My son is 3 and me and the father isn't together i have been seeing a new man for 2 weeks and baby daddy didn't take it very well,he said he was going home for a couple of months and wants to be a family when he comes back.i have wanted that for 3 years,but now im happy with new man!
2006-09-13 16:03:57 · 9 answers · asked by shelly 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he is jealous and would like to make you break up with the othe guy. Think about it the baby is 3 and only just now does he want to be a family? Dont you believe it. You likethe new guy keep the new guy. the baby daddy has already shown you what kind of man he is so what do you need with him?
2006-09-13 16:08:29 · answer #1 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who is baby daddy? Do you mean the baby's daddy or baby and daddy? Where is he going home to for a couple of months? Do you really know after 2 weeks of dating someone that he can replace the father of your child? Do you want to be a family with your son's dad?
Lots of questions you need to ask yourself.
2006-09-13 16:09:31 · answer #2 · answered by katie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you should think about the fact that you've known this new guy for 2 weeks - so you can't really say you know him that well. You also need to think about the fact that any new relationship is fun, exciting, infatuating at first, but that doesn't mean it's love or that it's meant to be.
Your baby's dad might have taken a long while to come around, but maybe you should give it another go. After all, you do have a child with him and you did say you've been wanting him to come around for a while. Give him another shot and see what happens!
2006-09-13 16:06:07 · answer #3 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, tell the daddy to keep up his child support payments, but stay out of your personal life. If he only wants to be with you just so the "other man" doesn't get you, it's not gonna work in the long run... You'd be wasting your time.
2006-09-13 16:06:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit "seeing a new man" while you have a husband.
Try the book "Care and Feeding of Husbands", or some such title.
Do your best to win back your husband, the father of the child the two of you made, together.
2006-09-13 16:18:48 · answer #5 · answered by kent chatham 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your happy with your new man(be sure-2 wks is awful soon!) tell your old one he missed his opportunity. Don' worry about what he thinks, his only obligation is to his child (and make sure he knows that)
2006-09-13 16:12:17 · answer #6 · answered by kelley1031 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Torn between two lovers.
Select the responsible person who has the committment of loving and taking care of you and your child.
2006-09-13 16:08:41 · answer #7 · answered by dtmc542006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just jealous that someone else wants you.
2006-09-13 16:05:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him just how you feel! Have no mercy!
2006-09-13 16:11:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋