I have been messing with this guy for about a year now and things were going cool until I found out he was messing with someone else. By this time I had already fell in love with him. Of course when everything came out he told me he was not with her anymore and I gave him another chance. I told him if he did not want to be with me anymore than all he had to do is let me know and we could be friends. Of course he told me he loves me and wants to be with me and only me. I fell for the lies again and again. He use to spend so much time over here at my house that I had no idea he had someone else until she started calling my house looking for him. I mean it has been so hard for me to just give up on him even though everything he has put me through. At least before he use to make time for me.now I barely see him. He say he lives with his sister but come to find out that is not true,he lives with the girl he told me he do not mess and he still calls me and comes by and tells me he loves me.
2006-09-13 17:12:18 · 13 answers · asked by Shorty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's doing friends with benefits/booty call with you. "Why buy the cow when you get the milk for free" and such. Don't give him another chance, he's shown you the kind of person he is. If he respected you, he wouldn't be messing around with other people (though if that isn't set as a ground rule or in the context of a relationship, he isn't necessarily at fault) or not making time for you.
Leave him... you can find better.
2006-09-13 17:16:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do it. it's hard ...been there done that! just leave it alone. i know it is a rough thing but you have to see the light here. he is a liar and you don't need unnecessary heartache. i am sure you guys have had sex, so just think about how reckless he is and the danger he has put you in. but, in the guys defense he may love the both of you, but you don't need a confused guy like that bothering you. ignore, get your number changed and let him deal with what he needs to at home. this is something you have to move away from and believe me, in due time, you won't be thinking about him anymore. i've been there, so try that.
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2006-09-14 00:16:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as much as you hope there is some strand of decency in him and that he does mean the things he has been telling you, from what you've shared, it really appears that he is taking advantage of your affections for him. He knows you want him and he is playing with your heart - that shows he doesn't sincerely care for you as a person.
You want to be happy? Will yourself to dump him (You can tell him what a jek he is!) and let him go. Don't be the constant lady-in-waiting.. you're wasting your youth and beauty on someone who should get his just deserts pretty soon. Take care and be strong!
2006-09-14 01:10:47 · answer #3 · answered by Beth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him! Don't let him get away with that crap, are you crazy? Men have no right to be lying, two timing, back stabbing whores - but you're letting him. Stop! He'll never change. He's already tested your limits, and found that you'll let him get away with EVERYTHING. The only thing to do now is get him out of your life, for good. Don't take his phone calls, don't return his phone calls, don't let him come over, NOTHING.
2006-09-14 00:18:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are some people called "users" and you unfortunately you found one of them
Be glad you're not involved with him now.
Give yourself some time to think about why you attracted someone like this before you start seeing guys again.
2006-09-14 00:15:57 · answer #5 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you wanna spend more time with a guy that treats you that way? no good will come of it make him regret it walk around with another guy and let him see u moved on n ur happy
dont hold on to that if you bought a horse who kept kickin you no matter how much you love it you gotta kill the sumbitch cuz its not gone stop kickin you
hes that horse kill his ***
2006-09-14 00:17:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let go of that guy and find someone else who will be good to you. You should not have to deal with that.
2006-09-14 00:15:41 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop his ***!!!!!!!!!!!! like a hot potato. Find someone that cares about you. He's probably telling the other girl the same thing. And who knows who else. LOVE YOURSELF, GET RID OF HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-14 00:16:07 · answer #8 · answered by Tonya W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He IS telling you!!! Actions speak louder than words. End it and move on. He's lying and cheating
2006-09-14 00:16:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
same story, second verse.
learn how to conjugate the verb, "to be".
Dump the sociopath.
2006-09-14 00:14:25 · answer #10 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋