Family & Relationships - 13 September 2006

You have been married for 11 years, your spouse cheated with 3 different people. But deep inside there is still love.. is it worth saving?

2006-09-13 17:25:23 · 45 answers · asked by anidaelf 1 in Marriage & Divorce

one of my friends ex boyfriends kind of dumped him well stopped calling anyway and he has been calling me to hang out lately. I like him as a friend but my best friend wants me to tell him off for him. I dont know what i should do cause i do not want to lose friendship with him but i dont want to let my best friend down any advice? we are supposed to be hanging out to get coffee tomorrow night?

2006-09-13 17:25:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

She likes it, I'm 65

2006-09-13 17:24:48 · 33 answers · asked by Granpa Chandran 1 in Singles & Dating

I like her, but am not sure if she likes me. (By not sure, I mean I'm pretty sure she doesn't like me) I don't want to get shot down.

2006-09-13 17:23:52 · 8 answers · asked by marshallcarlone 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you have a myspace? If so, share a link to your page.

2006-09-13 17:23:42 · 4 answers · asked by suchaprettyface11 4 in Friends

2006-09-13 17:23:07 · 22 answers · asked by dcutegirl06 4 in Singles & Dating

After my husband put that ring on my finger--everything changed. It was like I became his property! He works hard and is a great provider, but I can't stand being around him anymore. He blows up about every little thing--I never know what might set him off.
We have 2 daughters, ages 15 & 13, and they don't want to be around him either. I have always been told that I'm sweet, fun to be around, pretty--but I feel like I've lost the real me. Here are just a few instances: he has choked me, knocked me down when I was VERY pregnant w/my oldest daughter. Thrown a glass at my face--which I blocked with my hand and had to have stitches. Picked me up by my neck and slammed me against the wall. The last time he threw me down on our kitchen floor & hurt my back-my Dr. offered to testify if necessary. I am on several med.'s for anxiety & depression--I know it's because of my marriage.
I have been a stay-at-home Mom for 15 years--that's another story. I want out--but I feel trapped.

2006-09-13 17:21:49 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a very good friend. in his ID card and driving license he was born at 1971 but compare with my other friends tt having same age with him, he look much much older. he looks like 12 years older than he is now.
he told me he has been struggle for life (hard working) since he was 17 and had bad experience with pimples during his puberty period (and causes his face skin like moon, with lots of holes).
when we walked togather, we really look like very far age apart actually he is only 5 years older than me. my mom hates him because of his appearance and ask me not to believe his age.
what cause this on his face? he really look older than his age

2006-09-13 17:21:24 · 4 answers · asked by simplelife76 2 in Friends

i have a friend right, right......girls always complement my friend on his eyes...but all he says to then is Thanks to them.....can he say something else to them besides Thanks, you know like a little complement back at them to make then feel wanted or special like if your trying to get a conversation started cause you wanna get their # cause they were hot. Is there a specific line to get something going, if you got the first complement?

2006-09-13 17:20:20 · 10 answers · asked by slickabc123 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-13 17:18:39 · 13 answers · asked by brandon 1 in Singles & Dating

so this guy keeps looking at me and talking to me. i like him but hes pretty talkitive to everyone i think, but im not sure maybe hes just talkitive around me?
so i don't know i want him to like me, if he doesn't already. so how do i go about that? should i initiate the next conversation? what do i say?

2006-09-13 17:17:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In the beginning phase of the relationship, where you guys are ALMOST, dating each other. How often, and how much do you talk to the guy/girl you are interested in?

2006-09-13 17:17:36 · 12 answers · asked by Little Hulk 1 in Singles & Dating

Most of the times my husband tells me that I'm a trash.But once, I told him that we better part ways than having a fight everyday,he did not agree with the idea.Sometimes I'm trying to find it myself if I'm still in love with him,but I'm afraid until now I can't find the answer.I've lose my self confidence,and I'm asking myself if I really deserve to be called a trash.

2006-09-13 17:17:16 · 28 answers · asked by carmi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Or do you prefer for us just to rest it on you? Obviously if we are using our hands to hold our weight they cant be as active in other ways. I'm 13st so I'm a bit worried that I might be crushing her, so I tend to go for cow boy or doggy, but figured it would be nice to know

2006-09-13 17:17:00 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husband and i have been talking about getting back together and he is scared of his parents and we thought if he got his own place first then maybe living together would be next, we r going to fill out an application for an apartment for him where i live behind their backs what do u guys think? we need some help here lol.

2006-09-13 17:16:44 · 5 answers · asked by waverunner 500 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok.. I'm w/ this guy and i want to tell him off. But I'm such a softy I feel sorry for him. He has made my life so misserable.. but deep down inside i love the dumb a.s.s. jerk! its killing me. I feel used by him, like all he wants me for is to have a place to live and to be on he's feet..while i'm struggling to be on my feet, by working and going to school full time! He's JUST starting working at school 2wks ago. He's been hiding something from me again and its not good.. what should i do?
I want to just tell him off so bad I'm so angry at him i've been holding it in for a while(6months)and i want to explode!!!!
What should I do people.. please help me out here. I feel sorry for him in a way, but then again the things he did behind my back are unforgiveable..

2006-09-13 17:16:35 · 3 answers · asked by Become a better person 3 in Singles & Dating

but guys wont initiate conversation with me either why and how can i "break the ice"?

2006-09-13 17:16:18 · 13 answers · asked by amn 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-13 17:15:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

someone ,like a total stranger,and want them and feel as if you dont say somthin or talk to them youll never see them again and miss your chance???

2006-09-13 17:15:15 · 6 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

Do it hurt everytime u do it?

2006-09-13 17:14:19 · 1 answers · asked by ~Tranell~ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it the things that he says , if he talks about the future ? How ?

2006-09-13 17:14:12 · 20 answers · asked by primamaria04 5 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend's ex-girlfriend is crazier than the average ex. We've already had to file harrassment charges against her because of obscene phone calls made by her and several of the young girls she hangs out with. She threatened to call Children and Youth on me just about 2 weeks ago and I got a letter in the mail today saying there will be a case worker coming to investigate. I want to know if there is some legal action I can take against her for filing a report that is known to be false. For example, am I able to sue her or file for a restraining order?

2006-09-13 17:13:34 · 9 answers · asked by glucas112 1 in Family

Can being in love and not being able to do anything about it actually make a person sick? Can this happen?

2006-09-13 17:13:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been messing with this guy for about a year now and things were going cool until I found out he was messing with someone else. By this time I had already fell in love with him. Of course when everything came out he told me he was not with her anymore and I gave him another chance. I told him if he did not want to be with me anymore than all he had to do is let me know and we could be friends. Of course he told me he loves me and wants to be with me and only me. I fell for the lies again and again. He use to spend so much time over here at my house that I had no idea he had someone else until she started calling my house looking for him. I mean it has been so hard for me to just give up on him even though everything he has put me through. At least before he use to make time for me.now I barely see him. He say he lives with his sister but come to find out that is not true,he lives with the girl he told me he do not mess and he still calls me and comes by and tells me he loves me.

2006-09-13 17:12:18 · 13 answers · asked by Shorty 1 in Singles & Dating

Is having space in a relationship good?

2006-09-13 17:12:14 · 17 answers · asked by T D 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with the same dude all my teenage life, then he went to the military and i got some freedom. I saw what it was like to have other people treat you like you wanted to be treated. But now me boyfriend is back and I have to go back to the old ways of not going anywhere personal, either going to the club or hanging out with his friends. All I want to do is just sit at the movies or go out to eat or just get some personal time. Do we always have to be in the crowd?

2006-09-13 17:11:38 · 16 answers · asked by mslady318 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have this friend who had a girlfriend. He broke up with his girlfriend because they were fighting too often. We talked a lot after that and ended up liking each other. The problem is he lives about 3 hours away from me. We got together one day and ended up making our get together into a date. We flirted the whole day and ended up making out. He felt kind of bad because he didn't want his ex to find out that he did that so soon after they broke up. He still liked her and didn't want her to get hurt. We continued to talk a lot on the phone afterwards. A few weeks ago, he got back together with his ex. It was unexpected and I was really hurt. It made sense though since she lives near him. Since then I know they have started to have some problems again. I don't know what to do because I want him to be happy, but I still really like him. I can't get over him even if he did lead me on. What should I do???

2006-09-13 17:11:24 · 17 answers · asked by nargles 1 in Singles & Dating

With globalisation doing its magic on developing countries like India...every thing is changing...the culture which has been prevalent for centuries is changing..with call centres and BPOs flourishing the standard of living is also going up...with all these our definition of family is also changing..today family does not mean parents and children..it may also mean two strangers living together....and after some months or years..if they start liking each other they may get married..if not then go in different directions...my question is..is this kind of relationship good for a country like India which has given the whole world the presise definition of how a family has to be? Why are we blindly following the western culture?Isnt the ancient Indian culture at stake?Isnt this not giving way to crime like the murder of Tania who was a call center employee in Bangalore???What do u think..I would like serious answers from Indian folks

2006-09-13 17:11:14 · 9 answers · asked by Deep 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Yeah- as wonderful as they could be-Mine has an addiction problem that really bothers me. I'm sure everyone has their own problems. Don't some of you wish you could erase the love that was shared between you two as if it never happen?

2006-09-13 17:11:06 · 7 answers · asked by roxylee11782 4 in Singles & Dating

We had a class together last semester too. Hes cute, and hes nice, and randomly said hi to me today, and yesterday before class (which has to mean something)...thats as far as our relationship goes!

im not looking for a relationship, i just wanna hoooookk-upppp

2006-09-13 17:10:30 · 4 answers · asked by woah 2 in Singles & Dating