This is a purely hypothetical question, was a friday night pub question and we all had differing view points, keen to get the greater view from a wider audience.
2006-09-11 22:39:01 · 33 answers · asked by budrington 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl. My reason for saying this is she is the one in a relationship so she is the one who should not cheat knowing it will hurt her boyfriend. 2nd boy is not in a relationship with the boyfriend so it is up to the girl to say no.
2006-09-11 22:46:41 · answer #1 · answered by happyflamepepper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2nd boy made no promises to 1st boy. As long as he is not in a committed relationship then he has nothing to feel guilty about...unless the girl, has told him she doesn't want anything to do with him. Then that's just plain stalking.
However...the girl....she is the one in the relationship. She promises to be faithful, unless it's an open relationship understood by both parties. The girl owns her own choices. She must live with the consequences of guilt and actions taken by 1st boy if caught.
2006-09-11 22:47:56 · answer #2 · answered by THP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, unfortunately I have been in a similar situation to this a few times but I was the single one and someone in a relationship has come after me (I just attract them, as it has happened AT LEAST seven times). The general concensus (if that's how you spell it!) amongst me and my friends is that I didn't persue anyone, they came to me, I have no one to answer to and they do, they are in a relationship and I'm not, so I have no promises to anyone to stay faithful. However before you all start thinking SLAG i'm not! (very rarely was sex involved, as I do have a conscience!) If someone (be them male or female) is in a relationship they have made a promise to their partner that they will stay faithful, they should be the one to do that, other people do not have to do that for them. BUT it is a bit wrong for someone to try and tempt someone away from someone else in a relationship (I never did this), but if cheating is involved then frankly the relationship obviously wasn't working!
2006-09-12 00:05:09 · answer #3 · answered by Jenny K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All three of them are to blame.
Boy 1 should really know what he's gettin into when he starts dating a girl. And both the girl and boy 2 should be shot to death, hypothetically of course.
2006-09-11 22:58:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl
2006-09-12 00:10:29 · answer #5 · answered by Richard C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl
2006-09-11 23:58:09 · answer #6 · answered by kayef57 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The girl takes the primary blame because she is the one in the relationship who should follow the rules of that engagement.
The 2nd boy takes the secondary blame and deserves the wrath of the first boy for the disrespect he has shown to his girlfriend and his relationship with her.
2006-09-11 22:57:00 · answer #7 · answered by Fluorescent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The girl is a **** and the guy an idiot.
She should have the decency to break it off with him, instead of cheating. He should have enough pride to let her be, and find someone else that might possibly be worth the time. A cheating woman (or man) isn't
2006-09-11 22:43:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 19:23:57 · answer #9 · answered by pires 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People always seem to want what they can't have. Unfortunately, it seems that society has become ok with "having your cake and eating it too". Both parties are to blame but said girl carries more of the burden of guilt since she opted to accept the offers of said boy.
2006-09-11 23:04:49 · answer #10 · answered by cgspitfire 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋