I've been seeing this guy for about four months. He seemed so sweet and caring, always telling me he loved me. For the past couple weeks, he's been cooling it. And now, he just disappeared without a word. He didn't even have the guts to tell me anything! And it hurts.
2006-09-11 11:06:31 · 31 answers · asked by angeleyes 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its all ego, baby. He thinks that you are sooo into him that you will just fall apart if he tells you he wants to break up/slow down/see other people. He thinks your little heart will just shatter into little tiny pieces without him so he doesn't say anything. He hopes you will just accept it, not call and leave "long time no..." messages on his phone so he never has to tell you to your face. He is a coward and an egomaniac. You just want to know what is up so you can get on with your life, right?
2006-09-11 11:15:48 · answer #1 · answered by BLANK 4 · 7⤊ 2⤋
Coward Man
2016-12-28 20:58:21 · answer #2 · answered by capetillo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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I think it has something to do with those hunter/gatherer genes. Men today still pay billions of dollars a year to go hunting. There's no real difference when it comes to their pursuit of women, in many ways. Let's just hope we don't end up as dinner instead of being invited to one. Even in bed, have you ever noticed the terms they use? I hate to be crude but words like, meat, eat, heat, beat, etc., not only rhyme but gives a man a certain rhythm to what he really enjoys, sex. The allure of sex is that men can never get to the one place that they are trying to attain, and that is back into their mother's wombs.
2016-04-10 01:50:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the problem is rooted in the fact that, as you stated, "(he) always told me he loved me" after only four months of dating!! Honestly it was probably just infatuation and wore off. This doesn't excuse him for pulling the Houdini act on you but I am willing to bet you two didn't exactly have the most open lines of communication with each other, either, or else you probably would have seen this coming. I am not about to defend him, but don't think all, or even most guys are like that. That would be ignorant on your part.
2006-09-11 11:19:11 · answer #4 · answered by randyken 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well for some it's hard to tell someone something that they know is going to hurt, and men are no exception. There are just too many reasons why a person would do it to mention, but your young and life goes on. If he did that then he probably didn't really love you, Sorry.
2006-09-11 11:12:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think the reason is he felt it would hurt you less if he didn't tell you the truth. .
he felt it would hurt less to have him just disappear rather than show up and tell you it's over, he's met someone else. . etc etc (whatever the explanation is). .
I'm very sorry for your hurt and pain, but time heals all wounds and another guy will be along shortly.
That's the quickest way to forget someone. . find someone else to be interested in . .
2006-09-11 11:11:21 · answer #6 · answered by Wayne A 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry the man you seen was a coward...any woman i dated I told straight up...it was done..I never hide from it..he was afriad you would cry and beg and he did not want to put up with it.
But not all men are like that...He may also seemed sweet and caring to get only one thing from you and that was into his bed..But also not all men are like that, just some..Good luck in finding mister right...he is out there...
2006-09-11 11:19:36 · answer #7 · answered by hononegah1988 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Have you ever thought about what he might have said to you before disappearing on you? I think whatever his reason for leaving you is much more harmful than ditching you and having nothing to say, than to find out he might have had another woman? Think about it... Sorry for your loss btw.
2006-09-11 11:26:38 · answer #8 · answered by gym_classhero 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been there before...I liked a guy, we got along well to the point we were talking about going out and then he disappeared on me. You know what it is...men don't like confrontation--they can't deal with the hostility and challenges we throw at them. So it is easier to just disappear and save face. Buy you are right, they are cowards!
2006-09-11 11:09:25 · answer #9 · answered by Miss J 7 · 3⤊ 3⤋
It's called IMMATURITY!!!! Let him B just that, 4-gotten!! & don't B suprised if he does or doesn't call U somewhere down the road. Ask him, "Do I know U"??
I know it hurts, but U just have 2 dust U're shoulders off, & carry
on w/U're BAD self. Always know, it's HIS LOSS, not U'res!!
Go on 2 someone else whose been keeping a watchful eye on U!
It's the REJECTION part that hurts, that's all. So recongnize it
& go on 2 something or someone better.
Good Luck honey, & don't keep U're head down!
Get mad & 4-get about him, he wasn't $%!* anyway, right?
Think about it.....
Smooches, Milkshake
2006-09-11 11:17:16 · answer #10 · answered by MILKSHAKE 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋