Family & Relationships - 13 September 2006

We have been divorced for five years, he remarried a woman 17 years younger than himself, I am still single and dating. he writes all the time and talks about us having sex together. Why didn't he realize what he had when he was here?

2006-09-13 16:48:51 · 10 answers · asked by wonderin2 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Homecoming is coming up, and I'm thinking about asking this girl I really like. My friend says I should ask her soon, before someone else does, but when it comes to that sort of thing, I always wimp out and I really don't want to hand her a note or send an e-mail, that would be really lame. What's a good way that I can ask her without freaking out at the same time?

2006-09-13 16:47:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For a wife, I really feel so blessed (and loved) to have a husband who helps me a lot with the daily chores at home since we are both working and tired when we get home.
Eversince he was a kid, they had helpers at home to do these for them which we really didn't have on a regular basis and it surely amazes me how he never complains and do things without me even asking.
Once in a while, his guys friends would ask who does the laundry and wash the dishes (which he both does since I get to cook and iron clothes) and then some of them will give him (or us, if I'm also present) a smirk on their faces once they found out the truth.
My question is, for you guys and wives of helper-husbands out there, do you see yourselves or your guy friends lesser of a man if he does do all these (out of love I hope)? Does it decreases any macho points they once had before they got married? I love my husband so much and everything he does for me, but I'd rather do all these (or get a helper) if it does.

2006-09-13 16:47:32 · 24 answers · asked by kamahalan_12 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Collect pieces of her hair, chew her disposed chewing gum, and sleep with a bady pillow with a picture of her face at the top... Do i need help? Everyone has done it at least once... Havent yall?

2006-09-13 16:46:55 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

his living with this woman maybe for 15 years now,,he just left us when i was just 3 years old without any support from him for about 14 years....now his paying my school in college and house rent but his not giving me enough allowance..his not even talking to me just his wife but unfortunately she skinda rude to me..i want him to give fair allowance to me and to my brother and also to my mom which still has their marriage certificate...can u people just tell me how??please...

2006-09-13 16:46:39 · 10 answers · asked by gheN 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

time is 4;45 in the morning,why you didn't sleep yet?

2006-09-13 16:46:37 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

you know that not all relationships have all passion..it could be just sweet love, but don't wish to have both? Do you think that it's possible to have this, or are we dreaming?

2006-09-13 16:46:30 · 16 answers · asked by ShareBear 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

To me this is a felony faux pas! Don't they get it that an event is going on?! You need to see the 1st show and the important last show?

2006-09-13 16:45:50 · 6 answers · asked by whrldpz 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

my best friend asked my chrush and hes been plurtng with me but when my friend asked him he said eww was he just saying that because all his friends were there or what?

2006-09-13 16:45:49 · 4 answers · asked by falin wared 1 in Friends

We are short on money to hire an atterny to start a devorce procedings. She still wants to sleep in bed with me but its all stay on your own side and don't touch. Am I nuts for letting this happen ?

2006-09-13 16:45:30 · 13 answers · asked by joel s 3 in Marriage & Divorce

ok. my b/f doesnt know if he should have a relationship w/me right now b/c i live in florida and he lives in new york. he says it makes him sad that he cant hold me or toutch me or kiss me. and he wants to finish school and start a family. we want to do it with each other. i can most likely move up there next year then we can do everything as planned. if he loves me he'll wait right? and he isnt even talking to me righth now. thats really not making it ne better. i wanna sort this out. i wanna talk to him he said he loves more more then nething, as do i. and he'll never leave me. im all he wants and needs. and wouldnt have it ne other way. he love me he needs me. and right now i am hurting more then nething. i really am. and hes probably hurting to do this. i dont know. but right now i feel that everything has just been down the drain. our love so strong... what is this. how, why. this is.... i dont even have words for this. and how i feel. what will happen? please ket me know.
♥V

2006-09-13 16:45:20 · 6 answers · asked by ♥Victoria 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm looking for a good laugh.

2006-09-13 16:44:59 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

since we broke up about 4 months ago. Do you think i should try and work it out or not?? She just turned 21 when we broke up and said she was very drunk each time and she regrets it. What do you all think??

2006-09-13 16:44:23 · 24 answers · asked by dewman_30 1 in Singles & Dating

my nephew has just experienced the first death of a person he is close to his uncle they use to play all the time and fight. my nephew is 5 and currently sick himself. i want to know if you guys think it is a good ideal to take him to the funeral.

2006-09-13 16:44:00 · 9 answers · asked by Water's Away 3 in Family

Or is it a good opportunity to finally cut loose and prepare for another love interest?

2006-09-13 16:43:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hey guys, ok so i love my boyfriend of 6 and a half months very much and i know he loves me a great deal. But lately he's been hanging out with this girl more than him and i hang out and im not jealous of her, im just jealous about all of the time that they spend together. they're together almost every day after school and they're together during school. im just uncomforable with how much they hang out. usually this wouldnt bother me but they're just always hanging out. i know they're not into each other so before you say anything about that i thought id let you know. and im cool with the fact that he has chic friends too, but im just kinda eh about it. like when him and i are talking about seeing a movie together she'll ask him if he wants to go see it with her and he says yea and goes. i dont wanna ruin his fun cause he's a senior and he should have fun but still. im just really confused on what to do. should i tell him it makes me so uncomfortable that they hang out so much or not?

2006-09-13 16:43:35 · 10 answers · asked by Emily 3 in Singles & Dating

Can you help me make a list? I made a poll at this site: http://www.ipollu.com/index.php?pollaction=true&poll=What%20is%20a%20good%20name%20for%20a%20baby%20boy? So if you could just add whatever name you like or vote on it if it is already there. Thanks!!

2006-09-13 16:42:54 · 15 answers · asked by mentpol1247 1 in Family

I have a GF that I think is just to close to her mom, she never leaves her side. It wasn't like this till about 6 months ago. Now its all about her mom, she wont come to my house cuz she dosent want to leave her mom. When she dose come she comes to eat talk for a little and leaves early cuz her mom. when we go out its the same thing!! Lately her mom has been coming along with us too, everywhere! What can I dooo!? I love her but and her mom but damn what about me!?

2006-09-13 16:41:43 · 12 answers · asked by EsYoDaddy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

even if he is gorgeous as hell!

2006-09-13 16:38:49 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-13 16:38:05 · 23 answers · asked by echolily 3 in Friends

Me and my ex broke up a year and a half ago when I moved to college because he could not handle the long distance. We havve continued to stay friends and he calls me about every two weeks adn we see each other now and then. This has been going on for a year and a half now and I realized recently that it needs to stop because its holding me back from other relationships. He tells me he likes to talk to me, I still mean a lot to him....etc. So I decided that I wouldn't answer his calls and he kept on calling and calling. When I did answer he tried to say he just wanted to see how I was doing..yadda yadda yadda. Doesn't it mean something though that he called 3 days in a row after I didnt' return his calls? Does he still have an attachment for me and if so why doesn't he want to be with me?

2006-09-13 16:38:02 · 15 answers · asked by Tina S 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend and I want to go someplace and basically have sex in a safe and secluded place in the back of my car. Only problem is not sure what places might be considered too risky. I know many have done the back of the car routine so I would just like some ideas on where to go cause really dont want to be caught by cops with my pants down....literally

2006-09-13 16:37:53 · 16 answers · asked by beavis851999 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-13 16:37:31 · 7 answers · asked by mugu 1 in Singles & Dating

He and I have been dating for about 4 years and he keeps moving his adult mooching kids home ( I have been on this over and over again). He wants me to just pretend like they are not there and he works nites, so he and I sleep and have sex in the daytime. His 25 yo daughter, her husband and 2 kids just moved out and his 38 yr old son and his preggie girlfriend just moved in.
I like him a lot, but am uncomfortable with these kids who keep moving in and out. Would you go ahead about your business or would you stop having relations because they are there in the house not even a 8 inch wall away? He doesnt seem to care if they are at home or not and he cannot come to my house because I have a teenage daughter in and out.

2006-09-13 16:37:31 · 4 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

well we have met on msn and we have been talking and her asked me out and i said yea and i want to know will it work?

2006-09-13 16:37:19 · 1 answers · asked by Hayley T 1 in Singles & Dating

Love Sonnet?
if I pass this to a girl that I like but don't exactly know would she like it? would any girls out there like it?
Ps Its by Shakespeare

Shall I compare thee to a summer's day?
Thou art more lovely and more temperate.
Rough winds do shake the darling buds of May,
And summer's lease hath all too short a date.
Sometime too hot the eye of heaven shines,
And often is his gold complexion dimm'd;
And every fair from fair sometime declines,
By chance or nature's changing course untrimm'd;
But thy eternal summer shall not fade
Nor lose possession of that fair thou ow'st;
Nor shall Death brag thou wander'st in his shade,
When in eternal lines to time thou grow'st:
So long as men can breathe or eyes can see,
So long lives this, and this gives life to thee.

Also if this isint right would you recommend anything else (poems and sonnets)
also whats the best way to leave contact info since i may give this to her friday)

2006-09-13 16:36:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and then lieing to your bf about it cheating...no matter what you talk to them about.

2006-09-13 16:36:29 · 2 answers · asked by Common Sense 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Any advice from single parents..I am recently seperated and would like some advice on dealing with a difficult ex.

2006-09-13 16:36:18 · 16 answers · asked by Zach's Mom 2 in Marriage & Divorce

how would u know if the girl ur with is the right one? how would u tell her?

2006-09-13 16:36:17 · 10 answers · asked by darkvamp4542 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-13 16:36:16 · 6 answers · asked by echolily 3 in Friends