There is this guy that states that he really likes me. We are currently friends and would like to eventually take our relationship to the next step. Right now he says that we are in "transition". What does this mean? We have been talking over the phone and in person for over 2 months now. He states that he is not a waste of my time. Currently, he has not been calling or answering his text messages. Yesterday I sent him an email to let him know that right now I am not happy because he dosen't call for a week and it seems to be too much for him. I think that if you want to be with someone you should at least show it. I had plans of flying down to see him on my birthday. Do you think this is a waste of time? Last night I was on the phone with a friend, and I received a text from him stating that he can't call me. I asked why and he said right now he is so unhappy. I once asked again and he said nothing is going right. What does this mean? Should I leave him alone? Or wait on him to call?
2006-09-14 01:31:37 · 15 answers · asked by bre 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My male friend said that if he has enough time to text he has enough time to call. My friend also said that he is triflin' and that I deserve better and that I shouldn't send another text. Wait on voice recognition.
2006-09-14 01:34:23 · update #1
Tell him you're there to talk to if he needs it. You can't push him at the moment but if it turns out he's ignoring you he's really not worth it. He doesn't sound like that kind of person though. Wait it out, they say patience is a virtue and just let him know that you'll be there if and when he's ready to talk.
I hope this helps you.
2006-09-14 01:36:03 · answer #1 · answered by Rachie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha guy I hate this stuff that chicks pull. I swear they take an effortless count number and function to create drama one way or the different. in any case i dated a woman like that very last summer season and that i recommend its fairly as a lot as you. in case you do like her and prefer to be which includes her then I say follow it. She is probable a acceptable lady or in basic terms anxious about shifting into something perhaps had a nasty experience contained in the previous with a bf. She probable needs to sense major on your existence and regardless of that you wont in basic terms as I call it "use and abuse her." She might want to be testing you regardless of the reality that with the pretend emotions and crap because except you try the courting you do not recognize what is going to ensue. i'm a 20 three hundred and sixty 5 days previous guy and Im searching for a lady in basic terms like you yet i might want to %. the girl who's choosy about there bfs not a woman who's prepared to leap right into a courting with any guy you recognize
2016-11-26 22:47:55 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's trying to straighten some things out in his life without subjecting you to the grief involved.Sounds kind of admirable to me.If your interested in him give him a little time.Then tell him to step up or step away.
2006-09-14 01:38:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your next text message to him should be..... sorry you lost me... and leave it at that. he is not interested in you. if he was he would spend his time talking to you and not ignoring you. he is using you and I would not waste my time on a guy who wont even bother to return my calls or texts. Don't wait for him to respond when he does delete with out reading get on with your life. find some one closer to you who cares about you..
2006-09-14 01:43:16 · answer #4 · answered by bluedanube69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone, he's either with someone else or he's just not that interested. Maybe if you act like you're not that interested he'll realise what he's missing.
Even if he is telling the truth, he still sounds like he needs space, so leave him alone either way.
2006-09-14 01:39:03 · answer #5 · answered by Yasmin H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him be darlin, there is something going on deeper than what he can explain to u over a text message.
He'll come to u when he gets things straightened out. Men tend to turn inward and try to solve things themselves.
2006-09-14 01:34:56 · answer #6 · answered by cvs_girl_36 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a confused ,self-centered ,inconsiderate freak who doesn't know how to treat a lady .please do not proceed cause if you do ,he will make you so unhappy and you wont be able to leave cause you would have fallen deep in love with him so don't you go any further . be brave girl.don't be drawn to him because of his charm . bye
2006-09-14 01:52:26 · answer #7 · answered by geebabe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you just relax till you get his next call he wouls most likly give you an answer to all your doubts if he can't give you a concrete answer then i say its byebye before you get obsessed
2006-09-14 01:38:14 · answer #8 · answered by nayo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait on him to call, mabe some stuff is just going on in his life and he needs to be alone
2006-09-14 01:34:37 · answer #9 · answered by aliage203 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CANT U SEE HE DOSNT have ur time........i advice u 2 proceed
2006-09-14 01:52:06 · answer #10 · answered by sweetguy4real 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋