hey guys, ok so i love my boyfriend of 6 and a half months very much and i know he loves me a great deal. But lately he's been hanging out with this girl more than him and i hang out and im not jealous of her, im just jealous about all of the time that they spend together. they're together almost every day after school and they're together during school. im just uncomforable with how much they hang out. usually this wouldnt bother me but they're just always hanging out. i know they're not into each other so before you say anything about that i thought id let you know. and im cool with the fact that he has chic friends too, but im just kinda eh about it. like when him and i are talking about seeing a movie together she'll ask him if he wants to go see it with her and he says yea and goes. i dont wanna ruin his fun cause he's a senior and he should have fun but still. im just really confused on what to do. should i tell him it makes me so uncomfortable that they hang out so much or not?
2006-09-13 16:43:35 · 10 answers · asked by Emily 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We hang out on the weekends. we would hang out more but we goto different schools and my parents dont let us hang out on early out days too much cause my mom doesnt want to have to pick me up and take me home. im not jealous of her just the time that she spends with him that i cant. he's not cheating on me so quit saying that.
2006-09-13 16:55:45 · update #1
We hang out on the weekends. we would hang out more but we goto different schools and my parents dont let us hang out on early out days too much cause my mom doesnt want to have to pick me up and take me home. im not jealous of her just the time that she spends with him that i cant. he's not cheating on me so quit saying that.
2006-09-13 16:55:46 · update #2
I suggest not worrying about it. Your boyfriend is always trying to hook up this girl with other guys. In fact this girl likes a kid named rene, in fact she started crying when she saw that kid kissing another girl. So I wouldnt worry about it, or be uncomfortable about it. They are just friends, and your bf loves you, not this girl, so you should trust him, and be comfortable about him hanging out with any kinds of sexes.
2006-09-17 05:07:00 · answer #1 · answered by Aaron 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You feel threatened by her, don't lie. You should, since she is getting your man's attention. They are having an inappropriate relationship. An inappropriate relationship is one that excludes you, when they can't be freinds and hang out with you there, or talk on the phone with you there, etc.
Best bet is to back off, and find another guy. If you cling, you will push him away. He might even come looking for you later. Show him you have other, better things to do than to be strung along by a guy.
Remember, the more experiences you have with different guys, the more you learn about yourself. Each different guy teaches you more about what you like/don't like, will/won't accept from someone, you will be better able to spot a guy who will want to enhance your life.
This guy is a bad investment. He has got you wondering, worrying, and questioning....you say you are not jealous, and you are cool with it, but you ARE asking about it on Yahoo.....
Find a different guy. Someone, who is so good to you, you will want to brag to all your friends about him....
Find someone who doesn't cause you to wonder, worry, and question.
2006-09-13 16:56:33 · answer #2 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My husband became like this as quickly as we first have been given married and he became interior the Marines. All i will think of is that that is organic selfishness and immaturity. it is what I did, and that i don't understand if it became the ultimate ingredient to do yet he does not act that way anymore, so i'm guessing it cured him no rely if it became appropriate or incorrect. He became doing the comparable ingredient. appearing like it became "his" money and none of it became to be shared with me...even nevertheless i became working, he made greater advantageous than me so as that meant to him that it became all his, considering that he worked harder for it (i'm not asserting that he did not, yet i think of that's a rather awful ideas-set to have in the direction of your spouse). I merely stated doing despite i needed. If we had money and that i had to circulate spend $one hundred on the mall on stuff for ME...i might do it. formerly each and everything, he'd get mad. i might merely tell him that that is my money too as his spouse and he desires to provide up being selfish. It took 2 years yet now he acts like a classic individual.
2016-10-14 23:45:25 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to him and tell him how you feel. Tell him that you would appreciate it if he would do more things and spend more time with you. You should also suggest that the three of you hang out sometimes....that might make you feel more comfortable about them hanging out all the time. But just be honest with him and share how you feel....he wont change if he dosnt know it bothers you. If he loves you and your wishes are reasonable then he should listen and try to change things. Good luck!
2006-09-13 16:48:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I had the same situation when I was in high school. The guy ended up cheating on me with the girl that he was "just friends with". So be warned and beware. When your in high school lines are a lot more liquidity then when your an adult. If he's hanging out with her more than you, than he likes her more. Realize, regroup, retaliate.
2006-09-13 17:00:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
what you should do?
Develop your own identity, girlie. Look at your screen name. You only see yourself through a man's eye. Stand on your own two feet and develop your own personality and who some guy talks to won't be so threatening to the fragile self esteem you have spun around a guy's approval.
2006-09-13 16:46:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's playing you. Don't sit around and let him do this to you... just break up with him already. If he spends all that time with her, when does he see you? Does he even see you?
2006-09-13 16:51:39 · answer #7 · answered by bunny 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
daaaaaaaa, next question? what to do, hmmmmmm, b/f is spending more time with the other female than you, he agrees to go to movie with other female instead of you... hmmmmm, what to do??????? is this really a b/f? take your blinds off your eyes and see the real deal, good luck tho..
2006-09-13 16:54:15 · answer #8 · answered by countryrose24 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Wake up, diphthong. He's having his cake and eating it too.
2006-09-13 16:47:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
TELL HIM, OR HE CAN'T CHANGE IT! IT WILL JUST GET WORSE.
2006-09-13 16:47:31 · answer #10 · answered by ME 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋