When my husband and I are in bed...he keeps asking me to fulfill his fantasy...said he would like to see anyother man f*** me while he watches or better than that would love to watch me with another woman...all this while we are being intimate...i think he is being serious, or maybe it is just "dirty talk"..I don't really know .I keep telling him that i would do anything to make him happy but this makes me a little uncomfortable. I keep telling him that i don't need or want anyone else (my husband was my first and only), but he is insistant...I do want to please my husband and spice up our sex life but..i'm confused...if i did agree to this, would i respect myself, would my husband respect me later? Or would I find that it is a real turn on? Or is this my husbands way to say you did it, now its my turn? I know that I would be heartbroken to see him with someone else. Any advice would be appreciated, especially if you are someone who has gone through with it with positive outcome.
2006-09-11
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