Bear with me on this. It maybe a little long. I've been seeing this guy for over two years now. We have known each other over six years though. Now when we first met, he was in a relationship with this young lady. He told me a lot about how the relationship was.. Very heartbreaking. Fights and arguements every day because of her being very insecure. (Just to let you know, him and I were just friends at the time) Anyway, we would see one another every now and again and just talk about of lives. For like a year or two, we didn't see one another. Until one day I saw him. We talked for a while and ever since then we've been dealing on not only a friend term but sexual too. However, he made it clear that he didn't want a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship because of all the problems he had in the last one. I agreed. He started coming by every day. Then every day turned into living for about a year while he searched for his own apartment. After he got his own apartment, things still stayed the same. He come by me every day, sleep by me every day, has a lot of clothes by me, etc. So here in lies my confusion. After all this time has passed, we've begun having stronger feelings for each other. But when these feelings surface, he speak on how he loves me but he don't want to be a boyfriend and go back down that road of horrors. I can understand what he is saying, but I began to worry sometimes. I began to become insecure. I don't want to lose him. I don't care about a title. But I don't know if we are actually in a commitment. We live like it, so it feels like it. But then there are times, I wonder. Please talk to me.
2006-09-10
07:22:27
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