Family & Relationships - 10 September 2006

My partner hasnt worked for a considerable amount of time due to a disability. We dont share the same house but we divide our time between both houses. It makes sense not to live with each other right now due to financial problems. I have however, been supporting him financially and what money he does get, he does contribute. He is also in the process of looking for work and has just applied for a good position with a well known employer. My question is, is it wrong to support him if we dont actually "Live" together. I know he isnt taking advantage of me as he helps me out in a lot of ways including household duties for me etc and the decorating. He has also been looking after me whilst i was ill and i stayed at his with my son and he looked after the both of us. My family say i am wrong to but i know if he had money, he would contribute even more. Am i just being paranoid??

2006-09-10 06:53:55 · 17 answers · asked by carolina 1 in Family

and by benefits I mean a person you go to on the side only to have sexual intercourse. Do you really find it exciting? Isn't that a wrong thing to do...

2006-09-10 06:52:34 · 20 answers · asked by Bibi 5 in Singles & Dating

my ex-boyfriend's not a bad guy.. he can be a complete idiot and perv but he's not all bad. he doesn't go to the same school that i do, but i see him fairly often at parties, and it's when i see him that i fall for him. i just saw him at a party yesterday.. i tried to avoid him and i didn't talk to him at all. my friends said he was staring at me the whole time.

i'm ok when i dont see him. i know i've got tons of other important things to focus on, and i feel so stupid for only thinking about my ex for the past few hours. i don't want to fall for him.. i don't mind remaining friends but i don't want to fall for him. help on getting over this?

2006-09-10 06:52:00 · 20 answers · asked by screamifyouwantbuticanthear 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I were playing basketball with his friend and one of my girlfriends.. My boyfriend was pressuring me to win, when I wasn't even that good in basketball and he knows it. But- then, we lost. And he was pissed off, and he just went off to go watch his friends play volley ball. He never does this- is he dissapointed in me? Do I have to meet his expectations? Why can't he accept that we lost one game, and it's not the end of the world?

2006-09-10 06:51:51 · 12 answers · asked by bratworth 2 in Singles & Dating

when ever were around each other were always in the mood and it's really hard to have countrol over it but it still a question of if it's time or if it's too early. it's been 6 month so i was just wondering how long do u have to wait until it right timing.

2006-09-10 06:51:37 · 13 answers · asked by clueless 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

answer my questions plzzzzz

2006-09-10 06:51:26 · 7 answers · asked by andralynn147 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a friend that is going out with one girl in Brisbane (3000km away). They are very close and always calling each other with him visiting her for a week every 6 months.
He has a girlfriend here and has a 1 year old child to her, she knows about his GF away (Brisbane), and lets him do it, but the GF away don't know about her and my friends daughter.
I have thought out what to do, but what would you do or say?

2006-09-10 06:50:52 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i was unhappy in our relationship, thinking of getting a divorce for other reasons, i met someone else that i want to be with. he caught me and wants a divorce, which is the best thing all around. but he is from another state and needs to stay with me until he can save up money to move back, which is fine with me cause i would never kick him out with out any money. but i feel really horrible for hurting him, and though he is angry with me, he is being so nice to me! we still care about each other and wish nothing bad to each other, but i don't know how to handle being "roommates" with him, it is so wierd!

2006-09-10 06:49:59 · 42 answers · asked by sweet serinity 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-10 06:47:40 · 29 answers · asked by Jackie 4 in Singles & Dating

He works days, very sports oriented, has friends all over the place but has expressed interest in me over two years and now I can oly get his attention after hours...

2006-09-10 06:47:17 · 15 answers · asked by J 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-10 06:46:12 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i he always interested in other girls, when ever we go out he never cares about me, always interested in other gals, i not able to tolerate at all, but i want to be in this relationship

2006-09-10 06:46:03 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

the dds here in n.c. knows that my daughter is almost 19 and quit school at 16 . i am not behind on payments either. why don't they stop it??? i've called my dds several times, sd they sent my ex a letter??? they keep telling that she has to stop it??? what kind of system is this that lets a woman just keep taking ? do these people who work in child support even do their job.??

2006-09-10 06:45:07 · 6 answers · asked by princesswhitepaw 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

We used to be roommates (a few years ago) & I have since grown apart. I want to let him down easy without hurting his feelings too much.

2006-09-10 06:44:44 · 6 answers · asked by politleydumpfriend 1 in Friends

Why did you find him / her the sweetest?

2006-09-10 06:44:37 · 19 answers · asked by vanchit 2 in Friends

I'd like to start some traditions in my family and I need some ideas. What traditions does your family have or what traditions did your family have when you were growing up? (If it helps, I have two small children, both girls 4 and almost 2.)

2006-09-10 06:43:59 · 10 answers · asked by cldb730 4 in Family

My good girl-friend can buy herself (and has) anything she wants. I dont have much $, and her birthday is next week. I cant think of what to buy her that she would like and appreciate. HELP.

2006-09-10 06:43:42 · 13 answers · asked by Monkeygirl 2 in Friends

how could i get to sleep with my girlfriend of 2 years sisters .....wow they are so hot its unbelieveable....i actually masterbate thinking of each of them and well tingle when each are in the room. Recently i was out with all three for one of their birthdays and one of em kept slapping my butt....what could i do to encourage something real cool.......or is it just a fantasy that will never happen????

2006-09-10 06:43:39 · 10 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-10 06:42:50 · 7 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-10 06:42:15 · 15 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-10 06:41:02 · 14 answers · asked by twinpeaks 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-10 06:40:59 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

because i love you. a lot
i cant even stand it
i want to be with you.

2006-09-10 06:40:42 · 12 answers · asked by Ashley 3 in Family

2006-09-10 06:40:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-10 06:40:23 · 7 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3 in Singles & Dating

its for my 7 year old sis here are what we have slip & slide, baloons,movie and party snappers how can i make it fun useing those items if i need more things tell me!

2006-09-10 06:40:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-09-10 06:39:56 · 5 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-10 06:38:32 · 11 answers · asked by wanttoknowgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

We will have been dating for six months next month, which is also the day of her 18th birthday. She says that she is madly in love with me and it is a very strong relationship. Would me buying her a ring freak or out or would she like it?

2006-09-10 06:38:29 · 11 answers · asked by mattbabq 1 in Singles & Dating

I am talking about guys that you meet for the first time for a date whether it be from online dating or someone who asked you out?

2006-09-10 06:38:12 · 1 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Singles & Dating