since we broke up about 4 months ago. Do you think i should try and work it out or not?? She just turned 21 when we broke up and said she was very drunk each time and she regrets it. What do you all think??
2006-09-13 16:44:23 · 24 answers · asked by dewman_30 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She was being 21. And you weren't together. She continued to live her life. Get over it.
2006-09-13 16:46:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
3 guys in 4 months? Makes ya think....... Well If you really love her and want to work things out then go for it! If you trust her to believe that she was drunk all those times then okay! But yeah she just turned 21, she just wants to have fun.. Maybe you should give her a second chance! Good Luck!
2006-09-13 23:47:54 · answer #2 · answered by brittanyj05cm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
three guys in four months isn't so bad...21 is pretty young and stupid, I'd be more worried that she's stupid as a drunk. Honestly, If she just turned 21, went out and had some fun, you can't really expect her to settle down at 21 1/2, either. I'd move on, personally. Go get some new sex under your belt, too.
2006-09-13 23:53:41 · answer #3 · answered by niwriffej 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Surely if you were on a break it is none of your business.
If it does bother you to the extent that you cannot lat it to rest then do not get back with her because it will become all consuming and destructive.
Jealousy is a terrible thing to have. From my experience I would say it is all in the past let's leave it there, let's enjoy today and the tomorrows that we are going to share together, and forget about these other guys.
She needn't have told you and you would have been none the wiser, do not punish her and yourself for her being honest.
2006-09-13 23:52:16 · answer #4 · answered by Bohemian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she was single!!!! I mean, personally, I think 3 men in 4 months is a lot but hey....whatever floats your boat. Do you love her?? Then don't worry about what she did while you guys where apart. Yes, give it a try and make it work. But DO NOT dwell on what she did....The fact that she TOLD YOU, says a lot!! Good luck and I hope everything works out this time.
2006-09-13 23:47:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she was being a 21 year old. She was probably sad about you guys breaking up. i do not see why you couldnt try to work it out. If you think you guys will have sex then i think you should get her tested but just to support her get tested together.
well good luck.
2006-09-13 23:48:23 · answer #6 · answered by knowssignlanguage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you guys were not together she did not have to tell you it is really nun ya. But I will say if it is something that your not going to be able to forget// I would not even try because the first argument that you guys have it will be the first stone you throw and thats not healthy and if you can let lying dogs sleep
2006-09-13 23:49:37 · answer #7 · answered by wildway0304 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever she did during your break up means nothing! She moved on as you should have. If your going to attempt to get back then what happened during break up should not be an issue
2006-09-13 23:48:34 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she still has some oats to sew. Better let her go and get it out of her system. No one needs that kind of drama in their lives.
2006-09-13 23:48:08 · answer #9 · answered by Val 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she admitted to sleeping with 3 guys that means about 6 guys!!! and so what you broke up!!
2006-09-13 23:49:53 · answer #10 · answered by RAILMAN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋