so its 3:00 AM and I'm drunk and this girl sends me a text message and tells me to come to her place and "chill for a bit." I know a booty call when I see one, and that sounded like a booty call to me. She wanted some so I was going to give it to her. Well it turns out that all she wanted to do was make-out and cuddle and as soon as it became clear that I wasnt going to get any, I got up and just walked out the room. Now she is telling all her friends that I am an ****** because all I wanted was sex.Well yeah no sh*t. I think that its completely unfair for her to call me over at 3 in the morning and not at least give a bj. what do you all think?
2006-09-11 22:23:31 · 10 answers · asked by AndrewT.LEYKIS101 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yep, sounded like a booty call to me. I know I don't call a guy at 3 am. without the expectation of getting sex. But there are some strange and naive girls out there that think differently, I guess. I think she should have made it clear what she was calling you for especially since it was in the middle of the night. My best advice is to let it go and maybe next time get clarification on what the girl is looking for.
2006-09-11 22:43:58 · answer #1 · answered by txsunflower81 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously i think she's in the wrong I mean WTF why did she call you at 3 in the morning to come over if she didn't want to just F**k???? I think she must be kinda dumb....because most people have enough sence to know that you don't call someone that early in the morning w/ out an alterior motive. And even if she didn't have one, she should have realized that you were going to think she did! Craziness! But at the same time I don't think you should be quite so mad at her, because maybe she is just very naive, and likes you alot, and was drunk, and just wanted to be with you...ya never know. if you like her as more than a booty call you should apologize to her ASAP. If you don't then I wouldn't worry about it.
2006-09-11 22:32:27 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never automatically assume that it was going to be a booty call.. maybe she really did only want to cuddle. It does happen.. next time make sure its clear of your expectations before heading over
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2006-09-11 22:26:24 · answer #3 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't belive there are people in this forum defending the girl. But then maybe thats because I'm a guy. What kind of retard would call someone at 3 am "to cuddle"?
NO I don't think your in the wrong at all here and I think you should stay away from this girl.
2006-09-11 22:42:37 · answer #4 · answered by Jumpy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smells like a booty call, and she is a dirty ho. Don't sweat it, I am sure she will get what is coming to her. And if she is out there telling people the truth (that you came over at 3 and didn't get any) it makes her look bad. She will have a hard time getting another guy to fall into her trap.
2006-09-11 22:28:48 · answer #5 · answered by allforasia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i am on your side on this one 1 why would someone call at 3 in the morning telling you to come over if they didnt want to do the nasty i would say its probably both of you to blame mabe a little more on her part
2006-09-11 22:35:32 · answer #6 · answered by shasha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a girl, but I totally agree with you. She invites you over at 3am, of course you are expecting to sleep with her and she knew it.
2006-09-12 05:46:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is stupid for calling you ... you are stupid for going over there. You better think twice about arbitrarily going to have sex with just any girl out there as there are risks for you. Any how that is sick and sad.
2006-09-11 22:30:21 · answer #8 · answered by concerned christian 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should have stayed and make her feel guilty. Take it like a investment.
2006-09-11 22:26:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't owe you anything - that's your fault for assuming she wanted sex. Too bad for you.
2006-09-11 22:29:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋