for all of u that was tryin to say that if i leave he'll realize that I won't put up with it...he tells me when I try to leave that I would be better off without him ...so then he don't love me in the first place? no he said it's becouse he love me so much that he knows letting me go would be better for me...but I really love him ...were married....I don't give up that easy.....and when he does this what levrage do I have then?.....whats worse then me leavin?
2006-09-13 16:04:04 · 11 answers · asked by country_mystyle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
would it make him realize anything to really leave?
2006-09-13 16:08:16 · update #1
staying and not being happy is always worse than leaving.
happiness is the best thing in the world if u are not happy u can't make anyone else in your life happy. but if u think ur happy than i guess leavin would be worse.
but then why would u be askin this question if u were happy?
2006-09-13 16:10:51 · answer #1 · answered by Sooo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really dont know what to tell you i have been through that for a long time and i havent figured it out either. i do know its not so easy to leave . that is easier said than done, i have done it before, i completely went from okla. to connicutt, but his begging and pleading always brings you back. all i can is tell you to what you feel like doing. but he will never change, they always make you feel guilty if they can.
2006-09-13 16:21:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy was probably raised by a dad who was the same way. He'll never change...get rid of him. You deserve better.
2006-09-13 16:14:06 · answer #3 · answered by Duma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man will only change if he wants to, he will not change because you want him to. He is saying that stuff to you to try and make you feel guilty and stay. It's not worth it, leave him.
2006-09-13 16:08:43 · answer #4 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be the same to him and point out that hes doing the same leave and come back later
2006-09-13 16:06:51 · answer #5 · answered by man_with_half_a_heart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest counseling to help the relationship. Good luck!
2006-09-13 16:06:49 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't really have an answer for this one i just feel the same way and wanna know why?
2006-09-13 16:09:29 · answer #7 · answered by lisabmomma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You talk my wife, I think the problem is you, you must be annoying like my wife.
2006-09-13 16:43:12 · answer #8 · answered by PNP_BIOS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take my advise and leave
2006-09-13 16:06:20 · answer #9 · answered by osunumberonefan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause men are a$$ho135
2006-09-13 16:06:25 · answer #10 · answered by Lorraine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋