Family & Relationships - 13 September 2006

asked yourself...why can't we be free to choose what we wamt? supposely this is a free country...i'm going through this situation where my ex and I had to end our relationship coz lets say age difference...but we both know that we still love each other...but at this moment we can't be together...and it hurts to know that we can't be...

2006-09-13 16:05:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

where u jizzz in your hand and go up to someone and fling your hand out towards them going 'spider man! spider man!' ha!

2006-09-13 16:05:09 · 10 answers · asked by ? 4 in Singles & Dating

i have shared a house with my sister for a year. she helped me out when i needed it. but now i have a good paying job and have found a place that i want to move to but she does not make enough money to support herself and i really want my own place. what should i do.

2006-09-13 16:04:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Why do woman like buses, all tend to come along at once? For ages there is no one on the scene but then all of a sudden they all appear. Very frustrating!!! Just like buses!

2006-09-13 16:04:22 · 13 answers · asked by CHARLIE 3 in Singles & Dating

for all of u that was tryin to say that if i leave he'll realize that I won't put up with it...he tells me when I try to leave that I would be better off without him ...so then he don't love me in the first place? no he said it's becouse he love me so much that he knows letting me go would be better for me...but I really love him ...were married....I don't give up that easy.....and when he does this what levrage do I have then?.....whats worse then me leavin?

2006-09-13 16:04:04 · 11 answers · asked by country_mystyle 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My son is 3 and me and the father isn't together i have been seeing a new man for 2 weeks and baby daddy didn't take it very well,he said he was going home for a couple of months and wants to be a family when he comes back.i have wanted that for 3 years,but now im happy with new man!

2006-09-13 16:03:57 · 9 answers · asked by shelly 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, I'm currently in the "getting to know eachother" stage were we ask eachother alot of questions about eachother over the phone/AIM/email
and weve asked eachother alot of questions but we still want to know more about eachother

Give me some questions to ask her which in return most questions shes asks the same one back followed up by a question of hers

Best question gets the pts!

2006-09-13 16:02:47 · 6 answers · asked by Summertime 2 in Singles & Dating

why dont parents let me have a boy friend

2006-09-13 16:02:29 · 11 answers · asked by BrEnDa ReYeS 1 in Family

my best friend want to hook me up w/ her husband's uncle who totally in love w/ me ,but has a girlfriend that his not happy with.My other friend want to hook me up with this 36 yr old guy who she said his really nice and like kids ,but Im very much in love with my x still hopeing we get back ,but in my heart we will not so what do i do?

2006-09-13 16:02:01 · 5 answers · asked by pinkdivaeight 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i feel it in the air as im doing my hair...derparing for another day,kiss upon my cheek as if im gonna be lonely.i said i wont be long just hang'n with the s,lieing wont hesitate.because we both know were im about to go and we know it very well,and i know that hes knows of my faithful it kills him inside to know that im hapy with some other guy!!!!!i can see him dieing i dont want to do this anymore i dont wanna be the rason why.every time i walk out the door i see him dieing little more in side,and i dont wanna be a .....no..no.....ya.......

2006-09-13 16:01:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I went on a first date with someone. They were really into me and the conversation. Complimented me a couple of times. And really looked at me. But every now and then it looked as if they were glancing at other girls just a little here and there. Is this normal or do you think this is a bad sign?

2006-09-13 16:00:53 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Help!! Ok my mom and step-dad keep fight and my step-dada said he wanted a divorce...so they did not talk for 2 days then my mom got all sweet and i don't know what to do and i asked and she said don't mind it and we got into a huuuge fight and now we aren't talking so my question is.....WHAT DO I DO??please only answers

2006-09-13 16:00:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I don't know much about how many people he's dated and how deep things were but thinking about the possibilities and what it could have been bothers me... He refuses to discuss or share much about his past because to him, it's all irrelevant...
I love him a lot. We've been dating for over a year now. He is very caring and has never given me a reason to complain about anything. I feel very lucky to have met him and I don't think there's many guys out there like him, and despite feeling this way, sometimes, it makes me jealous to think that some woman at some point was maybe more special than I am or will ever be. He is the most special man to have ever come in my life and I don't know if he can say the same thing about me :-(
I wish I could help being jealous and not feel this way. I wanted to see what the "popular opinion" on people's significant others' past is. Are people without much past normally bothered by such things or am I just being weird and unreasonable??

2006-09-13 16:00:08 · 7 answers · asked by anjusmile 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been trying to move out of my brother's place for the past six months, but loss of a job has delayed that process. She said she won't help me move out until I can get steady on my medication and also find another job. But my last job I got fired from and it took me over a year to find that job through a job coach.

My mom thinks that I am lazy, but I have a disability and have trouble working. It is not that I don't try; rather, I am distracted easily and have a form of ADD.

I feel stuck between a rock and a hard place, and my father isn't much of a help either (he's just as stubborn as she is, unwilling to help out until "conditions" are met, etc.).

So how is this resolved? Do I explain to them my situation, and continue to argue with them endlessly, or just grab some boxes and move out myself (I don't own a car)?

Paul

2006-09-13 15:59:33 · 19 answers · asked by dunric 1 in Family

Recently divorced - my ex-husband had an affair with a co-worker who he plans to move in with. We met today briefly and he said "You look nice today". What do you do with that? He never said it when we were married but we have been divorced two months and he says it now.

2006-09-13 15:59:27 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was sexually abused at 5 y.o., lost my dad to a religious cult, my mom ended up with a cocaine addicted alcoholic gambler who nearly bankrupted us forcing me to work to support the family at 15. At 17, I was in a very abusive relationship with a crazy druggy who held a shotgun to my head for hours and tried to kill me when I tried to dump him.. At 21, I suffered from PTSD and became serevely depressed,and suicidal. At 22, I was raped. At 23, I was with a controlling man and lived in a virtual prison for 6 yrs.. I came out it all. I now have a great education, a great job, a great life and I"m happy.

My bf of 2 yrs doesn't know any of this. He thinks I'm a innocent sweet girl who's all nice with sugar and spice. I don't want to destroy his illusion.. I love his naive view of me. I'd hate to destroy his innocent view of me by telling him the truth, but does he have a right to know? Do I really have to tell him or am I justified in leaving this part of my history buried?

2006-09-13 15:59:18 · 22 answers · asked by orangeblossomwater 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-13 15:58:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We both are in crappy marriages where our spouses contribute little if anything to the marraige, both financialy and emotionaly. For the first time in a long time, I enjoyed the conversation and company of a woman. Even though she is an amazing woman with many of the caracturistics I am attracted to, should I see her again and let fate have its way or stay in my marriage

2006-09-13 15:57:32 · 45 answers · asked by rikv77 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-13 15:57:00 · 16 answers · asked by nans77 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-13 15:55:56 · 8 answers · asked by crazy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-13 15:55:07 · 9 answers · asked by Help! 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-13 15:54:49 · 26 answers · asked by Jason 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a crush on this girl that sits next to me in music, how do I let her know that I like her? I dont want to ask her out yet i just want her to know i exist...

2006-09-13 15:54:39 · 5 answers · asked by football215167 1 in Singles & Dating

My significant other has a 15 yr old son and his ex wife has a 13 yr old daughter. My SO came home and found them sleeping together in the same bed. His adult daughter who is 23 thinks this is ok because "they are like brother and sister" is what she said.
Maybe I am a wrong, but I would never do this and it is not acceptable behavior. This adult daughter was having an overnite party and had her 2 toddlers, and these kids all together. She is the 1/2 sister to both kids and I cannot figure out what she was thinking. I think it is a really immature move on her part to be naive enough to believe these 2 teenagers are ok to be in bed together. What do you say?

2006-09-13 15:54:29 · 8 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-13 15:53:45 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

im super bored

2006-09-13 15:53:30 · 13 answers · asked by BAM 1 in Friends

2006-09-13 15:53:24 · 3 answers · asked by nans77 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im in love

2006-09-13 15:53:20 · 18 answers · asked by goldieluxxx 4 in Singles & Dating

would date a person with a felony who hast
turned their life around and are now in college and felony was just a mistake

2006-09-13 15:53:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband & I have been married fpr 6 yrs. but he is very unhappy with every aspect of his life (mostly financially), so he told me he wants to seperate. He wants 2 better his finances by going back to school plus re-evaluate or marriage. We've caused one another alot of pain (no cheating) but still really luv eachother. Then days later he tells me he won't file for a divorce for at least 1 yr.(it's not about child support, 2 of the kids will live w/him for now) to see where he'll be mentally after the year, but if I want to file then it's up 2 me (he questions my true feelings for him, so is this a head game)? What does this mean, Seriously? I know I have caused him the most pain & understand his doubt but should I wait & hope he will change his mind or except that we might truely be finished and get a divorce in a few months. Please please advise me. We have 3 children involed, ages 2-12yrs old and we're in our early 30's.

2006-09-13 15:53:11 · 12 answers · asked by presmasho 1 in Marriage & Divorce