what is better penpals or real closer pals whatz wrong in having penpals
if nothing is wrong then why cannt i get a penpal
i am 15 am i too young ok or too old to use the singles and dating section of yahoo answers
2006-09-11 22:28:07 · 15 answers · asked by might 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
real friends are better. you just have to be yourself
2006-09-11 22:29:29 · answer #1 · answered by shelly_cute 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Groan...
Pen pals are hard to find because in general people don't want to take the time or make the effort that's necessary to write a decent letter. Just look at the questions and answers here and you'll see that most of what written is short, incomplete and as wham-bam, started and ended as it can be... often with the worst spelling punctuation and grammatical errors imaginable. Do you really think you'll get a pen pal from a world so unwilling to write? You'll be likelier to find someone with worldwide cellular coverage and unlimited airtime - a phone pal... An on-line chat partner is easy to find, but most of those people are more interested in voice and video than in tapping out a conversation. It's not quite the same as a pen pal.
But, I think you should keep trying. Having a pen pal can be a lot of fun, rewarding in a special way, and if you enjoy the written word and you're willing to do your half of the deal you couldn't ask for a better experience. Stick with it; you'll get connected eventually, perhaps even right here, tonight. Try this: http://www.ehow.com/how_13416_find-pen-pals.html
Good luck.
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2006-09-12 05:49:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I think real friends are better but somewhat penpal do prove better than the real friend. To make friend it depends on us, in this world there is no one who is not a stanger, it only when we talk or smile to them that the strangeness among us suddenly flank open and we become friends.
2006-09-12 05:58:29 · answer #3 · answered by Rijied 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Person is never to old or to young to have pen-pals. Just be care full you might get a few "sick" old oomies that wanna be more than just penpals.
2006-09-12 05:33:07 · answer #4 · answered by Barney B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to have more wit i guess..
or u're looking at the wrong places honey..
or maybe u cant keep them interested...
REAL friends are better.. no question about that.... but strangers like us could be good for u too.. sometimes when u can't ask ur close friends about some things u want to know.. u use answer.yahoo.com right? or when u got something all bottled up inside.. sometimes it's easier to say it to a stranger than to tell ur bestfriend... so i think they're both good in different ways..
2006-09-12 05:36:07 · answer #5 · answered by Ysabella 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are matured enough to give shape to your expectation in Life.
Pen pal,Chatting or Dating your craving is same and this craving will be there till your death..
You boy,better focus on building up your potentials,those females will run around you or after you if you could prove your worth to this world.
2006-09-12 06:54:58 · answer #6 · answered by mannan_malar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here's my advice: real friends are important.. pen pals are fun. :)
when it comes to REAL friends:
1st, make sure YOU are the kind of person u want as ur friends. so, make sure u take care of urself, ur attitudes, the way u think, the way u judge, or don't judge, others; take care of YOUR responsibilites and actions and reactions to situations; be as open minded as possible, be willing to Learn, and strive to be a Good Person, and Good woman, someone to be admired and trusted and well-liked. so that may also mean u gotta take care of ur Appearance and ur Knowledge, so that u Feel Good, Look Good, and Understand many things, in order to build that confidence in urself.
2nd, i think the more u are happy and positive in ur life, the more attractive u are to others. in a Good way; when u are positive, u attract positive people to you. when u are negative, u kinda attract negative, or "bad" people to you. so while u are working on urself, u are actually working on ur ability to maintain and make Good relationships, with Positive people; because u are feeling confident and happy, u will be able to see, and filter out, the negative ones. stay close to Good, Healthy, Happy people, and stay away from the Mean, Negative ones.... ones that don't prove they are good friends, ones who backstab you. the thing is, the stronger and confident u are in urself, the more likely u can "bounce back" from someone who DOES backstab you; think of it this way, u were the "good friend", and that person treated you badly. therefore, who is wrong? not you. and that knowledge will keep you Strong, and Learn from your mistakes, and keep distance between that person and yourself.
so, long story short, work on yourself, continuously learn and grow, keeping an open mind, and u will be the kind of person OTHERS WANT to be friends with.... and u will be able to "pick and choose" who is a great person to be in ur life, and who needs to change in order to fit in w/ a Healthy, Positive Lifestyle. good luck! :)
2006-09-14 14:24:35 · answer #7 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask a english teacher at your school about how to find a pen pal.
2006-09-12 05:30:38 · answer #8 · answered by knightashen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends and theoir friendships are earned not made... good luck in finding your friend ;)
2006-09-12 05:31:54 · answer #9 · answered by S@D L@Dy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go ride your bike around the block one more time, then come back and ask a real question!
2006-09-12 05:30:32 · answer #10 · answered by captcruzer 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
love 2, a,s,l and hi i'm lizzy i'm 13 i live in france but i'm frm england
2006-09-12 06:08:59 · answer #11 · answered by Eliza Dolittle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋