okey i fall in love with a woman just in the first day that I saw her, today is my 4th day, but she have boyfriend, but i love her no matter what, do you think is right to tell her my strong feeling that I love her next time that I will meet her?because I can't stand this feeling no longer?
2006-09-13 08:46:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
There is no real answer to this question but what I have learned of what love is to me and that is the word LOVE itself holds the answer.......
(L)isten: and validate them by hearing and empathizing.
(O)verlook: their minor character flaws as they will overlook yours.
(V)alue: who they are and what they mean to you.
(E)xpress: how you love them not just with words but with actions.
2006-09-15 16:05:02 · answer #1 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Love is a condition or phenomenon of emotional primacy, or absolute value. Love generally includes an emotion of intense attraction to either another person, a place, or thing; and may also include the aspect of caring for or finding identification with those objects, including self-love. Love can describe an intense feeling of affection, an emotion or an emotional state. In ordinary use, it usually refers to interpersonal love, an experience usually felt by a person for another person. Love is commonly considered impossible to define.
The concept of love, however, is subject to debate. Some deny the existence of love. Others call it a recently invented abstraction, sometimes dating the "invention" to courtly Europe during or after the middle ages (though this is contradicted by the sizable body of ancient love poetry). Others maintain that love really exists, is not an abstraction, but is indefinable; being a quantity which is spiritual, metaphysical, or philosophical in nature. Some psychologists maintain that love is the action of lending one's "boundary" or "self esteem" to another. And others attempt to define love and apply the definition to everyday life.
2006-09-16 12:15:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think it'd be appropriate for u to tell her about this feeling..and the first thing is that how can u be so sure that it's love..and that too on the 4th day of mere looking at her...ur feelings for her might change over time as u begin to know her n she might have habits that u simply hate n u might not be interested in her anymore...moreover, it seems that u're simply attracted to her for some time...even though i'm not an expert or something as far as love is concerned, but i know that's it's a deep n true feeling...take my advice..stay away from her...mainly coz she already has a bf
2006-09-13 15:52:35 · answer #3 · answered by Rollester 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel as if love has no limit on days ,hours,color,age,etc.. But i do think you may need to slow down just a little & get to know her alot more cause you did say she had a boyfriend & you don't want to be with someone that leaves their boyfriend & jumps straight to you. Why? Cause that can happen to you .
2006-09-13 15:51:10 · answer #4 · answered by "karma" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like lust and it is hard to determine what is what. I think you should take a cold shower and give it some time if it is real love you want it to be based on a strong freindship first and then see where it goes from there.Good luck
2006-09-13 16:02:21 · answer #5 · answered by kuel_lady_di 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is when you cant live w/ out that person in your life. they are the last thing you think of before you fall asleep and they are the first thing you think of when you wake up, love makes your life enjoyable. it is fulfillment and happiness to your life. love brings light upon your life
you might scare her off just by throwing your feelings out there like that i say take some time and move slow its going be difficult cuz of the whole bf thing
2006-09-14 11:22:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should wait it out and see if you continue to love her. In my opinion it sounds like you are infatuated with her more than anything. You might just think you love her, but instead you just have a really deep liking for her. It would be one thing to say that you love her if you were in a relationship with her, but if she is dating someone else then I would definately evaluate your feelings, because it doesnt sound like this is love to me.
2006-09-13 15:51:04 · answer #7 · answered by kristy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be coming on a bit strong to just come out and tell her. Why don't you try to see if she has any feelings in return first. Just feel her out a bit.
2006-09-13 15:51:34 · answer #8 · answered by smashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok slick your going to have to slow down, right now if you ran up to her and told her that you loved her, you would just run her off. Be slow about it, if she likes you too then she will show you. Dont rush it, if you truly love this women then relax. Find ways to sweep her off her feet. Like a mistry lover or something. just dont go up to her right now and say that, because thats a big no no
2006-09-13 15:51:17 · answer #9 · answered by justwaitingtoleave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!! You don't want to express your undying love for someone that you don't really even know. Save your dignity and hope that she breaks up with her boyfriend then ask her out on a date, but keep the love stuff to your self for now.
2006-09-13 15:50:20 · answer #10 · answered by mvngs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOVE IS - staying committed to being committed and not going after that hot, fine, sexy looking mama standing across the room. Keeping your wang in the hanger ........and in your cause she's with someone bro....get over it dude, they're plenty of other women out there. Plus would you like it if she was your girl and someone like you was wanting to tell your girl he loves her.......like you wanna do. You'd wanna kick his asse bro.......get over it.
2006-09-13 15:52:27 · answer #11 · answered by hard o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋