Is it the things that he says , if he talks about the future ? How ?
2006-09-13 17:14:12 · 20 answers · asked by primamaria04 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you don't know.... nobody ever does but if you like the guy and he likes you back then take a chance, take it slow and enjoy the ride!!!!
2006-09-13 17:17:07 · answer #1 · answered by Hello 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, you don't! There's no way to predict.
Shoot, when I first was with my current beau (I met him 4-1/2 years ago through my brother's then live-in love), only saw him twice hanging out with my bro and my bro's ex. Flash forward to last November, I was telling my bro's ex how I wish I gave this guy a chance (he's friend's with her). So, she told him I wanted to talk, and gotten together last November. He was SUCH a perfect gentleman, and he even let me say "I love you." It was SOOOO full of bliss, I didn't see what the future was to bring: UGLINESS, spelled in ALL capital letters! He nearly dumped me four times, the fourth time being this passed Sunday. He was starting to be a jerk and making demeaning remarks about women. I would stand up to him each time. He even not doing his end of things like he did at first. He always got time for his friends and female friends, but don't want to carve enough out for me; shoot, I can't even get a five minute conversation out of him, but others get to talk on the phone with him longer than that!
Moral of my story is NO MATTER how wonderful things are now, things CAN, quicker than a light switch, get ugly.
Just enjoy things by the day. Future talks don't necessarily mean anything, as I talked about the future with my guy, and now, I'm lucky if I get to talk to him again soon.
2006-09-14 00:25:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are in love with that person and you know that you want to spend the rest of your life with them. If the future scares you, tell your bf and slow down the relationship, maybe things are moving too fast right now.
2006-09-14 00:17:21 · answer #3 · answered by ridingis4life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is every a guarantee. U can plan for the future but things may happen or could happen u just don't know. It's good to plan ahead but don't think that things are etched into stone. Life is all about chances and changes.
2006-09-14 00:18:20 · answer #4 · answered by jinfiniti9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never know. That's part of the beauty of a relationship. It's stable, yet it's completely unpredictable. Just ride it like the wave it is. If you two end up getting married and happily spending your lives together, that's great. If it's splitsville, I'm sorry. Just roll with it. It only matters what we do with the time that's given to us.
2006-09-14 00:18:23 · answer #5 · answered by Samwise Potter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's how he treats you.....talk is cheap. Even talk about the future.
If he does what he promises
If he respects you
If he lives his life up front with nothing to hide
If he doesn't "bad mouth" any of his ex-girlfriends (no matter what she did)
If you respect him as a person
You may have a chance at a long-lasting relationship.....take your time and pay attention.
2006-09-14 00:21:04 · answer #6 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Last for how long. If you mean for more than 2 years then I have the answer for you. Make sure he kisses the way you want and treats you great. And is good in the sack. If he's what you want it will last for at least 2 years, if what you want doesn't change.
2006-09-14 00:26:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how you both are getting along so far.if the boat is sailing smooth the relationship is fine and if the boat rocks you know where you both stand.As far as how long it would last,Leave it to time,only time will tell.
2006-09-14 00:21:35 · answer #8 · answered by Dipi s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would really depend if both of you are in that stage where you are really decided with whom you would spend the rest of your life with. of course, sometimes it may be a factor that he talks about the future but i think the real basis would be if both of you survived all the tests that are always (?) coming by and if the mistakes make you stronger not only individually but also if it strngthens your relationship.
2006-09-14 00:38:07 · answer #9 · answered by jenny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. You have to take life as it is. Be yourself, don't be artificial in your attitude and feelings. Be honest of your true feelings. Then your partner might let you know that he likes your company and would like yo continue it forever. And don't let him be the only one in your life, go out with other guys and you can know his faults and also if you want the relationship to last.
2006-09-14 00:36:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1)The person must respect u & ur opinions
2)Share everything with u
3)Be honest
But i think Time will tell u that ur relation is going to last or not.But if u r sure about it then Forget everything.Just Love the person more !!
2006-09-14 02:06:24 · answer #11 · answered by miss_rimi1989 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋