.
2006-09-14 02:34:07 · answer #5 · answered by cheerstoyou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To burn again. To fail again, by now I am used to fail. So when success happens I will ne overjoyed. Also tht will help me succeed in this better as I will always find out why I failed and will do better next time. Isnt it fun, LOL
2006-09-14 02:33:09 · answer #6 · answered by Coolguy_punjabi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like the way you say burn. Well its really hard to explaine. you just want some one to hold you in their arms right. you want to feel like some one is protecting you . like some one cares if you exist right. well i know how you feel i have been burned alot in my life. some well most guys are *** holes and want one thing but there are a small few that care about most of that. hey if you get a chance can you plz plz plz look at my ? just click on my face and select ?'s just read it if you like it reply if you dont reply and say im an *** or some thing just so i know you answered my ? plz and thank you
2006-09-14 02:34:12 · answer #7 · answered by unkown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the best way to grow as a person and as a lover.
Who's counting ? anyway.
Who cares how many times?
Look at the reasons !!
Get worried if the problem is always you, if not, don't worry, it's a normal situation.
We can never say how many times is too much.
Try again,
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.and again,
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.and again, until you find the one.
2006-09-14 02:34:27 · answer #8 · answered by Classy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might take me some time to want to love again, but if the right person came along I would definately do what ever I could to love him.
2006-09-14 02:31:58 · answer #9 · answered by ms. fix-it 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope!! i fell in love once and i aint been right ever since. i wanna try again but i dont. but i guess u have to make ur next move ya best move
2006-09-14 02:34:03 · answer #10 · answered by sexygurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋