Family & Relationships - 13 September 2006

Ok.. this is what a girl that i like replied to my email, askin how she felt about me,
well first of all, I don't hate you. second, I haven't been avoiding you either becuase its not been just swimming that I've been busy with its been life.I also haven't been beating around the bush because you never asked me if I did or not. But I haven't ever thought of being more than friends with you because we've always been good friends and I think thats how things should stay.I just don't want to ruin a friendship.hope you've had a good day, and i will talk to you later

ok, now shes 13 I'm 15. We've been friends since like I wuz 7. Now it is totally obvious, because she makes herself perfectly clear, that she wants nothing more than to be friends. I am respeceting that, and giving her space, we havent talked about it 4 3 weeks. My question is, does she like me at all, or is she scared, cuz she says she doesnt want to ruin a friendship??

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3 hours ago
But, like a few months ago, it was completely obvious she liked me, I mean people thought we were dating, then she found out I liked her, and she reall backed off. And she told her mom, who she is really close to , that she is really scared, because she doesnt want to take the chance of ruining the friendship. But what should I do/ think:? Because, now she is like totally all over these other guys, like she used to be with me, and it rips my heart out. And please dont tell me I'm to young, I have like many girls, but none like her. I've been trying to let this go forever, but it is really really hard, because I really care for her, I would do anything in this world, anything to be with her, but I want her to be happy , and if shes not happy with me, thats fine. But what should i do?

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5 hours ago
I mean she's never beenin a relationship, so she could be scared, will anything ever happen in the future, I mean I am respecting her wishes, and she knows that, We havent talked about it for a long time, could anything possibly happen in the future??

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ok its like this theres this boy and i think hes cute and funny,but hes in a different class than me so it dont seem right to talk to him since hes in a diff class we still talk and stuff but i really like him and hes says were only kinda friends wat should i do to make him like me since i rteally like him and i obviosly know he likes me but he just wont admit it to any one i know he likes me because my
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2006-09-13 08:52:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

This will sound really bad to most people but I do not like my dad. Sometimes I fantasize about him dying in a car accident. My parents adopted me when I was 3 days old. I didnt find out until I was 10. Now I am 5 inches taller than them. I love my mom and we get along great. My dad is really smart. He isnt ugly, but he's my calculus teacher in high school. Everyone likes him because he keeps peoples attention in class. He makes it interesting. He's short and he looks just like Nellie Olson's husband Percival on little house on the prairie! Except his hair is cut short and he's 47. I say mean things to him all the time, like I hate him and wish he was dead. Then he ignores me for days and treats me like I am invisible in class. I like it when he ignores me in class. It takes the spotlight off me being his daughter. He is really a good father and he loves me. So why can't I like him back? Why do I have a complex from being associated with him? And how do I get rid of it?

2006-09-13 08:52:37 · 20 answers · asked by Amanda S 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

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I recently split with my girlfriend,i gave up alot for her!!
I now see that it was never going to work in the first place,why did my brain stop working.??????
(i wasn't thinking with my ****)

2006-09-13 08:52:14 · 8 answers · asked by paul m 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

cheating?

I tried breaking up this morning, and my cheating boyfriend doesnt seem to get it! He is saying that he never cheated, and that we'll just move away in order to prove that he's not attached to anyone but me--anywhere I want to go!

2006-09-13 08:52:02 · 9 answers · asked by bye bye! 2 in Singles & Dating

this guy at my church be staring we talk were kind of hi bye friends and he be staring at me like he undressing me wit his eyes its kind of scary and he flirts alot like he gave me hug for a long time for no reason then he hit me and was play fighting

2006-09-13 08:51:56 · 24 answers · asked by Tired_of _the_games 1 in Singles & Dating

1. If you give a guy your phone number, do you want him to ask you out on a date the first time he calls you or do you prefer that he talk to you a few times on the phone before asking you out?

2. If the first date goes well with a guy, when should the second date take place (how long after the first date)?

3. What are the best places/activities for first and second dates?

2006-09-13 08:51:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

some of the lyrics are: when it's you and me and five thousand people ... I can't keep my eyes off of you

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my husband of 3mo. thinks that there should only be one person in conrol of the income mine and his i have three older children that are not his but he has helped me raise for 17years we have one together he is 7 know i work out of the house 8 hours a day he also works 8 hours anite and dose interperting at the courts in the days so i my daughter recently has recived ssi for cancer and he wonts to be in control over that money also if he buy me something out of his money i usual have to pay it back or i,ll hear i took u out to dinner i asked him for gas money why did i do that he,s like i should not have to ask him for money if i did not give him my check first of all the ssi has nothing to do with him and second i have to pay $200 a monuth for child care for our son and still take care of my other two teens who if anyone has any knows there cloths and shoes are not cheap and help with the morage and house hold bills i make $10 dollars an hour he makes $12 and interpenters make good mo

2006-09-13 08:49:41 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, my guy friend is in a military program, and he came back for a day to have a get together. My friends mom told me that he kept asking if I was coming... he also gave me about 5 hugs during the 6 hours we were there. we talked most of the time... and he had a smile on his face the whole time.... do you think he likes me... I'm confused, He might just be happy to see me... please help!!!


P.S- If he doesn't like me like that, is there a way i can get him to like me ... more than just a friend?

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2006-09-13 08:48:40 · 16 answers · asked by chris 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Paula Abdul lookalikes out there, she is so sexy (american idol / X factor) and if there is can i marry you lol? Or if that is out of the question can you send me a picture.

2006-09-13 08:48:36 · 11 answers · asked by ? 5 in Singles & Dating

If you have been through a stressful divorce, i need your story!
Thank you!

2006-09-13 08:48:29 · 12 answers · asked by susan s 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I really like this girl and we really really good freinds,she think im hot and really funny so i decided to ask her out, but she said that we really good freinds and it might be a little weird, do u think it i weird & can u give me suggestions of how to get her to look past that. Thanks

2006-09-13 08:48:18 · 6 answers · asked by dirtracr171 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-13 08:47:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im 20 years old with a great job .........great personality ....victorville area.
Guys im looking for a romantic honest man.
Let me know!!!!!!

2006-09-13 08:47:37 · 10 answers · asked by missme 2 in Singles & Dating

nickname?

How did you get it?

2006-09-13 08:47:21 · 33 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

okey i fall in love with a woman just in the first day that I saw her, today is my 4th day, but she have boyfriend, but i love her no matter what, do you think is right to tell her my strong feeling that I love her next time that I will meet her?because I can't stand this feeling no longer?

2006-09-13 08:46:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

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do they like all deferent types or only they kind.

2006-09-13 08:45:18 · 12 answers · asked by DADUDE 2 in Singles & Dating

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2006-09-13 08:45:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you're sitting down with a guy, and the guy leans in towards you, and touches you, do you consider this as flirting, he likes you??? And touching your hips as well, putting his arm around you??

2006-09-13 08:45:04 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2006-09-13 08:44:03 · 6 answers · asked by Mike 1 in Friends

2006-09-13 08:43:41 · 20 answers · asked by AC 1 in Singles & Dating

Suddenly, husband of 15 years "doesn't know what he wants". I sometimes get the feeling there is someONE else (tho he denies it). Should I wait until he "knows" what he wants or try and leave with some dignity and not just stick around waiting for him to love me back?

2006-09-13 08:43:33 · 11 answers · asked by Canada 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i've been living with my bf for almost a yr,n the thing is i always think he's cheating on me idk i just get these feelings. idk wat to do. and awhile back he told my cousin that he was going to ask me to marry him. but hasn't yet its been over 5 months you think he would have asked me by now but no. and what i want to know is if i should talk to him or not or just wait longer but i want to know b4 we move n stuff n i get into all this with him n buy a house because i don't want to put money into this n loose out on it n then have nothing since i'll be going to college soon n everything.. what do u guys think?

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