firstly, i've been dating my boyfriend for four and a half months and my family doesn't know. i am 15 and he is 17. i havn't told my family bcuz b4 we started goin out, my mum sed to me that she doesn't want me to go out with my boyfriend bcuz she thinks he is mentally unstable. should i tell my parents?
secondly, at the end of the yr (as my bf is in grade 12) he is moving to Melbourne. atm we live about 15 mins away from each other in queensland. we hav made it clear to each other that we are in love and we don't want to seperate. as i am basically the only person who doesn't bully him out at school....he loves me to death and has made it clear, that if we break up wen he moves, he will not b the one breaking it. therefore, it is my decision if we break up at the end of the yr.
wat should i do? i don't want to leave him but i don't know if i'll b able to cope not seeing him for ages (as he plans to come see his family every so often). can LDR's work? i don't want to lose him :(
2006-09-14 01:46:02 · 3 answers · asked by i_rule_the_world!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Long distance relationships can work sometimes. If you are in love with him, don't just break up with him because he is moving (is he going to college?) at the end of the year. You may grow apart before you graduate and can move out there with him, but you two may be able to keep the love strong over the next few years. It's worth a shot! Good luck!
2006-09-14 01:58:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Boyfriend and I are 24 and 26, and very much inlove. He is going into the army and we have desided that it is best for both of us to not continue our romantic realationship long dictance. at times i wish we could try but i know in the end it is better for our freind ship to just let things be as they are. at your age I would say it is probebly best to continue a friendship but not try to continue a romantic realtionship long distance. you are young and have plenty of time and if things are ment to be they will be. but the end of the school year is a ways away and you have alot of time to think about it and descuse it with him and desided what you feel is best for you.
2006-09-14 14:56:21 · answer #2 · answered by midesweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are still really young. At your age LDR do not work usually
2006-09-14 08:49:46 · answer #3 · answered by malorieks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋