He and I have been dating for about 4 years and he keeps moving his adult mooching kids home ( I have been on this over and over again). He wants me to just pretend like they are not there and he works nites, so he and I sleep and have sex in the daytime. His 25 yo daughter, her husband and 2 kids just moved out and his 38 yr old son and his preggie girlfriend just moved in.
I like him a lot, but am uncomfortable with these kids who keep moving in and out. Would you go ahead about your business or would you stop having relations because they are there in the house not even a 8 inch wall away? He doesnt seem to care if they are at home or not and he cannot come to my house because I have a teenage daughter in and out.
2006-09-13 16:37:31 · 4 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Enough of the insults. My daughter lives with her dad and knows all about sex and boyfriends. I raised her alone for 11 months old till she turned 18 and I have always set a good example.
2006-09-13 16:47:13 · update #1
from 11 months not for 11 months. Her dad left us without a dime.
Immaturity? I dont think so......
2006-09-13 16:49:27 · update #2
I can say he has met his match. He works his rear end off trying to keep up with me. He is very competetive and wants a bigger paycheck than I get. I adore him. Its crazy, but funny. His kids call me a gold digger, I make more $$$ than there dad, but save more. This is why he works at nite non stop.
2006-09-13 16:54:31 · update #3
diffidently be concerned about how he keeps letting his adult children come back home to live.
since you two have been together for four years there's nothing wrong with taking that next step of you moving in with him. after all the "children" already know you two are together. if you just want to stay there over night there's nothing wrong with that either. diffidently talk to him calmly and seriously about how hes raising his children. how after they are adults its their responsibility to make it on their own knowing they cant use the safety net of coming home again if they screw up. that will diffidently teach them to be more responsible adults. im mean a parents door should always be open for their children but not to the extent hes been treating it. also talk to him about how uncomfortable you are being with him with other adults in his house.
you should talk to him about what the two of you are planning on doing in the future as in marriage and which home to move into and other serious topics. feel him out more on his thoughts. if hes thinking the same way and doesn't seem to want to move forward or anything. i would think about leaving him.
i just thought of something one reason why he might be letting his kids come back home is hes lonely without someone being there. haveing the kids back home might be his way also of making something up to them somehow. diffedently talk to him about why he lets them back home. if thats the case dont give up hope, the realtionship might still be reconsilable.
they are just calling you a gold digger because they cant handle their own finacial means like you can. its jealousy dont let it get to you.
hope things work out an best of blessings.
2006-09-13 17:01:16 · answer #1 · answered by lusciousevil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow you sure do have issues , you need counseling to try have an adult relationship. Your daughter is a teenager , you think she doesn't know about b/fs? or sex?
you are very immature
2006-09-13 23:41:29 · answer #2 · answered by brinlarrr 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't give a damn about them being there since they are just moochers as you call them why should you care if they don't like what they see or hear then they can move.
2006-09-13 23:40:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You two should NOT be together!
2006-09-13 23:45:10 · answer #4 · answered by C S 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋