Family & Relationships - 10 September 2006

I was having this debate the other day with my boyfriend...when we was talking about the future.

I think that the man should have a vesectomy because women go through alot more in life. For example, When we have sex for the first time we bleed, guys don't, we have periods, we have the cramps, we have to carry the child, give birth, have our bodies changing all the time because of it, gain weight, then our bodies are scarred from the birth, go through the menopause and even when it comes to sex, the majority of the time the man is the only one satisfied. so thats un fair aswell!
My boyfriend however thinks having the snip would make him less of a man and would be more painfull.
The vesectomy takes very little time and heals quicker, if a woman is sterilised she has to have an operation much more complex than the mans and there are more risks.
As far as I'm concerned the guy should have the snip and there should be no arguement.
My bf says 'no way' but we'll see! who agrees?

2006-09-10 07:50:40 · 16 answers · asked by toyotagirl 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-10 07:50:04 · 28 answers · asked by mike_answ 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

How do I let go of the man I promised to love "till death do us part" even though he is cheating on me? We've been married 15 years, the last of which he has been involved with another woman. I'm an attractive woman, intelligent, we share 2 beautiful children and I never thought in a million years this would happen to us. He is seeing a recently divorced woman (yes, they were together even before SHE divorced) 4 children under 7 years old and she is a little more than lacking in the smarts dept.

I guess I can see the logic as to WHY to let him go, but how do you tell your heart to follow suit? Any advice, suggestions would be greatly appreciated; nasty comments are NOT welcomed. I've seen a lot of posts here and even though I am opening myself up to rude comments, I would love to see some compassionate answers. :o)

2006-09-10 07:50:00 · 25 answers · asked by spudette70 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, now this guy that I used to like! I'm best friends with his lil sister. And when I said that I didn't like him but i knew that he liked me he made me sit on his lap and he hand my hand and felt me up. Then, I told his sis that I liked him. She told him and now he wouldn't flirt with me anymore. So, I'm saying when I don't like him just as friends, he flirts. But when I do like him more than a friend he doesn't. And I wanna know why?

2006-09-10 07:49:53 · 8 answers · asked by ☆ Sarah ☆ 4 in Friends

I like this girl that I go to school with alot, but I've heard many rumors about how she is. I haven't really talked to her that much but she seems as if she is kinda interested, or maybe she's just friendly. I've heard all kind of rumors from many people I know about "how many times she've been around the block". Normally I'm the type of guy that would try to be one of those guys on the block since I heard all these things, but it's something different about her. I don't feel this way about her I wanna get to know her. What should I do, I'm confused? What is this feeling? Maybe I'm just growing up I don't know.

2006-09-10 07:48:44 · 15 answers · asked by killa beezy 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-10 07:47:58 · 23 answers · asked by cre m 1 in Family

Why do men choose to date many women rather than one perfect one?

2006-09-10 07:47:40 · 17 answers · asked by â?¥CURiOUSâ?¥ 2 in Singles & Dating

Been married 2 years and we never french kiss. Not even during doing it. Is that how other married people act or are we strange? I think my huband sucks at kissing anyway and tastes like stale cigarettes.

2006-09-10 07:46:32 · 24 answers · asked by animal_mother 4 in Marriage & Divorce

This 22-year-old that I kno really likes me but i told him not 2 long ago that i jus c him as a frin. We cool & everything then outta nowhere he says that he'd get me anything (i think he said somethin about a $100 limit) 2 go down on me cuz i was a virgin. Even if it was only 1 time he'd still get me wat i wanted for that 1 time. My friend thinks i should go through with it. I think itz wrong tho. But all he wants 2 do is eat me out & then i get wat i want. Sould i go thro with it? 1 time. o yea I'm a 16-year-old girl & knew the guy for a while (he used 2 live on my block & came back). O yea & if i went through wit it would i still b a virgin? He's only eatin me out.

2006-09-10 07:46:15 · 13 answers · asked by waves 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been seperated for over a year from My ex, I haven't heard from him for over a year, I found out that he's been in jail for 2 months for drug related charges. He called Me and says he wants to try again.that he still oves me and has changed. I do still have feelings for him but I'm afraid it's all lies.

The reason we split in the first place was because of money..he didn't want to work..I totally supported him. ..you know in the vows when it says for richer and poorer..soI put up with it for awhile.

Should I give him another chance...or forget about.?

2006-09-10 07:45:19 · 26 answers · asked by Catherinefaith 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-10 07:44:16 · 35 answers · asked by big boy 2 in Singles & Dating

ok well heres the thing...recently my best friend started dating this guy and its alll she talks bout! and its getting on my nerves but shes my best friend and im so happyfor her but like i cant even talk to her n emore w. out her talking about justin ! i dont want to be mean and say would u shut up about him i would like to say that but i dont want to cuz i dont want her mad at me but how can i ask her nicly to stop talking bout him so much i mean i dont mind hearing about them together cuz i love her shes like a sis to me and i just dont want to hurt her feelings plz help!

2006-09-10 07:41:46 · 14 answers · asked by thick_chikk_01 1 in Singles & Dating

I dont want him to change the way he feels about me just because me feelings are (might) be different towards him

2006-09-10 07:41:35 · 13 answers · asked by Dani 1 in Friends

i think my relation ship with my bf is falling any suggestions?

2006-09-10 07:41:30 · 8 answers · asked by paige m 2 in Singles & Dating

I have asked friends and some of them think either she is playing hard to get or that she might be trying to let someone go and it's hard for her at this point. Once I leave her a voicemail that's it with my part I just wait to hear back from her. I don't want to call her back the next day and asked if she got my message. Also it makes me wonder that if I don't call her she might be thinking that I am not into her and she might want to stop talking to me? I just don't want to make it to a point that if I am sitting here calling her all the time she might think that she has me wrapped around her finger and that's not me. Friends have told me to be patient and maybe she'll come around.

2006-09-10 07:41:17 · 8 answers · asked by impalassz 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-10 07:41:11 · 1 answers · asked by lauraleigh09 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-10 07:39:57 · 14 answers · asked by nido_tr3s 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-10 07:39:47 · 18 answers · asked by thewholetruthandnothingbutthruth 1 in Singles & Dating

how do i kiss a guy but he doesnt kno i like him!!

2006-09-10 07:39:42 · 6 answers · asked by HEY 1 in Singles & Dating

Here's a question that we have all been pondering. I found a really great short reading. It's a tribute for the nice guys who always finish last.

http://www.stwing.upenn.edu/~jenf/writing/rant04.html

Quoted from the excerpt.
"This is for the guys who escort their drunk, bewildered female friends back from parties and never take advantage once they’re at her door, for the guys who accompany girls to bars as buffers against the rest of the creepy male population, for the guys who know a girl is fishing for compliments but give them out anyway, for the guys who always play by the rules in a game where the rules favor cheaters, for the guys who are accredited as boyfriend material but somehow don’t end up being boyfriends, for all the nice guys who are overlooked, underestimated, and unappreciated, for all the nice guys who are manipulated, misled, and unjustly abandoned, this is for you."

2006-09-10 07:38:48 · 21 answers · asked by Gazhan 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-10 07:38:38 · 13 answers · asked by barbie d 1 in Singles & Dating

I moved out of the house about 5 months ago and my dad complains that I don't visit enough, which is true. I don't visit more often than I do for several different reasons, but I told him that I'd be more inclined to come over and visit him if he didn't smoke cigarettes. I hate everything about them, the mess, the way they smell, they make your hair and clothes reek and it irritates my sinuses. Even when I go back to the house when he's not there, my clothes will reek of cigarette smoke when I leave. He goes outside to smoke when I visit, but it doesn't eliminate the problem. Anyways, he's kind of offended that I told him that, but it's how I honestly feel. I didn't give him an ultimatum or anything or tell him I'd visit when he completely stopped smoking. I just said that I'd visit more if he didn't. I wanted some outside opinions. Do you guys think it was wrong of me to tell him that?

2006-09-10 07:38:12 · 18 answers · asked by Jenn 6 in Family

im 5''1 and 17yrs ol and i was wondering if height is would ever turn out to be a big problem when i date...:(

2006-09-10 07:37:37 · 38 answers · asked by nuUbi 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-10 07:37:26 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

At school we were very gud frns,never in relation with each other, later departed for carreer building,now both of us r well setteled.Moms had gud talk last month & asked for my opinion bout him,I without thinking seriously said...puri zindagi ek joker ke sath,No Way....but now I feel I'll be very happy if I get married to a known family and a jovial and lovable person.Seriously very much confused.Pls help

2006-09-10 07:37:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I travel a lot in my job, but I've been home for the past few weeks. I've been getting a lot of calls from guys asking "Is the coast clear?" My gf says she doesn't know. Could she be forecasting the weather and not telling me?

2006-09-10 07:37:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

1. Do you day dream?

2. Do you ever stay up all night and wonder what's going to happen the next day?

3. Do you ever have nightmares?

4. Do you ever think someones going to get you?

5. Do you wonder ever if the world could get any trashier?

6. Do you ever think twice about doing something your told not to?

7. Do you think you could trust anyone really in this world.?

8. What do you expect from other people around you?

9. Would you die for someone?

10. Do you sit around all day and think oh if I lay around I will be just fine, or get up and actually do something to make the day go by?

11. Did you ever feel oh I got enough money let me share it with charity.

12. Do you think people will realize one day that the world could be a better place if we did'nt trash it.

13. Did you ever lose a loved one.

14. Did you ever want something that you could not get?

15. Do you try to get along with everyone?

16. Do you believe what people will go through?

2006-09-10 07:36:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

There's a guy, that unfortunately I've been with, that calls me once every 2 months or so. I have a bf and I did while I was seeing him too. Needless to say my bf wants to kick his ***. Anyway, he calls for stupid sh*t every time. It's because he's immature and doesn't know how to problem solve. Well last night was a sort of prank call. I knew it was him because my stomach turns every time I hear his voice. Everyone I know, family, friends, and doctors offices, etc. have this number to call me. He doesn't call THAT often, but when he does it really messes with my head (and my bf's) Should I just give up my number? It's a company phone number that will be recycled to another employee that will probably know me. If he calls he WILL be obnoxious and ask if it's the same company. Then he WILL ask if they know me and he WILL tell them he's been with me. Should i just get rid of the phone number? Will the other employee just think it's a prank or lie? What would you do?

2006-09-10 07:36:16 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-10 07:35:39 · 6 answers · asked by Lisa S 2 in Singles & Dating

Here is the problem; I don't feel attracted to anyone i met. I say how that person is good looking or she is a nice person i get on well with her but i just don't have that attraction.

It the same with famous people everyone says that they like someone famous and would do something but i just don't have those feelings.

I just become friends with people and that’s it. Does this mean i have a low sex drive or i have lost my mojo am not sure.

Am 24 I should be going out and meeting people, but every time i do i don't see any one who gets me excited.

Some people might same this is latent homosexuality but its not because am not even attracted to men, actually there is no one that am really attracted to.
I am comfortable in my own body and who i am.

2006-09-10 07:35:38 · 18 answers · asked by confused 1 in Singles & Dating