Family & Relationships - 11 September 2006

i have been deployed for 1yr in Iraq. also i have been married for 8yrs. i love my wife and don't want to hurt her. we have a good marriage. (good meaning no hot flames and sex sux). i have always been a cheater...please don't hold that against me.
my problem is i met one that has stolen my heart and have been with her all year out here. i return home soon and feel so guilty... i know i love my wife...but this one makes me feel at home... she looks, better than my wife, she is smart, and loves me soooooooo much. i have already broke it off with her, but i can't stop thinking about her. i really just wanna hold her feel her touch...help me how do i move on or should i??? it's more than just good sex and a hooter girl...i really have a connection with her...i feel it!!! what do i do...i just have no idea...ii never knew cheating would deal me this...but i wouldn't trade the feelings i found out here for anything...
please no stupid responses ...i really need help

2006-09-11 22:42:06 · 19 answers · asked by MR J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't understand why they want to create a dirty image in public.
Please answer this question and help me solve this mystery.
Thanks to all the answerers!

2006-09-11 22:41:43 · 34 answers · asked by Sweety cutie 2 in Friends

2006-09-11 22:40:44 · 10 answers · asked by czar 1 in Singles & Dating

i neeto get out of relationship im in now as i wont to go back to my ex .. but dont no what to say to my partner as i dont wont to hurt him..he's a good man but i cant love him like my ex an dont think its fair on him for me to stay with him under false pretensices

2006-09-11 22:40:18 · 21 answers · asked by pollypocket150 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

One of my best friends,met a boy when she was in holiday in a other town(in the same country were she lives).She told me that he was telling here on the street(they didn't now then each other)that she looks good,that she is sweet,that she loves her...OK no problem!But he is smoking,he is one year bigger then her(she is 13 years old),he has a tattoo on a hand,I don't now he looks a bit dangerous like a vagabond and for this friend of mine is a caprice but she sais that she likes him too.She doesen't now his last name and his number.Her parents don't now about that guy because they are obsoletes.It is a danger for her?She didn't had a boyfriend before.

2006-09-11 22:39:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is a purely hypothetical question, was a friday night pub question and we all had differing view points, keen to get the greater view from a wider audience.

2006-09-11 22:39:01 · 33 answers · asked by budrington 1 in Singles & Dating

We talk to each other then he says hes busy and i try to talk to him again later he then ignores me, what do i do cos i really like him but hes hurting me aswell cos i dont know why he ignores me

2006-09-11 22:38:39 · 13 answers · asked by mel 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-11 22:38:29 · 3 answers · asked by sugar 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hello I need a real lover ,of course I am just a little baby boy , My name is Pedram n I am just 18 from Iran, if anyone wants to become my friend please contact me on yahoo : dr_bilingual@yahoo.com I am online on messenger

2006-09-11 22:38:08 · 7 answers · asked by Mojtaba Askari 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-11 22:37:42 · 6 answers · asked by gloria4rasta 1 in Singles & Dating

So there is this girl I know and we hooked up and it was cool but she stopped herself because she has a man. This girl is hella feaky too and I know if I can get her to dump that dude she is with on the other side of the country i could be hitting that from all kinds of different angles and directions. I tried to convince her that her man is cheating on her and she almost bought it but she didnt give in. Have any advice on what to say to her?

2006-09-11 22:37:17 · 9 answers · asked by AndrewT.LEYKIS101 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been dating a married women and both of us are madly in love with each other. It was not something both of us thought would happen as to fall in love, but things changed when the both of us found to be very comfortable with each other. I'm single and i dont usually find any women to be attractive but when i met her it changed and ever since than we meet and see eact other everyday. Although she stays with her family and there's no communication & feelings. She has been so sad and misrable ever since. She started to be happy and joyful eversince she met me. She is always happy when she is with me and as soon as she goes back , she cries to sleep most nights. I am very happy with her and i want to be with her but she is married! I want to be with her so much but to certain extend i am not sure how far we can go on like this.

2006-09-11 22:37:16 · 2 answers · asked by Serenity 1 in Singles & Dating

juss tell the sites as i want some penfriends

2006-09-11 22:37:14 · 9 answers · asked by might 3 in Friends

Why do men try to forcefuly suggest that virgin women need to have sex before they marry, when we are saving ourselves for marriage?

2006-09-11 22:35:52 · 18 answers · asked by J-LO 2 in Singles & Dating

Give me your opinions.

2006-09-11 22:34:39 · 16 answers · asked by Kerk 2 in Friends

My new man has 2 children that his ex has totally turned against him.

He has to fight for every visit and is now going through court to get more visitation. The kids dont even want to come anymore and when they get there , his 6 year old daughter says ..."daddy is a looser", amoungst other things. Its just getting worse and worse.

Does anyone have any suggestions?

2006-09-11 22:33:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

"I have been debating about wether to tell you how I feel for quite a while because the last thing I want to do is ruin our friendship.
I know that I don't know you that well and so it seems strange that I could care so much about you, but I can't help how I feel.
I hope that haven't hurt you in any way by telling you this, and I hope that we can be friends no matter what you feel towards me.
I hope that we can spend some time getting to know each other better."

Imagine that you are quite shy.
Thanks for your answers

2006-09-11 22:32:55 · 15 answers · asked by lil 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-11 22:30:50 · 7 answers · asked by bhgyth 2 in Friends

2006-09-11 22:30:29 · 7 answers · asked by jenn_burks311 2 in Friends

what is better penpals or real closer pals whatz wrong in having penpals
if nothing is wrong then why cannt i get a penpal
i am 15 am i too young ok or too old to use the singles and dating section of yahoo answers

2006-09-11 22:28:07 · 15 answers · asked by might 3 in Singles & Dating

i feel as if they are all gold diggers! my mom is crazy, i think she is bipolar, i have a fat sister who is a lesbian and never helps around the house, and my other sister is my twin and CAN'T GET A LIFE! last night she woke up my mom at 3:00AM because she was having a fight with me! so my mom got mad at me. Guess what is worst! SHE IS ALMOST 21 YEARS OLD! And on top of that i never have any privacy with my boyfriend because she is always calling and asking stupid stuff, for example a typical conversation is "where are, what are you doing, im calling cuz im bored!", we can't even have a quiet evening without a ******* phone call! Im going mad! plus i can't move out of my house or else my dad won't pay my college, and even if i get a job, it won't be enough for college and apt. together and in the country i live in there is very little to no financial aid for college! im so depressed! By the way im almost 21, im a twin sister

2006-09-11 22:27:11 · 25 answers · asked by chicken doggie 1 in Family

2006-09-11 22:26:54 · 13 answers · asked by edgar t 1 in Singles & Dating

They have been here to help me get back on my feet after some personal problems and I moved in their home. It is nice they like me being here, but now they seem to think I should just stay here until they are gone. They are both near 80 (healthy) and I am 40's. I want to emerge from this small town and get back to my life in the city. How do I draw the line between guilt and setting my own goals? Anyone else in similar position? Thanks for positive input!

2006-09-11 22:26:02 · 6 answers · asked by Cub6265 6 in Family

2006-09-11 22:25:33 · 4 answers · asked by BraNdoN 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-11 22:25:20 · 20 answers · asked by amina n 1 in Friends

2006-09-11 22:24:22 · 6 answers · asked by akash m 1 in Friends

In the formerly Christian countries such as UK, USA, Europe, Southern Africa, South America, etc, divorce is on the increase. Why have societies allowed this when it is obvious it is not the best thing for children?

2006-09-11 22:23:54 · 40 answers · asked by Mai C 6 in Marriage & Divorce

so its 3:00 AM and I'm drunk and this girl sends me a text message and tells me to come to her place and "chill for a bit." I know a booty call when I see one, and that sounded like a booty call to me. She wanted some so I was going to give it to her. Well it turns out that all she wanted to do was make-out and cuddle and as soon as it became clear that I wasnt going to get any, I got up and just walked out the room. Now she is telling all her friends that I am an ****** because all I wanted was sex.Well yeah no sh*t. I think that its completely unfair for her to call me over at 3 in the morning and not at least give a bj. what do you all think?

2006-09-11 22:23:31 · 10 answers · asked by AndrewT.LEYKIS101 2 in Singles & Dating

I love a girl for two years. She was my junior at school.She is so charming ,but I'm not so fair.But my friends compell me to talk to her.She is now in a friendly mood with me as i study well.But I fear that she will not accept my love.What can i do?

2006-09-11 22:21:42 · 9 answers · asked by antappan 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 33yrs old and 3 yrs ago my husband told me that he thinks that by the time I finish my nurse training I will be a grandmother(my oldest is 5yrs old).His idea of being successful is getting rich no matter the cost and retiring by the age of 40.I wanted to do the nurse training to please him but nursing is not what I wanted to do

He has cheated on me in the past and even now with women who were all professionals with degrees,property and loads of money to spend on him.These women are also atrracted to the fact that his business is going quite well.They know he is married but both my husband and they continue with the affair.

I just got fedup of not being able to satisfy his needs the way he wants it ,when he wants it and still not caring about how he has hurt me so I did something I love.My efforts to improve myself for our sake are still not validated

2006-09-11 22:20:58 · 31 answers · asked by JUSEve 2 in Marriage & Divorce