Family & Relationships - 11 September 2006

MY NIECE IS 15 YRS OLD AND IS DOING A LOT OF BAD THINGS. ALTHOUGH I DID ALOT OF THE SAME THINGS IT HASN'T ENDED WELL FOR ME. AND I REALLY WANT TO HELP HER I JUST DONT KNOW HOW.I 'VE TAKEN HER OUT , SPENT TIME WITh HER EVEN TALKED TO HER BUT NOTHING SEEMS TO HELP . WHAT SHOULD I DO?HOW CAN I LET HER KNOW HOW MUCH SHE MEANS TO ME AND HOW MUCH SHES SCARING ME?

2006-09-11 12:24:58 · 6 answers · asked by cubanita818 2 in Family

be honest, why do you think relationships, tend to get too comfy and lose some of that spark?Realistically things can never stay the same as in the beginning, so how have you created a new spark?

2006-09-11 12:24:44 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

then why is he looking at porn while your in the next room? he wants sex with you but you've shut him off. why??? is he a good provider, a responsible citizen, and loving father? if the answer is yes, then maybe, just maybe, your the problem. so why don't you attack him sexually instead of attacking him with your hands on your hips and cluck, cluck, clucking at him till he brings out the porn again? i'm not trying to bash women. God knows this works both ways. i just hate to see you gals lose out, or worse yet, lose your man over something as simple as an act of love that should be shared anyway. he married you because he loves you. i'll bet he still does, probably more than ever. he just wants hot sex. so whats the problem? don't you want it too? why should the man always be the one to start? marraige is a 50/50 deal, right? sometimes its 60/40, sometimes 99/1, but theres most always some type of sharing. now get off your damn computor and go do mad passionate love to your hubby, ok?

2006-09-11 12:24:18 · 10 answers · asked by pete cochino 3 in Marriage & Divorce

im trying to win back my ex because i made mistakes and even she admits how much progress i have made since we broke up. i think we have a chance at resolving things in time but i dont want to push her away. Am i best off just letting things happen naturally or telling her how i feel and how i want to make things work between us again.

2006-09-11 12:22:52 · 9 answers · asked by whitey 2 in Singles & Dating

yeah all my friends and eveyone i know S*ags about all the time what are your friends like

2006-09-11 12:22:36 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am single. Hell she is hot. It's her idea mainly, but I think the hubby is agreeing just to please her.
What should I do? They want to video it too.

2006-09-11 12:22:11 · 29 answers · asked by ding diddy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-11 12:22:02 · 9 answers · asked by yellow_teddybear 1 in Singles & Dating

Well im in 10th grade, and was new to my school last year. Everyone else knew eachother and everything from middle school, but i came from a private school to a public highschool. Last year i had a reputation of being a shy private school girl, but this year im trying to change that. Last year i was the calmest, most shy person in my group of friends. This year im deffinately not, ive introduced some of my friends to the new students at our school and things like that, but how do i change my rep. with the people that i already know? making a first impression is deffinately easier than changeing one.

any advice?

Thanks in advance.

2006-09-11 12:20:41 · 11 answers · asked by guitar814girl 2 in Friends

missed somebody so bad because you thought they would never be yours.
hated to wake up every morning because you know that it will be another day without that special someone
felt sick for no reason because you are feeling depressed
sat down and for no apparent reason poured out your feelings onto a piece of paper then ripped it up because you could never give it to that person
tried so hard to make it right but it always turns out wrong
wished you were somebody else or
wanted to have somebody else's life because of their bf/gf that you were or are hopelessly in love with,
wanted someone so badly you couldn't sleep all night and been depressed all the next day because you know why you can't keep your eyes open or
wanted to die because that would mean never living another day without him.

2006-09-11 12:20:29 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do you stay apart & yet be committed?

2006-09-11 12:20:08 · 21 answers · asked by Belle 5 in Singles & Dating

First of all, don't read if your parents would freak over you reading this. I tried to make the content obvious from the Q, so if you're here, it's cos you chose to be.

I'm cleaning out her new lunchpail (I'm helpful that way) and there it is, like she WANTED me to find it, a 12" long, 4" diameter "thing." It was a deluxe model, with a screw-top that had some white milky stuff inside. I don't even want to guess what that's all for. I thought she was satisfied with Mr. Happy, but now that I know what she's doing at lunchtime, I'm crushed. What can I do to regain my confidence?

Her toy is red-plaid. Do you think I should question her about a Scotsman?

2006-09-11 12:20:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, my friend alex had created an e-mail address that was like just a spare, and i wanted to find out if the video i sent to my friend kevin who i sent it to before(and it didn't work), would go through, so i logged in and found that alex had just broken upwith his girl friend. should i tell him? and if so, how?

2006-09-11 12:20:05 · 6 answers · asked by ananymous 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been married 2 times and he just once. He says never to marriage again - and did cheat on me before (via web cam's and chat rooms) He also has lied to me a few times that I have proof of. Now he thinks I should just be ok with all this and forget it happened it was an "honest" mistake! My heart is broken and my trust shattered. We live together and I am alone (something in me loves him - I know kinda nuts isn't it). Help me deal with the pain and find a way to trust him again - or help me to move on.

2006-09-11 12:19:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Throw your happy relationship with a loving boyfriend for someone that you have long known but have never met.

2006-09-11 12:19:10 · 27 answers · asked by Belle 5 in Singles & Dating

I like a boy, he is shy, as am I.

2006-09-11 12:18:37 · 13 answers · asked by iris 2 in Friends

ok, so this guy just broke up with me and i really want revenge.... how do i make him jealious??????

2006-09-11 12:17:24 · 14 answers · asked by luvly brunette 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a question on yahoo answers called girls only wen kan mah mum and i talk. mah cuzin payed me $20 2 ask dat 4 her. now she's black mailin me. i want 2 embarrass her and stop her at da same time, but i dont want hetr 2 no dat its me. da first and only prank i already tried consisted of cutting off da white part of her stick deoderant, and filling it with cream cheese. The fifth day she was about to use it though, it fell in the toilet so she threw it out. Pleze help me get some pranks to play on her. P.S. i know her yahoo id name and password!!!! Da best answer will win ten points!!!! (wut r u supposed 2 do with these points anyway?)

2006-09-11 12:17:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Is it a text message thing, or instant messaging? Seriously, I want to know.

2006-09-11 12:16:58 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like my ex boyfriend but i broke up with him twice, when im with him i dont know but without him im missing him. should i ask if he wants to get back together?

2006-09-11 12:16:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend broke up with me last night. and im everything from sad to depressed. he said broke up with me because he doesnt like me as much as he did before. but that he still likes me "a little"

does this mean theres still a chance? what can i do to get him back? just help :(

2006-09-11 12:16:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

HELP! my friend is so weird!?
I met this girl a couple months ago who came from England and she is sooooo annoying. She is always on top of me. She sometimes trys to hold my hand and kiss me and i am a girl too! She calls like 10 times a day and she doesnt take the answer no. She stole my friend and she just follows her. What should i do? Theres no way to escape. Shes my neighbor.

2006-09-11 12:16:36 · 16 answers · asked by xoxo 3 in Friends

2006-09-11 12:16:25 · 5 answers · asked by christie d 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-11 12:15:58 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i've got a question, i love a women who wears thongs, how many of you wear them? and next, why do you wear then,and does them ridding up bother you enough to not wear them everyday? and be honest please, would you wear them if your husband or boyfriend didn't know you had them on,just wearing them because You want to?

2006-09-11 12:15:36 · 20 answers · asked by rpoker 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-11 12:14:37 · 8 answers · asked by Jayne T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have this old friend that i found on the internet a while ago. her name is megin, and when we talked, she lived in texas. she's from the bronx, and if you know a girl that you used to talk to about harry potter and a guy named ramiro, please email me! i miss you!

2006-09-11 12:14:17 · 2 answers · asked by Chelsea 3 in Friends

2006-09-11 12:14:10 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

He dumped me. He came back and said sorry. I played it cool. He never called again. Then I called after 3 weeks to give him my new number. He never called. Now I regret playing it cool, I shouldve told him that I really got hurt when he left but I'm in a way still interested. Would it be a good idea to call and find out if he still interested? Or it's already too late as he probably talking to someone else?

2006-09-11 12:14:05 · 12 answers · asked by Belle 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-11 12:13:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been married now for 10years, and we are very relaxed and unashamed in our habits around the house.
i.e. if one of us needs to belch, fart or scratch a delicate area then we will do. I am even not ashamed to ask my hubby to do the scratching. I am also not adverse to walking around naked even after having three kids.
We also talk a great deal and never go to bed on an arguement. we also tell each other every day that we love each other.
to me this is true love.

2006-09-11 12:13:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce