when i first get a boyfriend i really REALLY like them, but home come when we date for a few weeks i stop likeing them? it bugs me so much, and it happens EVERYTIME!! please help me! thanks
2006-09-11 11:43:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you're exactly like me Hun, its because you get bored of 'em. The first week is exciting cause everything is all new between the two of you, but after that honeymoon stage is over, you don't feel the same way. Thing is, that guys not for you. Its okay to be picky, picky is good, because you are looking for something different than most guys you are with, probably hoping for a long term relationship, right? If you want a longer relationship you're going to have to find a guy that treats you like gold, who will leave you little surprises everywhere, take you to different places once in a while, needs to keeps things interesting in every way. I've found a guy that treats me like I'm everything to him, leaves surprise love notes in my purse or pocket, calls or comes to see me at work just to tell me that he was thinking about me....I never really know what he's going to do next. He keeps me entertained in more ways than one. You just haven't found your guy yet, but you will. Remember picky is good, find the right one for you!
2006-09-11 11:51:59 · answer #1 · answered by Hannah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you were attracted to what was on the outside but after a few weeks you come to realize that the two of you don't have much in common and the guy doesn't have much of a personality.
2006-09-11 18:45:17 · answer #2 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it have anything to do with the special visitor that comes once a month. :)
2006-09-11 18:46:27 · answer #3 · answered by Fitty4ex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe its cause you need to get to know them more
2006-09-11 18:46:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because at first it's all new and exciting ... then you get bored
2006-09-11 18:45:51 · answer #5 · answered by lesbiandyke 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋