We have been divorced for five years, he remarried a woman 17 years younger than himself, I am still single and dating. he writes all the time and talks about us having sex together. Why didn't he realize what he had when he was here?
2006-09-13 16:48:51 · 10 answers · asked by wonderin2 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Two words.....restraining order.
2006-09-13 17:08:58 · answer #1 · answered by The Oldest Man In The World 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had one that played those games too..finally I said if I EVER hear this crap from you again I'll tell your wife. He's been a good boy ever since. Who cares why he does it? If you don't respond he'll quit and that will be that. He does it not because you are special, just because he's a jerk looking for a place to park his penis and he figures you are an easy target. It takes two to communicate so if you really want it to stop then stop, its that simple.
2006-09-13 18:09:49 · answer #2 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cause he's an a**hole. Whyare you still reading these letters or whatever? If you want him to leave you alone throw the letters away instead of opening them, or block him on email. Unless it's what you want..... and if it is.... Stop Complaining!
2006-09-13 16:52:56 · answer #3 · answered by * Wishfulthinker * 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and you pen his letters why?
you don't throw them in the trash?
you must want the communication
as it takes 2 to talk or write
so don't come here crying when you have options but you do not want to exercise them.
2006-09-13 17:00:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep turning him down baby cause that is exactly what he is doing is seeing what he had and now what he's got ain't all that and he's feeling like an idiot.
2006-09-13 17:09:41 · answer #5 · answered by Rodney T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cut it off- don't feed his sickness- get on with your life- you could inform his wife of this garbage- he sounds really screwed up- don't go back into the pit-don't get into his perversion- see counselor to see why you are playing this game- the ball is in your court-take care of you and kids if you have them- take care-D
2006-09-13 17:09:23 · answer #6 · answered by Debby B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why is he trying to have his cake and eat it too?
Sounds like a spoiled brat to me. You perhaps have been overly generous to him all this time...? I hope you haven't been writing him back.
2006-09-13 16:52:55 · answer #7 · answered by jarm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just delete it when he sends you one. Do not even read it since it will make only you upset. You are better off without him.
2006-09-13 17:37:41 · answer #8 · answered by leyte6519 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to leave you alone. Or even better,tell his new wife. That will stop him!
2006-09-13 16:56:05 · answer #9 · answered by whataboutme 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
seem,s like he married in my opion the wrong gal the.2. time around and misses you and what he had with you in my opion?
2006-09-13 17:09:03 · answer #10 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋