Even if you know you shouldn't be together...?
2006-09-14 01:27:55 · 24 answers · asked by LADY__LUCK 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its because he is very jealous and aggressive and possesive at times, but other times he's lovely. He also lies about stupid stuff, and wont move out of his parents house (he's 30)
All my friends don't like him and I've lost so many just by staying with him for as long as I did (but I think if they were true friends they would have stuck by me) and my family can't stand him........
2006-09-14 02:30:32 · update #1
depends on the problem, sometimes its better to hurt for a while then to hurt forever if you stay. Giving up is hard but listen to the heart then add the head and find your answer. Wait till your calm.
2006-09-14 01:45:59 · answer #1 · answered by teneesha2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I split up with my other half after 4 1/2 years because I thought it would be 'easier'. The situation we were in was horrendous and I bottled it all up and in the end I left him. Luckily he took me back when I realised that I needed him no matter what and now I sit down and talk to him about things and everything goes so much smoother it just keeps getting better and better. I suggest sitting down with him and telling him that some of the things he does hurts you and your scared that you may have to leave him. If your meant to be together he will come to his senses. If he doesn't then that decision has to be made by you. No one else can help you with this. Talk to him and talk to your friends, they will give you the support that you need. Good luck hunni *hugs*
2006-09-14 10:18:16 · answer #2 · answered by shepherdess7980 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In what way should the two of you not be together? Explain please! If it is the other person that has decided that the two of you should not be together, then you should just go on with your life and find someone new! But if the two of you have the same feelings for one another, then no I don't see why you should give up on this person! If being together is what the both of you want then the two of you are together for a reason!
Good Luck!!!!!
2006-09-14 09:09:45 · answer #3 · answered by bigred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in that situation with a ex-boyfriend for years and I am at the point that I realize that enough is enough and I have given up on us ever getting back together again. It has kept me from moving on, I have thought about him every single day all these years. In reality their is many reasons why I should not be in a relationship again with him. Given up has opened new doors with others and new love.
2006-09-14 08:40:59 · answer #4 · answered by Bazinga 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
firstly you have to think about the reasons that you can't be together. will it actually hurt someone if you are together? will you be disowned by your family? will you lose a friend? then you need to weigh this up against what will happen to you if you are not together. try not to make your decision just because you think it is what other people will want you to do, if they truly love you then they will come round to your way of thinking.
2006-09-14 08:34:12 · answer #5 · answered by Sazzle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't usually say this but i think you need to find someone else. he's a focus for your mind and the yearning to be with a partner. you're obviously ready for the big deal. have a read of 'feel the fear and do it anyway' by susan jeffers and get dating again. try chatting online on yahoo personals but don't meet anyone until you've chatted for a few weeks. it's a good way to meet lots of different guys without physically meeting them and finding out what attracts you and makes you tick. you're attraction to this guy was strong but will fade.
2006-09-14 09:50:21 · answer #6 · answered by minerva 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really depends on why you shouldn't be together! If they're already with someone else, then yes, leave well alone, you deserve to have your own man. Also believe in fate and what will be and get on with your own life. If you start doing your own thing, you might get lucky and they could come to you!!
2006-09-14 08:35:33 · answer #7 · answered by Oldfruit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the question begs - why shouldnt you be together?
If its a case that one of ye is married or involved then YES you should give up - not fair on the innocent partner
Other than that I dont see why not, would love to know why you shouldnt be together though - might be able to give a bit better advice then!
2006-09-14 08:32:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the situation doesn't permit you to be together, then I think it would be a good idea for your sake as much as his. Maybe remaining as friends would be an option you'd consider
2006-09-14 08:32:08 · answer #9 · answered by brown_sugah064 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This can only be answered by your heart and by the way this person feels about you. If you feel that you shouldn't be together maybe your heart is giving you the answer you are looking for.
2006-09-14 08:41:13 · answer #10 · answered by toyloy27 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋