and by benefits I mean a person you go to on the side only to have sexual intercourse. Do you really find it exciting? Isn't that a wrong thing to do...
2006-09-10 06:52:34 · 20 answers · asked by Bibi 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's called "Mutually Consenting Adults". If there is no harm and you both know what you're doing...
2006-09-10 06:57:03 · answer #1 · answered by westgaliberty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're in a permanent relationship with someone, don't do the friends with benefits "on the side". In this day and age, it's just unfair to put him/her at risk or deceive them in any way. If you're "available", that is not seriously dating someone else, friends with benefits can be more open to all types of communication and help you grow as a person.
2006-09-10 13:59:23 · answer #2 · answered by michael m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never had the desire to have a friend with benefits ... needless to say I really prefer to have sex that has meaning as well in a commited relationship. To each its own however..
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brilliant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-10 13:56:55 · answer #3 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had friends w/benefits, a few years back. It was fun, the sex was great, blah,blah,blah.
Someone always takes it a little more serious , and it falls out of balance. Fun for a while, but has a lot of complications.
2006-09-10 13:58:47 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. Feelgood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've done it. Was an old ex from many years back. Was great for me until he started wanting to be with me again, and he had a girlfriend! (I was single at the time.) Not wrong to do unless someone is married. Was great for me...scratched an itch without meeting someone just for sex that I didn't really know.
2006-09-10 13:56:21 · answer #5 · answered by GreenEyedSista 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not all that exciteing...I don't see how it could be all that wrong....but sooner or later the "no strings attached" part turns into stronger feelings and puts a strain on the friends part....trust me it happens!!!
2006-09-10 14:00:12 · answer #6 · answered by budlowsbro420 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had one before. But its not as bad as everyone made it sound. I wasn't with anyone else at the time and niether was he. Neither of us wanted a relationship at the time. We always used protection and when one of us got involved with someone else, we stopped seeing each other.
2006-09-10 13:59:46 · answer #7 · answered by collegebusygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i used to a long time ago....only thing is, as time goes on more and more people get HIV, which means the people who dont have it chances of getting it increases every single day....I stopped while I was ahead
I will leave the game in your hands now, have fun
2006-09-10 13:57:10 · answer #8 · answered by dyno_bot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have one,i want it to be more but she doesn't so I'll keep what i got until i get what i want. But that's all i have right now and i don't do two at the same time.
2006-09-10 13:56:45 · answer #9 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How many? Just two of us - me and that other person - the one with multiple accounts.
Wrong? Define 'wrong' Clintonian-style.
2006-09-10 14:01:00 · answer #10 · answered by Beejee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋