difference between talking to males and females?

Question

Is talking to female and males feel the same for anyone of you? Like what is the difference between talking to males and females? I'm sure you should not have a dirty mind when you first talk to them. What is okay to talk about to female and/or males?

Erm, I said the difference in TALKING to males and/or females. not the difference between them....

Answer 1

yeah u're right..sometimes there does come a gap and one has to think about what's appropriate n what's not..while talking to speicifc people..but as such..i think it's ok till the time we talk about general things as hobbies, tv, music, friends, teachers, n so on..this is for both males n females

Answer 2

IN MY EXPERIENCE. NOT ALWAYS: Talking to males is easier. They are more laid back, you can speak your mind and joke around. The biggest thing is that they don't twist things around to mean something else, or put words in your mouth.
Girls are more dramatic. They take everything personally and like to exaggerate what was done or said. And they get upset over the tiniest things. Which is why I've always gotten along better with guys.

Answer 3

How (you) talk with someone of your opposite gender depends upon what climate you contact them. - Nowadays, the gender-gap is so "muddied" with "EQUAL RIGHTS" and all those boundaries.
I try to keep a margin of RESPECT when I communicate with anyone, reguardless of thier gender.
I try to "make an extra effort" to make my communications with "ladies" on a more "proper" level (making sure to address them as "Ma'am", respecting their perspectives a bit more, giving them a bit more leaniency before I disagree with their perspective, when I do.)
OTHERWISE (in the boardroom), when all sheilds are down, I am known as a BARAKOODA to have my say-so.

Answer 4

Men are fairly simple creatures; it's in our biology. Men are geared to reproduce quickly and often. That is why sex can be so short for us; and why a picture of a hot woman is enough to get a man aroused. Men are capable of multiple relationships with multiple women. They can stay in a serious relationship, but only if they are willing to make the commitment. The biggest problem with men is that they often think with their lower head, rather than the one that sits on top of their neck.

Women are more complicated. They need to carry a baby to term and raise it. A picture of a hot man can get some women excited, but not for long--they need a relationship. They want to know a man, and they want to be able to trust him to possibly raise a child. Women are geared to hunt for a mate that they can raise a child with; it's in their biology. Women want a stable relationship with one man. A woman often seems to get less out of sex because their biology requires either multiple sessions or they require a longer session to insure that the male has a better chance of putting his sperm where it can create a child. This explains the women’s greater need for foreplay. They need to build up to a climax.

Humans are one of the few creatures that are always in “season.” A human can breed all year round. This makes it better for the male to spread his genes, and lets the woman use the allure for sex to hold on to their mate. When sex becomes less frequent the male’s attention may wander. Generating sperm is easy to do, and men do it in the thousands for most of their lifespan. Women have a set number of eggs and a period of youth and adult stages when they can get pregnant. Carrying a baby to term is a difficult, and often dangerous task, one that can only be attempted by someone who is very fit. This is why women have menopause and why after a time sex starts to lose its attraction.

Some women are attracted to the dangerous man. While at first this doesn't seem like a good idea, the dangerous man is more likely to win in any competition. If a woman is with such a man then she can be assured that another man won't try to take her away from him. Again it's all in the biology. Look at the lion pride. The strongest male has a harem of females. He gets them pregnant and they raise their cubs. The male has to defend himself against other rival males. He spends most of the night making loud growls to show the others that he is the dominant male, and he will fight off any competing males. When a new male takes over, the first thing he does is to kill all the old male's cubs. This puts the females into heat, and he can breed with them.

Unfortunately, since women are complex creatures they think that men are. This can lead to a lot of misunderstandings. Men are simple creatures; they look for the simple and straightforward solution of problems. Since men are less complicated then women we tend to have problems understanding them. Complexity doesn’t mean smarter than simple, it means that a different approach is being used.

Men like sports because it is a trial by combat. They may claim other reasons, but the most basic one is the combat. A male biology gears the man to be able to defeat his rivals and hold on to his mate(s). This is why men are better fighters.

Humans may be reasoning and intelligent beings, but they still have the same instincts that they started with. We are a lot closer to animals than we think. The difference between humans and the animals is that mankind can rise above their instincts. We can use tools, and change the environment to suit us. Once that happened though mankind became immune to evolution. We can attempt to improve the breed, weed out problem genes, and turn others on or off, but we cannot escape our instincts.

Our intelligence lets us rise above our instincts. A woman can be a soldier, but she may prefer a more caring approach. A man can be a homemaker, but he may prefer to go out into the wild and hunt (he often does this by getting a job). Women and men can do each other’s jobs, but their biology has defined roles for them and their instincts have to be overcome.

A discussion with a man and a woman will yield different results because of how they think which is decided by their biology. To males breeding quickly and often is the best survival strategy so sex is always on their minds. To women a stable long-term relationship is what they are seeking and this will color everything they think about. From the nesting instinct to the way they seem to talk so much. Women need to build that stable home, and the best way to learn about someone is to talk with them. These are unconscious habits and determined by our genes so they will be at the core of the thought process for each sex. A woman may not want kids, but she could still want that relationship. A man may provide daycare, but his restlessness is caused by his genes.

Answer 5

The difference is that males have penises and females have vaginas.

Answer 6

when i speak to males i usually have to speak a whole lot slower and not use big words because u know their brains r smaller...