My two friends and I sat together at lunch at the beggining of the year. My other three friends, whom my other two friends are not quite aquatinted with, have recently began to sit with us as well. Now one of my friends who sat with me in the first place is sitting with someone else, and I think its because of my other three friends who dont know him, and its uncomfortable for him. I feel bad that he has to do that, but I dont know if I should let him sit with someone else or ask my other three friends to leave. What should I do?
2006-09-11 11:57:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you really care about your friend then tell him to sit with you sometimes. Or you can sit with him sometimes at lunch and then with your other friends sometimes. Try and get him to hang out with your other friends also.
Eventually you could all hang out together. If he is your best friend then you should try to spend more time with him. But he should also make an effort to hang out with your other friends. Unless your new friends are bad and he knows it. But if not then he should understand that you have other friends but he is still a good friend.
Don't let one person control your life. Having friends is an important part of life. Having true friends is a hard thing to come by though.
2006-09-11 12:02:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In life I basically had 4 really good friends. None of them liked one another, and they didn't' like any of my other friends. Do what makes you happy. Maybe the other one will come around. Hang out with some friends on one day, and the other the next. When your friends mature a little more, things will get easier, they did for me. Try not to put so much pressure on the whole situation, things change alot when you get out of school. have fun while you can!
Good luck
2006-09-11 19:03:17 · answer #2 · answered by Hannah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him sit where he wants to and do not upset you other friends by asking them to sit elsewhere.
If you ask them to move you will lose them as friends.
2006-09-11 19:02:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No body owns anybody, and nobody can force anybody. When you grow up, then you'll know who your friends are.
2006-09-11 19:01:56 · answer #4 · answered by Mother of three 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
introduce them all together., sheesh
2006-09-11 19:00:21 · answer #5 · answered by Kittie_Nash 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you heard, "Lets just all be friends." ???????
2006-09-11 19:00:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let them get to know each other.....
2006-09-11 19:02:17 · answer #7 · answered by Promise 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋