ok. my b/f doesnt know if he should have a relationship w/me right now b/c i live in florida and he lives in new york. he says it makes him sad that he cant hold me or toutch me or kiss me. and he wants to finish school and start a family. we want to do it with each other. i can most likely move up there next year then we can do everything as planned. if he loves me he'll wait right? and he isnt even talking to me righth now. thats really not making it ne better. i wanna sort this out. i wanna talk to him he said he loves more more then nething, as do i. and he'll never leave me. im all he wants and needs. and wouldnt have it ne other way. he love me he needs me. and right now i am hurting more then nething. i really am. and hes probably hurting to do this. i dont know. but right now i feel that everything has just been down the drain. our love so strong... what is this. how, why. this is.... i dont even have words for this. and how i feel. what will happen? please ket me know.
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2006-09-13 16:45:20 · 6 answers · asked by ♥Victoria 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well this doesn`t make sense! If he loves you so much why can`t he wait for you? It sounds like he isn`t being honest and something else is going on. How could he just cut you out like that? If he loves you more than anything he will do anything it takes to be with you including waiting for you. He isn`t the only one who is going through the seperation and missing the other one. You would wait as long as it takes to be with him, right? Why can`t he do the same? His feelings for you don`t seem to be as strong as yours are for him. If he can hurt you like this without even thinking of what it is doing to you how much do you really mean to him? Would you ever put him through that? I know that this probably isn`t what you want to hear and you were probably looking for something more like " Hang in there, he will be back" or "Everything will be ok and work out in the end" but I have to say, as an outsider looking in, it seems that he just doesn`t care enough about you. You`re not a high enough priority to him. Even if you do work through this and get back together I don`t think it will last. You need to be with a person who appreciates you and respects and REALLY loves you enough to stick it out even through the hard and lonely times. I`m sorry to say this, but I don`t think he`s the one for you. Of course this is all just opinion and I could be way off (and I REALLY hope I am!! I HATE seeing people in pain!) but please at least think about what I`ve said. You deserve to be loved, respected, and treated as though you matter and are important enough to wait for. Good luck hunny!! I really feel for you and hope everything works out. I know you are in tremendous pain and I would hate to be in your shoes right now!
2006-09-13 16:48:39 · answer #1 · answered by Ex-Blondie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you have to go through this. Nobody should have to feel like this. All I have to say, that if you guys are meant for each other it will happen. If you can be up there in a year, he should be willing to wait. You are right, long distance relationships are hard, but if you can get through them, it makes it better. I don't know what he is thinking, but he should tell you. If he can't be with you until you are up there, I don't know what to say. If he wants to be with you and start a family, he should be with you still and wait till you make it up there. The best thing that you can do, is talk to him or find a way if he's not talkin to you right now. Maybe right now, he just needs time. Give him a few days and then call him
2006-09-13 23:50:00 · answer #2 · answered by ConfusedK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He isnt talking to you, doesnt that tell you something?? I am assuming you are young, I know it is hard. Maybe you should focus on yourself right now, get your head on straight and figure out what YOU want in life besides a boyfriend (College, career, etc..) I promise you, you will be fine dear.
2006-09-13 23:55:12 · answer #3 · answered by starlinnq 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't see him for ages, then I'd suggest not finding another boyfriend, but finding someone close to you (obviously male).
I've been through thoes things and now I look back and think how childish it almost was.
And how old are you?
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2006-09-13 23:50:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all how old are you??
2006-09-13 23:47:36 · answer #5 · answered by dewman_30 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did'nt say where you were in florida?
2006-09-13 23:49:07 · answer #6 · answered by captcruzer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋