2006-09-13 15:57:00 · 16 answers · asked by nans77 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The truth is the truth.
Regardless of what he might do or think, no good relationship can be founded when one person carries a big secret.
2006-09-13 16:04:42 · answer #1 · answered by lucy_shy8000 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the person. Some people believe in things so strongly, such as abortion, that no matter what they will separate from the ones that they love due to their own beliefs. You might want to find out what *his* beliefs are before telling him unless you are determined yourself to tell him. This should be your decision and not his. If you feel that this is something that he should know that tell him, but if you don't feel that it is necessary, then don't tell him. However, if he finds out later in your relationship that you had an abortion from someone other than you, there's a good chance that he'll be upset.
2006-09-13 17:20:03 · answer #2 · answered by SimpleBinary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would depend on why the abortion happened. If it happened because of being raped, or that the baby wasnt going to make it, no, i wouldnt stop dating her. If she had the abortion just so she wouldnt have to worry about parenthood, then yes, because she could give it up for adoption.
2006-09-13 16:02:18 · answer #3 · answered by traveling_soldier6784 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on his convictions. Find out how he feels about the issue before you decide if you should tell him or not. You can mention that you saw something on TV, or was surprised by a friend's opinion on the subject. That should be enough to rouse an opinion if he feels strongly.
2006-09-13 16:02:00 · answer #4 · answered by burpolicious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a guy and I would say no. Everybody makes mistakes. It depends where your overall morales are etc. The guy in questions may have done some things in his life as well. The issues is how do you go forward.
2006-09-13 16:13:20 · answer #5 · answered by DolPek A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on his beliefs on abortion
2006-09-13 15:58:11 · answer #6 · answered by joy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would guy stop dating? She has been honest right? This girl is cool...
2006-09-13 16:00:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a girl, but if I were a guy that would be hard to take. I would have a hard time with that one.
2006-09-13 16:00:23 · answer #8 · answered by creature 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on his stand on abortion. If he is anti-abortion it is very likely.
2006-09-13 15:58:50 · answer #9 · answered by jusme 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he does, then he's not worth dating anyway. What's in the past is in the past and if he can't get over that, then that's his problem.
2006-09-13 15:59:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋