Family & Relationships - 11 September 2006

in the beginning, i loved him a lot, but a s time went by, my feelingd just started to change about him. i dont know if its because i tried to find someone different when i was single and thats y i picked him cause i was trying different. i am not attracted to him physically, its his personality is wat got me. but i think i need more than personality. i need looks and personality. i wanna be able to look at him and say "dang look at my fine boyfriend." i want to break up cause i cant go on feeling like this about him. if i let it go on for some more time i think i will hurt him even more and he'll hate me. i just wanna break up in time so that everything will be good between us. i dont want to b a bad memory in his mind. i dont want to make him sick at the stomach when he thinks about me. i wanna do this rite now because he's really hooked and attached to me.

2006-09-11 11:58:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My two friends and I sat together at lunch at the beggining of the year. My other three friends, whom my other two friends are not quite aquatinted with, have recently began to sit with us as well. Now one of my friends who sat with me in the first place is sitting with someone else, and I think its because of my other three friends who dont know him, and its uncomfortable for him. I feel bad that he has to do that, but I dont know if I should let him sit with someone else or ask my other three friends to leave. What should I do?

2006-09-11 11:57:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-09-11 11:55:52 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I like this guy who is a year older than me. He is really crazy and loud but he is cute and he is rough with the guys and he is really swee twith girls but i get the feeling that he stares at me a lot and he treyies to help me out with my questions evn when im not talkn to him and i think we are perfect 4 each other because we are both n2 the same music, style, we are both smart and our parents are really good friends. For som ereason lately I try to not like him because Im sick of thinking about him because if he doesnt like me then Im over him and I'll just quit thinkn of him but if he does like me I REALLY WANNA go out with him. So what do ya'll think? does he like me. HERE are some other hints: he seems to be everywhere that I am (but lately I feel like he is trying to avoid me.) and of a lot of girls that i no he really only seems nice to me and this one othr girls

2006-09-11 11:55:12 · 13 answers · asked by hollisterGIRLchills_at_the BEACH 2 in Singles & Dating

yeah takr the p i s s out of me if you want i need a laugh

2006-09-11 11:55:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have always had a boyfriend in my life and he has always been my closest friend..Now I am single and I am reflected on the past and I wish I would have felt the way I am feeling now back then..When you get into a relationship (my personal experience) its all about him..Now more than ever I wish I had a good friendship with a female..I look around and there are people who has a "true friendship" and I would love that! Someone I could talk too on a regular basis, someone to care about me! Hopefully oneday..but is there anyone who feels the same way as I do?

2006-09-11 11:53:20 · 10 answers · asked by lrkarey 1 in Friends

was forced out of the military. He was at fault and the AF refused to let him reenlist. I love him, I really do, but I see him differently now. This totally has nothing to do with money (military make nothing), I say that because I know 99% of you will automatically think it is. I don't want a divorce, I love him and can not imagine life without him. Help, how do I change my views so I'm not so shallow.

2006-09-11 11:53:05 · 15 answers · asked by jaymesthreebabies 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hint, it's this month.

2006-09-11 11:51:37 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When I broke it off, I wanted to remain friends. We didn't talk for almost two years (he sent me an IM on Yahoo) and when we started talking again I told him I had married and was very happy but would still enjoy meeting for coffee. He was REALLY nasty and mean and said he never wanted to talk to me or see me again. I was surprised and had no further contact with him . So, why now the email?

2006-09-11 11:51:26 · 21 answers · asked by old girlfriend 1 in Friends

2006-09-11 11:50:16 · 37 answers · asked by Proud white american 1 in Weddings

i mean, i understand it feels good, and we have all done it, at certain point in our lives but when one feels tht is time to move on into having a serious relationship guys are not even half way throu the game.

2006-09-11 11:50:16 · 15 answers · asked by gissell 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 22 years old now, and I have been dating a guy all through college, he recently got a job, and I am still in school (been together for almost 4yrs). I was wondering what is the perfect age to get married, and how much longer should I wait for him to pop the question? I would like to be married by the time I am 25yrs old, but my b/f wants to wait until he is established (aka. has a house, can afford a wedding, and have enough money to support us), which might take until we are both close to 30yrs old, and I have a feeling that is what he is thinking. Or could it be that he is afraid of committment, he tells me that he wants to have kids, but I told him that I would not until I am married, he understood. But he also wants to move out of his parents house and for me to move in with him. I told him that it would be nice, but I am afraid that he would not want to get married. So I have decided not to live with him until I am engaged. Someone please help and answer honestl

2006-09-11 11:50:01 · 4 answers · asked by ridingis4life 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-11 11:49:38 · 29 answers · asked by CHARLIE 3 in Singles & Dating

i have this huge crush on a guy but i don't know if he feels the same wya. what do u think?we used to be really good friends and talked all the time then a grl found out i liked him and told him everything and he stopped talking to me but then over the summer he started e-mailing, instant messaging, and texting me again like 24/7 so when skool started i thought we would be really good friends again but i was so-so wrong he won't talk to me unless i start the convo. but he still talks to me online all the time he talks to my bff all the time about me though and i always catch him staring at me and when i look over he turns his head fast so when we like go to asemblies and his friends sit by me he sits furthest away except lately he has benn getting closer and closer and he walks past me at lunch except he is so close i could trip him just by moving my foot my friends say hes trying to get my attention but im not sure that's it what do u think?

2006-09-11 11:48:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been living with my girlfriend for almost a year, and I love her a lot. Sometimes I have feelings like there is more out there, or that she may potentially bring me down. She does a lot of good things for me like keeping me focused and motivated in my career. So I am really confused. What do these feelings mean? Do I want to be with her, or am I needing to get out? I go back and forth with this all the time. Is it normal or is it sign to go?

Keep in mind we do love each other a lot

2006-09-11 11:48:26 · 12 answers · asked by raiderphan79 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i think he is using me but he says he really like me what should i do.

2006-09-11 11:48:05 · 22 answers · asked by marie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

so there was this guy in my algebra class (a total hottie.) and he sits in the front, while i'm in the back. honestly, i'm an attractive girl. he turns his head around a lot and whenever we made eye contact he would smile at me and turn back around. i found his myspace and added him, sending him a message introducing myself. he replied back nicely, telling me to say hi to him next time i see him. so i walked into class and saw him, and he turned around and mouthed the word "hey!" waved, and smiled really big. so i did it back.

is he flirting?
being friendly?
..how can i get him to be my date for homecoming?

oh and
one of my good friends likes him too. but she just told me today. and i'm so afraid she'll ask him out. i really really like him.
what would you do if you were in my case?

2006-09-11 11:47:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Young love. I'm an 11 year old boy and I was told about dating three years ago. I was wondering wat your oppinion was, about me dating girls my age(im a boy) And if you are a girl around the age of 11 then let me know and tell me your E-mail.

2006-09-11 11:46:11 · 10 answers · asked by sebsta 1 in Singles & Dating

I love a girl, and usually know what to do around her. But she might not love me. I believe that as long as she has a happy life, even if it's without me, than I'll be happy. Does that sound stupid?

2006-09-11 11:46:06 · 12 answers · asked by Reiku 1 in Singles & Dating

example...an unknown woman asks you out on a date or asks you to dance at the club. She may even buy YOU a drink. Is her forwardness a sexy turn on or a desperate turn off? What would you prefer? As an attractive woman, I've noticed that a lot of guys will check me out but not ask me out. Maybe I should start asking.
Ladies feel free to advise.
www.myspace.com/nikkibdiamond

2006-09-11 11:45:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm going to have a party wiht a ton of kids and i was wondering if there is anything fun we could do and we need it nice and clean cut appropriate for a bunch of 15/16 year olds all of which r mormons

2006-09-11 11:45:50 · 1 answers · asked by HoTtIe_WiTh_a_BoDy 2 in Friends

i am fm/19/ohio. and single. i am looking for the right man, but all i find is sexphene perverts. im tired of being hurt and used. will i ever find the right man?

2006-09-11 11:44:56 · 8 answers · asked by Dizzy 2 in Singles & Dating

I like this girl at my new high school but i dont konw her and I'm too shy to talk to her. What should I do?

2006-09-11 11:44:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I've been with my girlfriend for about 2 years and we broke up because we've been fighting too much....during that break she started hanging out with people who did a lot of drugs she got with this one guy and had sex with him (she claims she was drunk and high)...ok i forgave her...then we started going out again because she claims that he treated her like crap and she couldn't stop thinking about me...and two into it she went over some dude's house and took ecstasy and had sex with him..she claims she didn't know that would happen...now..my dilemma..I can't get over it..over the fact that she had sex with someone else and that she cheated on me..we are currently going out but I can't get it off my mind..I keep thinking that perhaps the only reason she got back together with me is because i didn't treat her like crap and there was nothing better out there..I can't get over the fact she had sex with 2 guys and i've only been with her...someone help me please will i ever get over it

2006-09-11 11:44:41 · 11 answers · asked by thatguy 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, i met this guy and we went to the movies one time, then we came back to my house and he stayed for 6 hours...just sitting with me and my parents. its been 2 days since then, and hes emailed me and told me he missed me and that he didnt care what we did for our next date as long as were together. please tell me whether im just overreacting or if this dude has problems.

2006-09-11 11:44:16 · 7 answers · asked by Jessica S 3 in Singles & Dating

when i first get a boyfriend i really REALLY like them, but home come when we date for a few weeks i stop likeing them? it bugs me so much, and it happens EVERYTIME!! please help me! thanks

2006-09-11 11:43:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He denies it but I read all the lured details, I love him, want to believe him but there is no denying what I have found

2006-09-11 11:43:27 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-11 11:43:22 · 23 answers · asked by madmarie35 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-11 11:42:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

iv been watching the news headlines over and over again! oh no! icant believe it. please tell me ur thoughts about this horrible tradgedy! GOD BLESS YOU all.

2006-09-11 11:42:04 · 7 answers · asked by KYthehumpit ₪scrappyboy₪ 1 in Other - Family & Relationships